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Is God Raising Up More Sarah’s ?

Is God Raising Up More Sarah’s ?

            I remember when the News story’s broke out about octomom. She had given birth to 8 children at one time. I remember when I watched the Disney Movie “Quints” – I always knew that I wanted to be a mother. I always wanted the honor to carry a child and give birth. I just didn’t expect life to happen the way it did. When I was pregnant with (Ruth) my ex-husband Ra’keem tried to choke me and punch me while I was carrying on my birthday. His brother jumped me a few weeks after I had a baby. My ex-husband Ra’keem also lied on me to the New Bern Police Department while I was battling post-partum depression because he was angry that I wanted to get the marriage annulled and did not want to be his wife. That led me to be ejected – literally the court documents in New Bern , North Carolina verbally say “because of her husband”. I had gone through some tough things as a mother and yet I recovered and returned back to base camp in Chicago, Illinois.

            Yet, as more doors open for me to sing as a ordained minister and former First Lady. I can tell you that I have been involved with men who cannot conceive a child. I ask God and he said, “Diamond. It is the spirit realm. They are not physically strong enough to conceive a child with you”. I realized that when a man has not accomplished as much as a woman, he cannot conceive with her because his body has not been caused to endure the levels of stress or hardship that she has gone through – which makes them biologically incompatible to reproduce according to the spirit realm.

            Now that has left me very sad – to the point that I have been considering artificial insemination because I am 29 years old. I thought I was going to have a house with a white picket fence by now , have a apple mini-farm in my back yard, and have at least 5 children. Well, I have one child and I love her. But I want to birth more children.

            It is crazy because before I became a Christian I did not believe in the power of fasting and prayer, I did not believe in the Bible, and  definitely did not believe in the story of Sarah. I heard it before but I did not believe. But now I feel like I am walking the past of Sarah. I desperately want a family and more children – but I feel God telling me to wait. I did more research and saw that the oldest woman in modern day history was 74 years old when she conceived. I cry sometimes – me being a woman as I watch everyone else birthing.. But God keeps telling me , “I did not call or choose them. There bloodline does not matter. Because I did not choose them”. At first I loathed that idea, but now I have no choice but to stand firm on the promises of God that I will conceive. I was not necessarily asking for a husband but I did want more children because that is my natural desire to do so as a woman.

            Yet, I have been miserable and depressed. Comparing myself to everyone else online. I felt like people were mocking me in church , “Hey you know so and so have more kids now. You only have one”. Granted they had teeth missing and smelled really bad. But still.

            So though I am a minister, my biological clock  is ticking.. I want to become pregnant and have more children. I don’t necessarily want a husband. But I did want more kids. I have been thinking a lot about Sarah and the pain and humiliation she must have felt watching everyone else become pregnant. I wonder how embarrassing it was for Sarah to watch Hagar walk around with her husband’s baby. I can kind of feel that pain.

            All I ever wanted was a family (Joshua 24:15). I never wanted to be famous, never wanted influence, and never wanted to be a preacher. I just wanted a cozy house, warm Christmas music playing in the background , I wanted to bake pies and cookies for my kids, and I wanted to build a snowman infront of our brick house. I would sit back and daydream of watching my kids play snowball fights with there dad and having the time of there lives. I wanted to bake cookies for my kids to leave out for Santa. I was robbed of that in 2023. Swarmed by police officers who were concerned about influence.. But all I wanted was a beautiful family and a house to raise my kids in. I was preparing to purchase a house and had the money for the deposit. I made a mistake and invested into ministry instead and I regret it. I should have kicked Ra’keem out my house sooner and bought my house while I had a chance.

            Now it seems that debt is building up because of marriage. Depression has seeped in. I do not really believe in faith – but maybe God is trying to show me something.. Maybe faith will lead me to that beautiful brick house , wonderful front yard, and that snowy cookie baking day with my children. I want to experience building gingerbread houses with my children. I was looking forward to rocking my newest baby to the bunch by the warm candlelight fire. As a woman I am depressed and had to lean on God. My dreams of being that type of mother have been shattered because of the F.B.I , the USMC , and the New Bern Police. They USMC just had to hurt me one last time to remind me I was black.

