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Single, Saved, and Wanting a H.U.S.B.A.N.D

For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord . “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope. In those days when you pray, I will listen. If you look for me wholeheartedly, you will find me.
Jeremiah 29:11‭-‬13 NLT
https://bible.com/bible/116/jer.29.11-13.NLT

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Let me make this clear. I am God’s Rahab… not Jezebel . His Rahab with a dash of Bathsheba .

So I’m in this season of my life and I’m like okay God, you’ve broken that independent I dont need no man … I’m a strong black woman spirit out of me. Where is my man ? It’s not like I can’t get one .. but I just want a man who is going to love me like Hosea… yet STILL be my David.

So I guess because my answer did not come WHEN I wanted, I decided I was going to start looking on my own because I KNOW my husband is a prophet like Hosea(Ezekiel 2:5).

Anyways….

I was at church and I saw a VERY SINGLE saved man of God preaching the infallible word and I mean HE PREACHED ! Every one was hype and He made it clear that He was single. Did a altar call and everything and I thought he looked at me (I could be crazy though) … But anyways .

After my DATES WITH JESUS time , I asked God “what about this man as my husband ” and clear as day God said “No. He is not your David.”

So I’m shocked like “wooooooowwwwww God.. let me do me … let me do me..”

But ofcourse God knows better than me. He warned me that man was secretly very lazy (which God knows I hate in a man) and He would never do what God tells him to do !

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Now let me tell you something. I have disobeyed enough warnings from God to have my heart broken to know when God is speaking about someone. So I heeded. But then I asked him about another man who is a Pastor (pray for me)… and God said NO ! So at this point I’m hurt and I’m basically telling God he dont love me. And the thing is I’m not asking about the man to be a temptress… but I’m asking God like a Ruth. But anyways….

I wrote this to say if you’re a single woman waiting for your husband just wait and pray. Know that you’re not alone. If I could be honest I want a husband myself and I want a M.A.N like Peter. Not a coward but a real man. So I wrote this in faith , to encourage those who are waiting to be still ! Dont go buying him prophetic gifts ahead of time.. dont move ahead of God just be still and keep working your husband will come.

…. BUT AS FOR ME ! IF yall see my David tell him to hurry up ! I’m irritated lol have a good night .

Diamond ❤

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The Wife Of Noble Character

Proverbs 31:30 New International Version (NIV)

30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;
    but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.

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You know what I have learned? Beauty does not substitute the power of prayer and a relationship with God. In this life you have some women who who rely on surgery and botox for beauty … but that will get you no where.

I believe that women are supposed to and are allowed to be beautiful. I don’t believe in all this stupid gender confusion. I believe that God made Adam… and then from his rib he made Eve.

As a single woman myself (and I do desire a husband), I have had a very strong past of bad relationships. A string of them actually… and I have learned the painful lesson (like Gomer) that there is nothing better than staying in the will of God.

The Gift of God

We as Christians do not understand how beautiful it is to have a family… and how this is an amazing gift. To have a woman/wife who is NOT going to abuse you.. hurt you but listen to all of your fears and pray for you.. It is a gift.. it is so rare that The Bible says who can find it?

Proverbs 31:10 New International Version (NIV)

Epilogue: The Wife of Noble Character

10 [a]A wife of noble character who can find?
    She is worth far more than rubies.

Cherish What God Has Given You

Anything that God gives you, you have to work to maintain and keep it. Little by little God will bless you, but you have to remain faithful. Maybe your husband isn’t here right now but do you believe that God is going to do it? If you are a man reading this ( I do not stand for homosexuality) if you believe that your wife is coming … are you getting ready?

Cherish everyday that you spend with God in these days that you have being single (like me). Learn how to maintain yourself, learn how to cook, learn how to pray with authority, and learn how to trust GOD NO MATTER THE CIRCUMSTANCE. Learn Prayer Like This,

Matthew 6:5-15 New International Version (NIV)

Prayer

5 “And when you pray, do not be like the hypocrites, for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the street corners to be seen by others. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward in full. 6 But when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you. 7 And when you pray, do not keep on babbling like pagans, for they think they will be heard because of their many words. 8 Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask him.

