Tag: mental-health

Navigating Through An Anti-Parenting Workplace

Proverbs 3:5-6New International Version

5 Trust in the Lord with all your heart
    and lean not on your own understanding;
6 in all your ways submit to him,
    and he will make your paths straight.

The Workforce

          As you can see the workforce is not bending in the direction to be pro-parenthood. In a day and time where abortion has become the answer for so many women, but God says not to have abortion. Finding a job can feel like the end of the world, and it can feel like you are running into a dead end.

          However, I want you to know that the old saints used to say, “Trouble don’t last always”. That means that what you are going through now will be laughable to you in the years to come. I am not telling you not to worry because you have every right to be worried. But what I am saying is that you have to focus your mind and lean to the understanding that God already has it worked out.

          Money is something that can cause people to commit suicide. One of the factors of suicide is not having employment and that tends to happen in the middle class. With that being said, try to focus on the positive and try your best to grab ahold to something positive so that you do not feel depressed and feel like you are losing your mind in this terrible workforce. I hope and pray that things do get better for you and that supernaturally your prayers will be answered for you to have employment and have a job that you need so that you are not homeless.

Minister Precious-Diamond S. Chessier

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Use Your 24 Hours Wisely

Use Your 24 Hours Wisely

Do not be excessively wicked, and do not be a fool. Why should you die before your time? – Ecclesiastes 7:17

Do Not Keep Bad Company

          There are some people that will never do you any wrong, but they are just not a good friend for you. So many people are “crashing out” for a friend, but ask yourself.. Will they do the same for you? I had to learn hard lessons about defending and protecting people, who will not do the same for me.

          If your friend is making a bad decision, then do not join in with them. At the end of the day you are responsible for your own life. When you stand before God, you have to answer for yourself and not for anyone else.

          You have to make the right choices that lead you down a better path of success. But you crashing out for your friend is a bad move.

Do Not Ruin Your Life For A Relationship

          Sex is very dangerous, and when you have sex with the wrong person it can cause you to make bad decisions in your life. If you have a friend who has had sex with a man, and now all of a sudden she gets quiet when you walk around then you need to let them go. Because if she comes to work fighting over a man who is not even her husband, that can ruin your life. Her bad decisions should have nothing to do with you. But instead focus on yourself.

          At the end of the day, you cannot deny that people are “crashing out” for friends who care nothing about them. I can only speak from experience and share with you lessons that  I learned. You have to be responsible for yourself. Do not vouch for anyone , but only vouch for yourself.

Minister Precious-Diamond S. Chessier

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I Have A Problem With Women Who Lie About Being Raped

Genesis 39:12-18 CEV

Potiphar’s wife grabbed hold of his coat and said, “Make love to me!” Joseph ran out of the house, leaving his coat there in her hands. When this happened, she called in her servants and said, “Look! This Hebrew has come just to make fools of us. He tried to rape me, but I screamed for help. And when he heard me scream, he ran out of the house, leaving his coat with me.” Potiphar’s wife kept Joseph’s coat until her husband came home. Then she said, “That Hebrew slave of yours tried to rape me! But when I screamed for help, he left his coat and ran out of the house.”

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Now I am a woman , who had a very traumatic childhood filled with sexual violence and it has been a terrible experience. I have connected with other women who have been sexually abused as well and it’s a terrible ordeal to go through . But … I realized that people are hearing my childhood story and then lying and saying what happened to me happened to them which is sick . Why would you want someone to rape you ? The mental agony of that ordeal is unbearable at times . I’m sure women who have been literally sexually assaulted would understand what I’m saying .

But there is this one lying heifer that just . Just look at the picture below .

Now … this woman ( Ayanna Jackson) is claiming that Tupac raped her … but … if he really raped you ( which I don’t believe he did ) then why are you posing in front of his mural with no emotional distress that a normal rape victim would have ? Now , this is why I’m saying something .

1 – If someone doesn’t say something years from now it will be revealed that she did lie about being raped and then the government will try to make excuses for men who really did rape someone and citing her story .

2 – She will inspire a new movement that even if a man looks at a woman that’s considered raped (because they know she lied ) and so many more innocent men will be thrown into jail who are particularly black because The USA is still racist systematically towards black men especially black men who are millionaires.

Now , this woman is crazy . Now nobody but them really know what she did last night , maybe the guys passed her around or maybe it was just her and Tupac , but obviously (judging by the way she still lust after him ) whatever happened was absolutely consensual intercourse . No , I do not think Tupac Shakur should be considered a registered sex offender because the alleged victim (judging by the picture ) is openly telling people she still wants to have sex with Tupac Shakur .


Queen Diamond

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I Want To Discuss The Topic Of Abuse

Isaiah 54:17New King James Version

17 No weapon formed against you shall prosper,
And every tongue which rises against you in judgment
You shall condemn.
This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord,
And their righteousness is from Me,”
Says the Lord.

As you all know I am divorcing a man who was very abusive to me financially , emotionally, and sometimes physically. Yet , I realized while doing therapy that I made that bad decision because of my childhood and not healing properly from it . Which is sadly common that people who were abused tend to go to an abuser in a relationship until they heal from what happened. Yet , while I looked online I saw something so disturbing and I won’t say there name but I will say it was disturbing . I saw a picture that a man made his wife cover her face in a leather mask , a bathing suit , and made her make him a sandwich and then posted a picture of it . One could only imagine what goes on behind the camera. Yet , in the midst of seeing that God said to me , “you couldn’t imagine what I am sparing you from and this is nothing compared to what is to come “. Sadly , because of social media abusive relationships are looking trendy because of a picture when in actuality it’s sick and sadistic . Abuse is never okay . People should not have to live with constant violence and chaos . I have had to learn that it’s better to be alone then be with a abuser . In my own situation I had to make the decision to ignore the church folk that told me to stay and instead follow Jesus instead . People of God and even people who are just coming across my blog , a man making a woman wear a leather mask in the house and nothing but a bathing suit , in heels to make him a sandwich is abuse and it is not normal and that is not art … it’s abuse .

Let Us Get Healthy & Whole ,

Queen Diamond

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