            Now as I am moving forward and singing in ministry in emotional pain. I have to remember Sarah. I have to remember that Sarah was in emotional pain for 90 years. She was praying for more than 70 years for a son named Isaac. When she thought all hope was lost it finally came. I realized that maybe I am not doing enough in the spirit realm. Maybe I should read my Bible more, watch more content about family, or even study more about fertility. I have to do more to have more. There is a lot of witchcraft flowing. But I believe in God. I believe that just like Sarah God will open my womb to conceive again and I will finally have the family that I was promised many years ago.

“Then Abraham bowed down to the ground, but he laughed to himself in disbelief. “How could I become a father at the age of 100?” he thought. “And how can Sarah have a baby when she is ninety years old?” – Genesis 17:17 NLT

Minister Precious-Diamond S. Chessier

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January Blues

January Blues

               It is the first month of 2026 and my heart weeps as I see obituary’s all over the internet. So many young people have died and the truth of the matter is this is a perilous time right now. I am very real and honest. I can say that I am wrestling bout’s of depression.

               My daughter is autistic and she is beautiful, loving, kind, and amazing (Ruth). I can’t find a job that is willing  to work with the schedule of a single mother with a special needs child. I have to pay rent. People have betrayed me. People have lied on me. I am in a 3-year battle of getting a divorce. Needless to say I am tired , but I keep pressing on.

               I want you to know that if you have to take a week to just cry you are not being lazy. I think 2026 is my year to cry. I think that I just need to cry in order to release all of the pain that I have gone through over the last few years.

               So now I am not in ministry, but I do post biblical content. I had to step away for my mental health, peace, and sanity. I should have wished you a happy new year and I am sorry for the delay.

               Life has valley’s. the church needs to stop pretending and be real that there are valleys in life. I feel valley low. No I am not happy. No I am not okay. No I do not have family to help me. But I keep going. Sometimes I feel like a zombie because I know that I have to press on despite what people think. So, if 2026 is your year to cry welp join the club. Because this year is not peaches and cream. It is a lot of tough things going on and you are not alone.

Queen Diamond

Diploma in Small Business Management

Psalms 147:3

He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds.

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Do You Believe God For A Love Story?

Do You Believe God For A Love Story?

“Do two people start traveling together without arranging to meet?” – Amos 3:3 GNT

          So, not going to lie my love life has not gone the way that I wanted too lately. I have had a rough journey in dating and I feel like lately God wants me to wait on his timing for a spouse. But as a single black woman, I have had a problem with dating cotton picking fools. Men who are extremely lazy, don’t work, don’t shower, momma’s boys, and so many other problems with them. So, because of my bad dating habits, I have been left broken and dealing with a lot of crap. So I made a announcement that the next man I date have to:

  • Be rich, handsome, and fight like (Floyd Mayweather Jr.)
  • Be rich and  handsome like Chris Brown
  • Be rich like Prince William

I absolutely refuse to date anymore broke men and I am not working with them to uplift them anymore. Growing up I never saw good relationships and I always watched women do stupid things because of men. So I was in high school dating grown men behind closed doors.

          But because of that I got into a bunch of terrible and bad relationships. I didn’t have “love” as a child and so I was just going from boyfriend to boyfriend. Well one day life got really serious because I became pregnant, and though I had money I was now dealing with a man (my ex-husband Ra’keem) who was jealous of me, and he was willing to do anything and everything to destroy me.

          So, in 2023 I lost my home, was evicted with (a child), lived in 4 different states, and then moved back to Chicago for a season. I learned the consequences of dating men who are irresponsible and cannot provide a house and home as a man. I don’t believe there is anything wrong with being single, but being in a relationship with the wrong person can lead to danger and disaster.

          I made the decision that for a season that I was going to take a long break from dating and get my life together. I made the decision that fixing my credit score, buying a car, buying a house, and working to fix and restore my career is way more important than dating a man right now. I think in church there is so many teachings on courting, but they are not telling you how bad the dating scene is right now in the Christian world right now.

          Don’t marry someone just because someone in the church say’s to. Get married to someone who is equally yoked to you in responsibility. Also, women do not marry any man that you have more money then. If you have more money than a man he will never be happy for you. Some men hide things under the rug and they wait until you get married to show you how evil, jealous, and envious of you. When a man is jealous of you because he can’t lead you financially – he will do everything that he can to destroy you.

