Tag: mental-health

Today I Realized That Life Is Not Fair and I am Okay With That

2 Thessalonians 3:9-11Amplified Bible, Classic Edition

9 [It was] not because we do not have a right [to such support], but [we wished] to make ourselves an example for you to follow.

10 For while we were yet with you, we gave you this rule and charge: If anyone will not work, neither let him eat.

11 Indeed, we hear that some among you are disorderly [that they are passing their lives in idleness, neglectful of duty], being busy with other people’s affairs instead of their own and doing no work.

Social Media Exposing It All

Lately the truth has been coming out on social media – via Tik Tok, YouTube, Instagram, and Facebook. The economy is in shambles, people are struggling, and people are tired. I always been a hard worker, but I used to wonder why I had to work 10x harder than everyone else. One day God told me , “Because everyone else will not have what you have”. Anything in life requires work. You have to work to stay in shape. Work to be attractive. Work to have nice clothes. Work to pay rent. You have to work. But for some reason, I have encountered some black men (mind you I am black-latina) that refuse to work. Not only do they refuse to work, but they think they can take the shortcut of doing sexual or satanic rituals in the work place in order to arise and God is putting a stop to that.

I had to leave my ex-husband Ra’keem, because he had gotten involved with some people who said that he could perform a ritual and then succeed (Isaiah 54:17). Normally, someone would have gotten away with that but in my case, God blocked it. Sad to say I am starting to see more black men leave the workforce and sadly more black women following suit.

You know black people have gone through some terrible things and I do not understand why black people are making the blatant choice to destroy themselves. Ironically, lately Caucasian people have been nicer to me than black people. Black women have been rude, but the remnant of black women who know Christ have been kind. Also, black women have forsaken marriage and have started to marry one another which is lesbianism. Needless to say, black culture is looking pretty bad.

What I Have Been Told Is Not True

I have been told that I am spoiled and that I have no idea what it is like to be a black man in America, which is not true. I have been sexually abused, false accused of a crime in 2023 that was expunged because it was a lie, and called racist slurs in the south. I have gone through some terrible things – but I have had to face the fact that the root of everything that happened stemmed from ignorant black people. I do not wish to offend anyone, but I have to tell the truth.

After everything that I have gone through, sadly I have to tell my daughter (Ruth) to stay away from other black children. I am sad to report that. I do not mind her with Spanish kids or white kids – but as a mother when I looked at little black boys who claim to be bi-sexual and little black girls who already know how to have sex in elementary school – I worry. I am sad, that after everything that I have gone through and all the prejudice I have overcome – I have to keep my daughter away from black children.

I am disturbed as blacks are teaching there daughters how to twerk and not how to read. I am sad when I can’t even send my daughter to primarily black school – because of black on black crime. My own ex-husband Ra’keem betrayed me , because he would have rather done a ritual than to hold a stable job. Black people are killing each other, spreading HIV/AIDS, and getting hooked on drugs. I am grieved when I think about this truth and I pray for the remnant of black people that we can carry the legacy and honor of the civil rights movement and what they did for us. Let us remember Martin Luther King Jr. and how he marched for us, Rosa Parks how she stood up for us, and Harriet Tubman how she carried us. Malcom X included and others, I pray that we as the remnant of intelligent black people will carry the torch of what we have overcome.

Please, intelligent blacks heed my warning and go into solitude until God moves. Something is wrong with this generation of blacks. The word of God says, “There arose a generation who does not know the Lord”. It is sad and disturbing as to what has become of a entire black generation. I can only pray and intercede from this point on. The Civil Rights movement still holds power despite of and all those people who fought for our liberties do still matter.

Minister Precious-Diamond S. Chessier

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January Blues

January Blues

               It is the first month of 2026 and my heart weeps as I see obituary’s all over the internet. So many young people have died and the truth of the matter is this is a perilous time right now. I am very real and honest. I can say that I am wrestling bout’s of depression.

               My daughter is autistic and she is beautiful, loving, kind, and amazing (Ruth). I can’t find a job that is willing  to work with the schedule of a single mother with a special needs child. I have to pay rent. People have betrayed me. People have lied on me. I am in a 3-year battle of getting a divorce. Needless to say I am tired , but I keep pressing on.

               I want you to know that if you have to take a week to just cry you are not being lazy. I think 2026 is my year to cry. I think that I just need to cry in order to release all of the pain that I have gone through over the last few years.

               So now I am not in ministry, but I do post biblical content. I had to step away for my mental health, peace, and sanity. I should have wished you a happy new year and I am sorry for the delay.

               Life has valley’s. the church needs to stop pretending and be real that there are valleys in life. I feel valley low. No I am not happy. No I am not okay. No I do not have family to help me. But I keep going. Sometimes I feel like a zombie because I know that I have to press on despite what people think. So, if 2026 is your year to cry welp join the club. Because this year is not peaches and cream. It is a lot of tough things going on and you are not alone.

Queen Diamond

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Psalms 147:3

He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds.

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Navigating Through An Anti-Parenting Workplace

Proverbs 3:5-6New International Version

5 Trust in the Lord with all your heart
    and lean not on your own understanding;
6 in all your ways submit to him,
    and he will make your paths straight.

The Workforce

          As you can see the workforce is not bending in the direction to be pro-parenthood. In a day and time where abortion has become the answer for so many women, but God says not to have abortion. Finding a job can feel like the end of the world, and it can feel like you are running into a dead end.