9 “This, then, is how you should pray:

“‘Our Father in heaven,
hallowed be your name,
10 your kingdom come,
your will be done,
    on earth as it is in heaven.
11 Give us today our daily bread.
12 And forgive us our debts,
    as we also have forgiven our debtors.
13 And lead us not into temptation,[a]
    but deliver us from the evil one.[b]’

14 For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. 15 But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.

Enjoy Your Time… that you have with God before you are married and be content in every season as a single woman or man.

God bless,

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So You Want To Be Married ?

As the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without deeds is dead.
James 2:26 NIV
https://james.bible/james-2-26

In My Life

I have encountered so many women who say that they want to be married and that they are waiting for their Boaz . And there is NOTHING wrong with that… But This is The PROBLEM that I have.

Faith without works is DEAD !

I Get You Want To Be Married

But why is your house nasty? You have a sink full of dishes , nasty clothes hanging around the room , you dont bathe , and you dont buy groceries yet you want a husband?

I even see women who get mad at their husbands because they dont desire them anymore… then they go to church cry and whining telling everybody about how “terrible” their husband is … but your HOUSE is N.A.S.T.Y !

Clean your House ! Clean your room ! Just CLEAN !

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But what if I don’t have a house but a roommate?

Ok. Well you can still clean. The Bible tells us to be faithful with little and THEN you can bet trusted with much.

“Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much, and whoever is dishonest with very little will also be dishonest with much. So if you have not been trustworthy in handling worldly wealth, who will trust you with true riches?
Luke 16:10‭-‬11 NIV
https://bible.com/bible/111/luk.16.10-11.NIV

Nobody in this world is perfect, the only one who is without sin is Jesus Christ our risen king our savior (Psalm 24:1). During this time while you’re waiting for your husband why dont you

  1. Get a prayer schedule
  2. Start applying for jobs, school, or go to work
  3. Serve at church and give to the homeless
  4. Be DETEREMINED to sit down and read the entire Bible
  5. Ask God for your purpose
  6. FOCUS ON HIM
  7. Learn how to clean,cook, and maintain the living space God has given you.
  8. And Before you know it your husband will be there

God Wants To Protect Your Mind

A secret hidden killer against the Christian mind is fantasy.

A person is praised according to their prudence, and one with a warped mind is despised. Those who work their land will have abundant food, but those who chase fantasies have no sense.
Proverbs 12:8‭, ‬11 NIV
https://bible.com/bible/111/pro.12.8-11.NIV

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Christian women have to be SO careful! Many women before us have made IDOLS out of husbands who are really terrible. But God is raising a Davidic Marriage. He is giving beauty for Ashes. Dont listen to random voices telling you to go to places and all of this “God told me who my husband is” foolishness. You need to accept a God reality. Dont make random videos about him that GOD did not tell you to . Dont follow people who are adulterous women and bash men. Dont listen to advice of women who hate their husbands . But instead be quiet and prayerful in SECRET so that when you look up (while working) your husband will be right there ready to sweep you off of your feet.

This Is The Time To Prepare

The Bible says God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16) yet it still happens. Look at Xerxes and Vashti… David and Michal. So what if your husband is a man who has a ex-wife … Do you think he wants to deal with you and your foolishness ?

We as women forget that men have feelings to. They cry to , they hurt to, they get depressed to, and we are supposed to help them (by the grace of God) to get through every trial that they face…. not ADD to their struggles.

No man wants to come home after working all day to a nasty home , you walking around with basketball shorts and bonnet, arguing over nothing, and then lay down with you after YOU have acted a fool. And God will HONOR his decisions to NOT be with you … why ? Because it’s in God’s Holy Word.