          Even in the process of trying to lose weight, I was dealing with the men I was dating who was not happy for me and would try to argue with me about going to the gym to better myself. As a woman never try to make a man see your point of view if he is jealous of you because you already lost the battle. That is a mental issue that he has if he does not want you to go to the gym to better yourself as a woman. You need to believe God that he will send someone who will have high standards like you, and that he will surely bring someone that will encourage you to push someone to Christ. I know that they say “don’t be unequally yoked to an unbeliever” – but you have to understand a lot of men in the church are secretly gay. So if you have to marry a man who is not saved and you have to lead him to salvation remember 1 Peter 3:4 , “Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight”.

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Instead Consumed By Purpose

Prayer Applications

“You didn’t choose me. I chose you. I appointed you to go and produce lasting fruit, so that the Father will give you whatever you ask for, using my name”. – John 15:16 New Living Translation

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When Filling Out A Job Application

          When you take time out of your day to advance your career and fill out job applications, you get emails that say that your job application corresponds to the requirement for the job. Then you get an email and phone calls that ask you to come in for an interview, and then you are hired.

          That is the reality of being an adult that you have to remain employed so that you can afford to take care of yourself (especially if you are a parent). I really wanted to write this for black women, because I am a black woman. For the last 2 years I have been in a wilderness and I learned a hard lesson being a black woman. To God be the glory. However, I have learned that as a black woman you cannot allow a man (even if he is black) to lead you down the wrong path as a woman.

          Whether it is with your weight or appearance, as a black woman you have to do better and achieve and achieve better. You can’t chase a man down a rabbit hole of failure just to have his attention. Instead focus on you and bettering yourself to fulfill the purpose that God has placed on the inside of you.

          So even if you are experiencing backlash, you still have to press forward and overcome how you feel. Instead crying over some fool, and eating your sorrow away – fill out a job application so that you can into something better for your life. Don’t waste all your data and cell phones minutes, crying over some loser.. Instead get ready and prepare yourself because a member of the recruiting team is getting ready to call you and ask you to come in for a job interview. Or instead chasing some fool who wants to be pacified and babied, why don’t you chase the purpose that God has for you. Why don’t you call the job and ask to speak to the hiring manager, and follow up on your job application – and schedule a time to come in for a interview.

          Moral of the story, I wrote this for black women because I feel like black women want more and compare themselves to other ethnicities , but you have to make better decisions like the other ethnicities. You have to want something better for yourself. You have to make the decision that you will not be consumed by a man, but instead consumed by purpose.

Sincerely,

Minister Precious-Diamond S. Chessier

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A Black Woman’s Son Is Not Her Husband

A Black Woman’s Son Is Not Her Husband

Leviticus 18:7-17

Easy-to-Read Version

7 “You must never have sexual relations with your father or mother. She is your mother, so you must not have sexual relations with her. 8 You must not have sexual relations with your father’s wife, even if she is not your mother, because that is like having sexual relations with your father.9 “You must not have sexual relations with your sister. It doesn’t matter if she is the daughter of your father or your mother. And it doesn’t matter if your sister was born in your house or at some other place.10 “You must not have sexual relations with your granddaughter. It doesn’t matter whether she is the daughter of your son or the daughter of your daughter—they are all a part of you!11 “If your father and his wife have a daughter, she is your sister. You must not have sexual relations with her.12 “You must not have sexual relations with your father’s sister. She is your father’s close relative. 13 You must not have sexual relations with your mother’s sister. She is your mother’s close relative. 14 You must not have sexual relations with the wife of your father’s brother. You must not go near your uncle’s wife for sexual relations. She is your aunt.15 “You must not have sexual relations with your daughter-in-law. She is your son’s wife, so you must not have sexual relations with her.16 “You must not have sexual relations with your brother’s wife. That would be like having sexual relations with your brother.17 “You must not have sexual relations with a mother and her daughter or her granddaughter. It doesn’t matter if this granddaughter is the daughter of this woman’s son or daughter. Her granddaughters are her close relatives. It is wrong to do this.