          However, I want you to know that the old saints used to say, “Trouble don’t last always”. That means that what you are going through now will be laughable to you in the years to come. I am not telling you not to worry because you have every right to be worried. But what I am saying is that you have to focus your mind and lean to the understanding that God already has it worked out.

          Money is something that can cause people to commit suicide. One of the factors of suicide is not having employment and that tends to happen in the middle class. With that being said, try to focus on the positive and try your best to grab ahold to something positive so that you do not feel depressed and feel like you are losing your mind in this terrible workforce. I hope and pray that things do get better for you and that supernaturally your prayers will be answered for you to have employment and have a job that you need so that you are not homeless.

Minister Precious-Diamond S. Chessier

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Use Your 24 Hours Wisely

Use Your 24 Hours Wisely

Do not be excessively wicked, and do not be a fool. Why should you die before your time? – Ecclesiastes 7:17

Do Not Keep Bad Company

          There are some people that will never do you any wrong, but they are just not a good friend for you. So many people are “crashing out” for a friend, but ask yourself.. Will they do the same for you? I had to learn hard lessons about defending and protecting people, who will not do the same for me.

          If your friend is making a bad decision, then do not join in with them. At the end of the day you are responsible for your own life. When you stand before God, you have to answer for yourself and not for anyone else.

          You have to make the right choices that lead you down a better path of success. But you crashing out for your friend is a bad move.

Do Not Ruin Your Life For A Relationship

          Sex is very dangerous, and when you have sex with the wrong person it can cause you to make bad decisions in your life. If you have a friend who has had sex with a man, and now all of a sudden she gets quiet when you walk around then you need to let them go. Because if she comes to work fighting over a man who is not even her husband, that can ruin your life. Her bad decisions should have nothing to do with you. But instead focus on yourself.

          At the end of the day, you cannot deny that people are “crashing out” for friends who care nothing about them. I can only speak from experience and share with you lessons that  I learned. You have to be responsible for yourself. Do not vouch for anyone , but only vouch for yourself.

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I Have A Problem With Women Who Lie About Being Raped

Genesis 39:12-18 CEV

Potiphar’s wife grabbed hold of his coat and said, “Make love to me!” Joseph ran out of the house, leaving his coat there in her hands. When this happened, she called in her servants and said, “Look! This Hebrew has come just to make fools of us. He tried to rape me, but I screamed for help. And when he heard me scream, he ran out of the house, leaving his coat with me.” Potiphar’s wife kept Joseph’s coat until her husband came home. Then she said, “That Hebrew slave of yours tried to rape me! But when I screamed for help, he left his coat and ran out of the house.”

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Now I am a woman , who had a very traumatic childhood filled with sexual violence and it has been a terrible experience. I have connected with other women who have been sexually abused as well and it’s a terrible ordeal to go through . But … I realized that people are hearing my childhood story and then lying and saying what happened to me happened to them which is sick . Why would you want someone to rape you ? The mental agony of that ordeal is unbearable at times . I’m sure women who have been literally sexually assaulted would understand what I’m saying .

But there is this one lying heifer that just . Just look at the picture below .

Now … this woman ( Ayanna Jackson) is claiming that Tupac raped her … but … if he really raped you ( which I don’t believe he did ) then why are you posing in front of his mural with no emotional distress that a normal rape victim would have ? Now , this is why I’m saying something .

1 – If someone doesn’t say something years from now it will be revealed that she did lie about being raped and then the government will try to make excuses for men who really did rape someone and citing her story .

2 – She will inspire a new movement that even if a man looks at a woman that’s considered raped (because they know she lied ) and so many more innocent men will be thrown into jail who are particularly black because The USA is still racist systematically towards black men especially black men who are millionaires.

Now , this woman is crazy . Now nobody but them really know what she did last night , maybe the guys passed her around or maybe it was just her and Tupac , but obviously (judging by the way she still lust after him ) whatever happened was absolutely consensual intercourse . No , I do not think Tupac Shakur should be considered a registered sex offender because the alleged victim (judging by the picture ) is openly telling people she still wants to have sex with Tupac Shakur .


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I Want To Discuss The Topic Of Abuse

Isaiah 54:17New King James Version

17 No weapon formed against you shall prosper,
And every tongue which rises against you in judgment
You shall condemn.
This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord,
And their righteousness is from Me,”
Says the Lord.

As you all know I am divorcing a man who was very abusive to me financially , emotionally, and sometimes physically. Yet , I realized while doing therapy that I made that bad decision because of my childhood and not healing properly from it . Which is sadly common that people who were abused tend to go to an abuser in a relationship until they heal from what happened. Yet , while I looked online I saw something so disturbing and I won’t say there name but I will say it was disturbing . I saw a picture that a man made his wife cover her face in a leather mask , a bathing suit , and made her make him a sandwich and then posted a picture of it . One could only imagine what goes on behind the camera. Yet , in the midst of seeing that God said to me , “you couldn’t imagine what I am sparing you from and this is nothing compared to what is to come “. Sadly , because of social media abusive relationships are looking trendy because of a picture when in actuality it’s sick and sadistic . Abuse is never okay . People should not have to live with constant violence and chaos . I have had to learn that it’s better to be alone then be with a abuser . In my own situation I had to make the decision to ignore the church folk that told me to stay and instead follow Jesus instead . People of God and even people who are just coming across my blog , a man making a woman wear a leather mask in the house and nothing but a bathing suit , in heels to make him a sandwich is abuse and it is not normal and that is not art … it’s abuse .

Let Us Get Healthy & Whole ,

Queen Diamond

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