So You Want To Be Married ?

As the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without deeds is dead.
James 2:26 NIV
https://james.bible/james-2-26

In My Life

I have encountered so many women who say that they want to be married and that they are waiting for their Boaz . And there is NOTHING wrong with that… But This is The PROBLEM that I have.

Faith without works is DEAD !

I Get You Want To Be Married

But why is your house nasty? You have a sink full of dishes , nasty clothes hanging around the room , you dont bathe , and you dont buy groceries yet you want a husband?

I even see women who get mad at their husbands because they dont desire them anymore… then they go to church cry and whining telling everybody about how “terrible” their husband is … but your HOUSE is N.A.S.T.Y !

Clean your House ! Clean your room ! Just CLEAN !

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But what if I don’t have a house but a roommate?

Ok. Well you can still clean. The Bible tells us to be faithful with little and THEN you can bet trusted with much.

“Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much, and whoever is dishonest with very little will also be dishonest with much. So if you have not been trustworthy in handling worldly wealth, who will trust you with true riches?
Luke 16:10‭-‬11 NIV
https://bible.com/bible/111/luk.16.10-11.NIV

Nobody in this world is perfect, the only one who is without sin is Jesus Christ our risen king our savior (Psalm 24:1). During this time while you’re waiting for your husband why dont you

  1. Get a prayer schedule
  2. Start applying for jobs, school, or go to work
  3. Serve at church and give to the homeless
  4. Be DETEREMINED to sit down and read the entire Bible
  5. Ask God for your purpose
  6. FOCUS ON HIM
  7. Learn how to clean,cook, and maintain the living space God has given you.
  8. And Before you know it your husband will be there

God Wants To Protect Your Mind

A secret hidden killer against the Christian mind is fantasy.

A person is praised according to their prudence, and one with a warped mind is despised. Those who work their land will have abundant food, but those who chase fantasies have no sense.
Proverbs 12:8‭, ‬11 NIV
https://bible.com/bible/111/pro.12.8-11.NIV

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Christian women have to be SO careful! Many women before us have made IDOLS out of husbands who are really terrible. But God is raising a Davidic Marriage. He is giving beauty for Ashes. Dont listen to random voices telling you to go to places and all of this “God told me who my husband is” foolishness. You need to accept a God reality. Dont make random videos about him that GOD did not tell you to . Dont follow people who are adulterous women and bash men. Dont listen to advice of women who hate their husbands . But instead be quiet and prayerful in SECRET so that when you look up (while working) your husband will be right there ready to sweep you off of your feet.

This Is The Time To Prepare

The Bible says God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16) yet it still happens. Look at Xerxes and Vashti… David and Michal. So what if your husband is a man who has a ex-wife … Do you think he wants to deal with you and your foolishness ?

We as women forget that men have feelings to. They cry to , they hurt to, they get depressed to, and we are supposed to help them (by the grace of God) to get through every trial that they face…. not ADD to their struggles.

No man wants to come home after working all day to a nasty home , you walking around with basketball shorts and bonnet, arguing over nothing, and then lay down with you after YOU have acted a fool. And God will HONOR his decisions to NOT be with you … why ? Because it’s in God’s Holy Word.

So sis… if you feel convicted . Get your life together. Go into your room or prayer room or prayer Closet and REPENT and let God get your life all the way together. Because God wants your marriage to work. He doesnt do unnecessary drama. God is direct and he is a God of reality.

Love In Christ,

Precious- Diamond Chessier

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Am I Allowed To Be Beautiful?

1 Samuel 25:3 This man’s name was Nabal, and his wife, Abigail, was a sensible and beautiful woman. But Nabal, a descendant of Caleb, was crude and mean in all his dealings.

My Story:

When I was twenty years old, I moved to California after being stationed with the intentions of marrying someone. He was handsome and made me believe that he “had love for me”. However, God told me not to marry him… I didn’t marry him but I continued dating him. God told me that he was talking to someone else but of course I didn’t listen and…. He married someone else behind my back.

It hurt…

It hurt not only because one of our mutual friends knew and I had to find out by walking in on their conversation. But it hurt because she looked nothing like me. She was light skinned, petite, curly hair, and they partied together. I didn’t party, I went to church but I made time for him. I felt lied to and humiliated. It was even worst because even after they were married he just for some reason wanted to always friend me on social media or get in contact with me….

Then one day… God showed me who I was in Christ.. Abigail.

I listened to God after I got my closure for him, I blocked him… for good this time… and I let him go.

Not only that, I have decided that I am not going to attack the woman he is married to or hate her because she is light skin… God made her like he made me. There is nothing I can do about that. But I trust God… one day I’ll have my David and I’ll be like Abigail with a dash of Bathsheba (you don’t know when to shout).

Why am I saying this?

After bad relationships, you can’t hate a certain ethnicity because a man broke your heart. That’s not the will of God. Eve was the mother of all living. God said his House will be called a house of prayer for all nations…. So that means if you really love Jesus… you have to forgive.

Yes…

It hurt… I cried so many times… If only you knew . But there is a little piece in my heart that still trust God. It may be hard right now…. But its going to get better.

Psalms 30:5 For his anger lasts only a moment, but his favor lasts a lifetime! Weeping may last through the night, but joy comes with the morning.

Love Mixed With Faith,

Precious-Diamond Chessier  ❤

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Daily Bread: Weekly Devotion

On last night God dealt with me heavily in a dream about who we are as a church. He told me we missed the move of God which was the Esther anointing. We got so distracted by stupid things and conspiracy that had NOTHING to do with what God is doing. And we missed it and now it’s to late. We did the wrong thing at the wrong time.

* * * Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with that person, and they with me. To the one who is victorious, I will give the right to sit with me on my throne, just as I was victorious and sat down with my Father on his throne. Whoever has ears, let them hear what the Spirit says to the churches.” Revelation 3:20‭-‬22 NIV https://bible.com/bible/111/rev.3.20-…

* This weeks devotion… Let’s be more intune with the Holy Spirit and not with Satan. The enemy disguises himself as a messenger of light (2 Corinthians 11:14). Focus more on Jesus and less on Kanye West for he boldly digisued himself as a messenger of light. But GOD is exalted . Amen.

* * * Lord I pray for the Apostolic Movement and a radical outcry of boldness against the devil. Lord I ask that you send the One prophet (1 Kings 22:25) to tell the truth. Lord I ask that you would raise up a Esther For Such A Time As This and that you restore the correct order and fear of God (Proverbs 9:10). Let us remember that Revelation is still in the Bible and Lord I ask that you rebuke the spirit of insanity off of the prophets mind. In JESUS Name I pray Thank God Amen. This weeks reading Psalms 31 NIV