So sis… if you feel convicted . Get your life together. Go into your room or prayer room or prayer Closet and REPENT and let God get your life all the way together. Because God wants your marriage to work. He doesnt do unnecessary drama. God is direct and he is a God of reality.

Love In Christ,

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The Love Story of David & Bathsheba

This Is One Of My Favorites

Out of all the love stories in The Bible … I have a tie of which one I love the most.

Its between Hosea & Gomer and David & Bathsheba ❤ .

I Love Bath-sheba

Honestly, I relate to her. I think when it comes to life we make mistakes … but David & Bath-sheba love was interwoven into the love , life, and lineage of Jesus Christ. The Bible tells,

Then David and Bathsheba had a son named Solomon, who had a son named Rehoboam, who had a son named Abijah, who had a son named Asa, who was the father of Joseph, the husband of Mary the mother of Jesus, who is called “the Anointed One.” So from Abraham to David were fourteen generations, and from David to the Babylonian captivity, fourteen generation, and from the Babylonian captivity to Christ, fourteen generations. This was how Jesus, God’s Anointed One, was born. His mother, Mary, had promised Joseph to be his wife, but while she was still a virgin she became pregnant through the power of the Holy Spirit. Her fiancé, Joseph, was a righteous man full of integrity and he didn’t want to disgrace her, but when he learned of her pregnancy he secretly planned to break the engagement. While he was still debating with himself about what to do, he fell asleep and had a supernatural dream. An angel from the Lord appeared to him in clear light and said, “Joseph, descendant of David, don’t hesitate to take Mary into your home as your wife, because the power of the Holy Spirit has conceived a child in her womb. She will give birth to a son and you are to name him ‘Savior,’ for he is destined to give his life to save his people from their sins.” This happened so that what the Lord spoke through his prophet would come true: Listen! A virgin will be pregnant, she will give birth to a Son, and he will be known as “Emmanuel,” which means in Hebrew, “God became one of us.” When Joseph awoke from his dream, he did all that the angel of the Lord instructed him to do. He took Mary to be his wife, but they refrained from having sex until she gave birth to her son, whom they named “Jesus.”
Matthew 1:7‭, ‬16‭-‬25 TPT
https://bible.com/bible/1849/mat.1.7-25.TPT

The Truth

I wrote this because I have seen some articles about David & Bath-sheba that are NOT true. He didnt rape her they actually made love according to The Bible.

This is why we have to know the word of God for ourselves … especially when it comes to biblical love.

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Me personally I dont think there’s anything wrong with the love that David & Bath-sheba shared because she obviously was very important to David.. and GOD. God put her in his lineage of his beloved son Jesus.

My point of view will always be biblical God loved David & Bathsheba and He always will.

And hearing the multitude pass by, he asked what it meant. And they told him, that Jesus of Nazareth passeth by. And he cried, saying, Jesus, thou Son of David, have mercy on me. And they which went before rebuked him, that he should hold his peace: but he cried so much the more, Thou Son of David, have mercy on me. And Jesus stood, and commanded him to be brought unto him: and when he was come near, he asked him, Saying, What wilt thou that I shall do unto thee? And he said, Lord, that I may receive my sight. And Jesus said unto him, Receive thy sight: thy faith hath saved thee. And immediately he received his sight, and followed him, glorifying God: and all the people, when they saw it, gave praise unto God.
Luke 18:36‭-‬43 KJV
https://bible.com/bible/1/luk.18.36-43.KJV

Loved Mixed With Faith ❤,

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Evening Prayer: Healing

Dear Lord Heavenly Father ,

I pray your word according to (Matthew 6). I cast down every demonic thought of witchcraft by the blood of JESUS (James 2:19) only through YOU do we have power. No weapon formed against me shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17) and I decree the blessings of Abraham over my life. In Jesus Name I pray.. Thank God Amen.

