Tag: Love

Engaged On The First Date

Ecclesiastes 11:4Living Bible

4 If you wait for perfect conditions, you will never get anything done.[a]

Micro-Dating

What is Micro-Dating ? Well in a world of economic turmoil that is happening world-wide , but particularly in the USA – people rarely have time to sit down and go on a date because of money , time , and finances. Many people find themselves having to juggle and balance hold 2-4 jobs at a time – which leaves a small amount of time to recall fully “date”. But you can “micro-date”. But how ? Well a quick date , immediately after work such as ;

  • Grabbing a cup of coffee from Starbucks immediately in the morning after your work shift – This gives you 1 hours to actually get to know your interest and ask a few questions about who they are and what do they like to do.. This can range from $2 – $30 micro date , which is quick , easy , and affordable !
  • Getting a quick bite to eat at Krispy Kreme Doughnuts – This makes you like urban and shows your love interest that you’re not super religious and that you are someone that they can talk to and ultimately get to know in the long run . This micro – date can range from $5 – $50, and you can sit there and enjoy a cup of coffee and get to know each other ..
  • Going on a walk and using it as a time to exercise together ! A walk is absolutely free of charge , and it can be a good idea for a picnic to sit down and talk and open up to each other . Why don’t you grab a blanket , some fruit , or some food that your significant other likes and take time to enjoy each other presence !

Taking time to enjoy micro dating , can lead to bigger dating and actually going a wonderful more expensive dates that can become actually engagement proposal . Dates like :

  • Dinner on a yacht ( boat )!
  • A boat tour of the city
  • A fun date like the arcade

There are so many great ideas that you could think of. Also, bring boyfriend/ girlfriend to church and introduce them to the faith of Christ !

The moral of the story is , the word of God says that faith without works is dead. If you want a spouse , then you need to do your part and actually date someone and get to know them so that you can become husband and wife !

  • John 3:16

Minister Precious – Diamond S. Chessier

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Use Your 24 Hours Wisely

Use Your 24 Hours Wisely

Do not be excessively wicked, and do not be a fool. Why should you die before your time? – Ecclesiastes 7:17

Do Not Keep Bad Company

          There are some people that will never do you any wrong, but they are just not a good friend for you. So many people are “crashing out” for a friend, but ask yourself.. Will they do the same for you? I had to learn hard lessons about defending and protecting people, who will not do the same for me.

          If your friend is making a bad decision, then do not join in with them. At the end of the day you are responsible for your own life. When you stand before God, you have to answer for yourself and not for anyone else.

          You have to make the right choices that lead you down a better path of success. But you crashing out for your friend is a bad move.

Do Not Ruin Your Life For A Relationship

          Sex is very dangerous, and when you have sex with the wrong person it can cause you to make bad decisions in your life. If you have a friend who has had sex with a man, and now all of a sudden she gets quiet when you walk around then you need to let them go. Because if she comes to work fighting over a man who is not even her husband, that can ruin your life. Her bad decisions should have nothing to do with you. But instead focus on yourself.

          At the end of the day, you cannot deny that people are “crashing out” for friends who care nothing about them. I can only speak from experience and share with you lessons that  I learned. You have to be responsible for yourself. Do not vouch for anyone , but only vouch for yourself.

Minister Precious-Diamond S. Chessier

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You Have To Put A Jealous Female Dog In Her Place

1 John 4:10 (King James Version)

 

Herein is love, not that we loved God, but that he loved us, and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins.

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Now, today I had to check a ugly female dog because she is jealous of me and yes I had to embarrass her infront of her kids and tell her that yes she is indeed a female dog. I told her to back up and she did, and I quickly realized that though she runs her mouth she does not want me to knock her out infront of her kids. And y’all this was a black woman let me make that very clear. Afterwards, a woman came to me and told me that that woman is NOT on my level and that the other girl is jealous of me , and I have to much going for myself . She reminded me that I have a daughter name Ruth, and that female dog is not worth it and that I am a God fearing. Then God told me , me and my man getting back together and getting married so there is no point. But I have to say this because God is blessing me to get my charges dropped and dismissed in New Bern, and then satan sent that ugly cowardly female dog because she know she can get draaaggggggggeeeeeeeedddddddddddddd. Because I can and I will drag her infront of her kids . But God reminded me that though I am allowed to have self-defense I will not be arrested again and God protects me. Anyways , no one likes her all the women around her argue with her because she is ignorant. You all know that I love black culture, but some black women just ratchet and ignorant and jealous because no man wants them ! At the end of the day ? My baby daddy looks WAY better than any man she could even THINK about, and the men that want me ? Would NEVER give her the time of the day. I been losing weight and getting my body right for my next man, I am NOT thinking about her ugly nappy head self and her ugly kids. In Jesus Name. My daughter pretty and her daughter ugly, I said what I said. Also, mothers when you have a cute daughter you have to protect your daughter from this ignorant ratchet black women that sit around and listen to rap music all day but can’t spell or read. Seriously, the girl can’t even spell or read and she running her mouth, God just told me to ignore her because she is afraid of me. So if you are woman that is cute, stay away from these ugly ratchet females… and ho? I just want to post a picture of my baby father below and I want you to know that he would NEVER want your ugly musty roach looking self. In Jesus Name.

