Alot of times when you hear of singleness you think of the joyous times leading up to marriage. In your heart and mind you’ve probably already picked the wedding cake, his tuxedo, your shoes , and have planned the location…

But my question to you is…. do you have fruit of the spirit ?

“Watch out for false prophets. They come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ferocious wolves. By their fruit you will recognize them. Do people pick grapes from thornbushes, or figs from thistles? Likewise, every good tree bears good fruit, but a bad tree bears bad fruit. A good tree cannot bear bad fruit, and a bad tree cannot bear good fruit. Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire. Thus, by their fruit you will recognize them.
Matthew 7:15‭-‬20 NIV
https://bible.com/bible/111/mat.7.15-20.NIV

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As a saved single (woman) are you preparing your strength in spiritual, mental, and physical fitness for your God given task ? Are you a hardworker or do you sleep all day ? The Bible says faith without works is dead. You can believe God for your husband , but are you doing the work to keep the husband.

For example:

• Nobody wants to come home after working all day and your house is nasty… but you’ve been on YouTube all day.. Facebook and other social media. Ok.
• Nobody wants to work all day and come home and food is not even cooked. Even if you made a mistake are you going to order food ? Or are you going to be stubborn and rebellious and tell your husband “he can make his own food”.
• Nobody wants to stay married to a woman who literally gets mad at every little thing. Nobody wants to live with that. The bible says,

Better to live on the corner of a roof than to share a house with a nagging wife.
Proverbs 21:9 CSB
https://bible.com/bible/1713/pro.21.9.CSB

• Finally nobody wants to be married to a woman who is a bad mother. Those days are ending. Understand that there was a Vashti before a Esther. Which one are you ?

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As a single you need the Whole Armor of God (Ephesians 6:10-20). Learn how to Pray, Wake, and Slay… All while keeping your house clean. In these times you have to ask God to deliver you from pride and laziness because life is tough and sometimes so is marriage.

Prayer

Lord I ask for humility according to Matthew 7:7 to be a saved single and have a successful godly marriage. In Jesus Name. Amen.

• Titus 2:5-8

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