The Lord had said to Abram, ‘Leave your country and the people of your father’s family. Go to the land that I will show you. I will cause your descendants to become a great nation . I will bless you. Everyone will know your name. You will bring my blessing to other people. I will bless those people who bless you. But I will curse anyone who insults you. Through you, I will bless all the families of people on the earth.’ Abram did what the Lord had told him. He left Haran. Abram was 75 years old when he left Haran. Lot went with him.
Genesis 12:1‭-‬4 EASY
https://bible.com/bible/2079/gen.12.1-4.EASY

Amen .

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Redeemed

Isaiah 53:5 New Living Translation (NLT)

5 But he was pierced for our rebellion,
    crushed for our sins.
He was beaten so we could be whole.
    He was whipped so we could be healed.

In life we take so many things for granted. You don’t realize how blessed you are to be married until you are divorced because you abused your spouse. You don’t realize how fortunate you are to have a home until you are homeless. You don’t realize the value of Biblical stewardship until you have lost all your money. You don’t realize so many things until you lose everything….

Psalm 68:5-6 The Message (MSG)

5-6 Father of orphans,
    champion of widows,
        is God in his holy house.
God makes homes for the homeless,
    leads prisoners to freedom,
        but leaves rebels to rot in hell.

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I think about Gomer, Hosea’s wife.. How she chased another man instead of staying with her husband. She left her life and stability because she wanted someone else.. The things of the world… and then after she was destroyed finally her Hosea… her husband came.

If you ever watch the movie Amazing Love, it will give you a understanding of marriage. Of Love. This woman ……. Gomer, a beautiful woman left her family for another man. One day, she didn’t want to dance… she didn’t want to engage in her new boyfriend’s festivities … and what did he do? He removed her from his presence.. All her pretty clothes? Gone. All her beauty? Now destroyed.

And to make matters worst… She is exposed in front of everyone.. and she sits there in bondage.. dirty and destroyed while people are making bets on her and mocking her.. Gomer… This beautiful woman now destroyed… and then…. Hosea comes… and even though she left him and even though she looks dirty with rags on… He picks her and takes her. That’s love.

My Testimony

I grew up in the church, yet I was so abused as a child. Sexually abused, mentally, physically, and emotionally… I was the Vice President of the Choir lead praise and worship and went to the wilderness… Then I started working again , had a good job as debt collector had another job working at Macy’s but left God.. and went to stripping and prostitution. I had a little boyfriend and one day I decided I didn’t want to dance anymore. I stopped going to the strip club and he just left me…

I am Gomer. I remember when I had everything… When I had money, when I had all that I could want and I left God… and lost everything… As I travel through life, waiting and wondering God when…. God why… God how… when are you going to do it? When are you going to deliver me… God when.. please God … please… when. I think of Gomer

Beaten, bruised, and dirty… yet redeemed.

Hosea 3 New Living Translation (NLT)

Hosea’s Wife Is Redeemed

3 Then the Lord said to me, “Go and love your wife again, even though she[a] commits adultery with another lover. This will illustrate that the Lord still loves Israel, even though the people have turned to other gods and love to worship them.[b]”

2 So I bought her back for fifteen pieces of silver[c] and five bushels of barley and a measure of wine.[d] 3 Then I said to her, “You must live in my house for many days and stop your prostitution. During this time, you will not have sexual relations with anyone, not even with me.[e]”

4 This shows that Israel will go a long time without a king or prince, and without sacrifices, sacred pillars, priests,[f] or even idols! 5 But afterward the people will return and devote themselves to the Lord their God and to David’s descendant, their king.[g] In the last days, they will tremble in awe of the Lord and of his goodness.

As I walk by faith and not by sight… Through the darkest valley… I pray . Sometimes that’s all you can do is pray. We take grace to far. We think we can do everything we want to do without natural consequences…. My consequence was losing everything the pretty clothes, my beauty, my success, my friends… but yet I will not despise the chastening of the LORD.

So today when you listen to stupid city girls and cardi b and they talk about prostitution, don’t be deceived.

Love Mixed With Faith <3,

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