Love Queen Diamond,

Haha ho this my baby daddy and your baby daddy look like a roach ! My baby father would NEVER in his life even give you the time of the day you ugly roach looking broad ! When you see his picture I want you to know that you are to ugly for him to even breathe in your presence ugly ho !

Miss you bae lol tell your girlfriend I love you ahahaha

Date: 2/15/2024

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Tomorrow You Are Moving Into Your New House !

Joshua 24:15New International Version

15 But if serving the Lord seems undesirable to you, then choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your ancestors served beyond the Euphrates, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you are living. But as for me and my household, we will serve the Lord.”

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Today the Lord spoke a powerful word into my spirit and told me not to worry about my house . People of God if it is a loft, a townhouse, apartment, bungalow, and industrial space you are moving into tomorrow ! The application is approved, you are approved for the new home , so stop worrying because God has it all under control ! Stop worrying, because when you wake up tomorrow you will be in your new house. I love my home . I hope you love your new home as well.

Love Mixed With Faith,

Queen Diamond

Date: 08/01/2014

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Sometimes It Takes Another Mom To Give Advice

My child, don’t reject the LORD’s discipline, and don’t be upset when he corrects you. – Proverbs 3:11

True Story

So when I was targeted by the police in New Bern for a crime I did not commit, my daughter saw the entire thing. My daughter saw me get arrested and she saw all the bad things her father did to me while I was married. So for a while (because she was a baby), my daughter was silent but she clung to me. Now, my daughter at two years old literally will NOT let me go. I mean she will not let me go, if I go to the bathroom she cries because I am leaving. If I talk to someone else she gets upset because she wants all my attention. All she wants to do is hug me and touch me. That is all she wants.

So…

So at 12:00 a.m. my daughter was upset because I was not holding her and began to cry. Now, you all know I was in the Marines so maybe my reaction was not the most gentle but I am trying to change to be more gentle to her. But then I really felt God convict me and tell me that she is traumatized from watching the police arrest me when I was in New Bern (but thankfully I was never arrested again). So, another mom came with confirmation and told me she was in bad relationships before and her daughter was like that also. I really needed to hear that because man does it get hard. But I am saying that because sometimes another mom who has a little more experience in motherhood has to help another mom through those nights that they can’t sleep because the baby is up, just by giving some practical advice. As for Ruth, I am going to get her therapy because although I did my best with her she saw the abuse I went through with her father and she saw her father frame me and set me up and it has really affected her. I love my daughter and I will do what needs to be done for her to heal in the healthiest way possible.

Love Mommy Diamond,

These are the most recent pictures of Ruth at Church on Sunday. I can’t believe my baby girl has gotten so big she is going to be three this year and her hair has gotten longer ! This was the first time I put fancy things in her hair and she loved it, she couldn’t stop smiling when she looked in the mirror and she got so many compliments on her hair ! God is good ! I did her hair by the way !

Date: 2/09/2024

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My Wedding Ring Was Beautiful

Today I cried all day thinking about my husband and how much I loved him . My heart was broken in a way you could never imagine . I cried and someone had to comfort me . I was hurting so much . I looked at my wedding ring and just wanted to end it all . I meant what I said when I said my vows and to loose my husband to drugs has been the most …. Painful thing I have ever gone through . To watch someone fade away that I was in love with and become unrecognizable has been terrible . The marriage was abusive because of drugs . I remember before he was hooked on drugs he would leave rose petals at my bed when I woke up and it would be gifts and purses waiting for me . Either way I give it to God . Sometimes it hurts so bad I can’t move . Because he was my HUSBAND . He wasn’t not a boyfriend he was my husband !

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I had to make the right decision to choose the safety of my child over Ra’keem. God knows that I loved Ra’keem he was my everything and I loved him and his beautiful dark skin. I have no idea when he decided to start doing drugs but I know that I am heartbroken. All I can do is pray and ask God to help me. Below are the pictures of what he used to look like (he was so handsome like prince charming) , our memories, and his favorite pictures of me.

Y’all Ra’keem was so fine and beautiful. Everywhere we went women would swoon over him , but he just used to hold my hand and kiss me and tell me I was beautiful. His spanish rose. Below are our memories we shared together.

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Below were Ra’keem favorite pictures of me before drugs..

We kissed and he smudged my lipstick a little in this picture.

This was his favorite dress that I wore and he used to love when I wore my natural hair.

So.. tonight I am grieving. I feel like a widow.. because my husband is unrecognizable. I asked God if we could make it work, God said no. So, I do hope that he would try to become sober because whatever drug he is doing has caused him to loose his mind and commit crimes. When I said I do , I meant that and I was ready to dedicate my life to birthing his children and building him a dynasty through the children we were planning to have. I would get so excited at the thought of birthing his beautiful dark chocolate babies, I wanted his son so bad. But I have to pick up the broken pieces of my heart and move on.

….. Diamond

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