Pictures Say A lot

          When I look on social media I have seen some disturbing images of black mothers and their sons. I have seen black boys hugging their mothers and touching their butts and there posing as if they are in relationship with one another and its wrong. I want you to know that the word of God strictly prohibits this, but its severely common amongst black women.

          It is no secret that black families suffer the most, but it is also no secret that many black influencers are trying to present a better image for black families. But I do have to say something to these black women who are being extremely inappropriate with your son who is your own flesh and blood.

  • Your son is not attracted to you
  • Your son does not want to see your panties
  • Your son is not looking at you
  • Your son does not want to kiss you
  • Your son does not want to marry you

Young Black Men Need To Get Married and Have a Wife

          When a young black man finds a wife, his responsibility now is to his wife and their children, NOT the mother! As a mother you cant make his wife feel bad because he wants to spend time with her. This is not a competition, she is the wife and you as the mother is not the wife. Black women need not argue with there son’s girlfriend because he is becoming a man and preparing to become a husband. The word of God says a man shall leave his mother and cling with his WIFE (Genesis 2:24).

         The truth of the matter is a lot of black women are about to lose their relationships with there sons because of there inappropriate behavior. Another thing, as a black woman your son is not the replacement to his father because the father didn’t want you. Some black women will name the son after the father, kick the father out the picture, and then try to form a unusually affectionate relationship with the son (to make up for what went wrong with the father) and that is wrong. You are NOT his wife and you are NOT his girlfriend.

As A Black Mother

          As a black mother, if you know better you do better. You have to have boundaries with your children. As an older black woman you cant attack his wife, because you feel like you are being replaced.

One – Yes you are being replaced, because you are walking into a spot you are not supposed to be in. You are not supposed to be held in the honor of a wifely position with your son, and yes God is sending a wife quickly to get your son away from you because you are wrong. That is according to the Book of Leviticus.

Two – Your sons are not going to sympathize with you and they are not going to fall for your fake tears. Your son is going to choose his girlfriend or wife side, because YOU are inappropriate.

I grieve for the sake of black women, but I know that we will see a brighter day. But I have to address that. There is so many negative assumptions about black women and sadly many of it is true, but as a black woman (though I am mixed ethnicity) I feel like it is my job and due diligence to change the negative image of black motherhood into a positive image of black motherhood. Moral of the story, your son is not your husband. Stop bothering him and let him live with his wife and peace.

Minister Precious-Diamond Sandre’a Chessier

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A Successful Rushed Wedding ( Marriage Ceremony)

Psalm 23:5New International Version5 You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies.You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.

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The Wedding Season Is Upon Us

Marriage is a beautiful thing. But what happens when a rushed wedding is taking place ?! To be honest God doesn’t need a church for you to get married. You can go right to the court house and have a small marriage ceremony and say your vows and love happily ever after. Sometimes ego gets in the way of people in the church and causes them not to move in the proper timing that God asked them to do. But know that God waits for no man , and if God has approved of you being married well then get married !

A rushed wedding can still be a blessed wedding, you can go down to the court house and stand before the magistrate and say your wedding vows and BOOM , now you are married ! Next thing you know you’re on your honeymoon somewhere else living happily ever after.

Social Media

I say this because people are getting married withing the month of knowing each other. But why ? It’s the sign of the times.. The Bible says it’s better to marry than to burn with passion. Key word BURN ( STD). It is better to be in a protected marriage covenant , than to be walking around horny and infected !

With that being said , you can look on social media and see people are getting married and it’s by the leading of the Holy Spirit . There are deadly diseases mutation and right now the hub of it is in Texas.

Enjoy Your Rushed Wedding

Take time and enjoy your rushed wedding. Live a happy life after .. Move on with your life and be happy in a all circumstances. In regard to your living situation, there is nothing wrong with living with your husband’s mother ( in peace ). If your husband ask his mother if you all can live with her and she says yes because grateful and accept the blessing that God has given you.

Also, the word of God says not the overwise lest you destroy. If you want to be married , well put yourself in position to be married. Like spend your lunch break with your boyfriend , and have a great conversation. Do your part and you will be blessed

Minister Precious – Diamond S. Chessier

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