Living Life As A Saved Single

Alot of times when you hear of singleness you think of the joyous times leading up to marriage. In your heart and mind you’ve probably already picked the wedding cake, his tuxedo, your shoes , and have planned the location…

But my question to you is…. do you have fruit of the spirit ?

“Watch out for false prophets. They come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ferocious wolves. By their fruit you will recognize them. Do people pick grapes from thornbushes, or figs from thistles? Likewise, every good tree bears good fruit, but a bad tree bears bad fruit. A good tree cannot bear bad fruit, and a bad tree cannot bear good fruit. Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire. Thus, by their fruit you will recognize them.
Matthew 7:15‭-‬20 NIV
https://bible.com/bible/111/mat.7.15-20.NIV

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As a saved single (woman) are you preparing your strength in spiritual, mental, and physical fitness for your God given task ? Are you a hardworker or do you sleep all day ? The Bible says faith without works is dead. You can believe God for your husband , but are you doing the work to keep the husband.

For example:

  • Nobody wants to come home after working all day and your house is nasty… but you’ve been on YouTube all day.. Facebook and other social media. Ok.
  • Nobody wants to work all day and come home and food is not even cooked. Even if you made a mistake are you going to order food ? Or are you going to be stubborn and rebellious and tell your husband “he can make his own food”.
  • Nobody wants to stay married to a woman who literally gets mad at every little thing. Nobody wants to live with that. The bible says,

Better to live on the corner of a roof than to share a house with a nagging wife.
Proverbs 21:9 CSB
https://bible.com/bible/1713/pro.21.9.CSB

  • Finally nobody wants to be married to a woman who is a bad mother. Those days are ending. Understand that there was a Vashti before a Esther. Which one are you ?

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As a single you need the Whole Armor of God (Ephesians 6:10-20). Learn how to Pray, Wake, and Slay… All while keeping your house clean. In these times you have to ask God to deliver you from pride and laziness because life is tough and sometimes so is marriage.

Prayer

Lord I ask for humility according to Matthew 7:7 to be a saved single and have a successful godly marriage. In Jesus Name. Amen.

  • Titus 2:5-8

Love Mixed With Faith ,

Diamond

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The Wife Of Noble Character

Proverbs 31:30 New International Version (NIV)

30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;
    but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.

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You know what I have learned? Beauty does not substitute the power of prayer and a relationship with God. In this life you have some women who who rely on surgery and botox for beauty … but that will get you no where.

I believe that women are supposed to and are allowed to be beautiful. I don’t believe in all this stupid gender confusion. I believe that God made Adam… and then from his rib he made Eve.

As a single woman myself (and I do desire a husband), I have had a very strong past of bad relationships. A string of them actually… and I have learned the painful lesson (like Gomer) that there is nothing better than staying in the will of God.

The Gift of God

We as Christians do not understand how beautiful it is to have a family… and how this is an amazing gift. To have a woman/wife who is NOT going to abuse you.. hurt you but listen to all of your fears and pray for you.. It is a gift.. it is so rare that The Bible says who can find it?

Proverbs 31:10 New International Version (NIV)

Epilogue: The Wife of Noble Character

10 [a]A wife of noble character who can find?
    She is worth far more than rubies.

Cherish What God Has Given You

Anything that God gives you, you have to work to maintain and keep it. Little by little God will bless you, but you have to remain faithful. Maybe your husband isn’t here right now but do you believe that God is going to do it? If you are a man reading this ( I do not stand for homosexuality) if you believe that your wife is coming … are you getting ready?

Cherish everyday that you spend with God in these days that you have being single (like me). Learn how to maintain yourself, learn how to cook, learn how to pray with authority, and learn how to trust GOD NO MATTER THE CIRCUMSTANCE. Learn Prayer Like This,

Matthew 6:5-15 New International Version (NIV)

Prayer

“And when you pray, do not be like the hypocrites, for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the street corners to be seen by others. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward in full. But when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you. And when you pray, do not keep on babbling like pagans, for they think they will be heard because of their many words. Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask him.

“This, then, is how you should pray:

“‘Our Father in heaven,
hallowed be your name,
10 your kingdom come,
your will be done,
    on earth as it is in heaven.
11 Give us today our daily bread.
12 And forgive us our debts,
    as we also have forgiven our debtors.
13 And lead us not into temptation,[a]
    but deliver us from the evil one.[b]

14 For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. 15 But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.

Enjoy Your Time… that you have with God before you are married and be content in every season as a single woman or man.

God bless,

Precious-Diamond Chessier

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