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Public Marriage Is Government

Public Marriage Is Government

What Does The Bible Say?

               As you all know I have been very public about the things that I have gone through being a public figure and facing divorce from my ex-husband Ra’keem. I learned a hard lesson that “public marriage is government”. I studied the Royal Marriages Act and it helped me to see better and understand better. The word of God says not to be unequally yoked. Many times people take that and use it only for the spiritual realm. No – do not be unequally yoked in business dealings, work ethic, physical strength, and even your mentality. Being with someone who is not “used” to having a better life caused me to deal with someone who almost tore down everything I worked for all because of a “iPad”.

               I believe in Joshua 24:15. I believe that the image of a black family is husband and wife. Everyone black does not agree with me and I’m fine with that. Trust I am not losing any sleep over people who do not agree with me. But as I look at the listings of women online I realize that many of them will never become good wives. The art of being a wife and mother is gone to due the over sexualization of women.

               As a woman I had to relocate back to Chicago in order to get my business dealings back in order. However, I know that this is for a season. Though I am involved in Real Estate dealings in Chicago – I would have to travel here often. Yet, again Chicago is for a season. But while being in Chicago I see the poor productivity being produced in the black home and it’s sad and sickening. The black parents are not producing “effective citizens” in there homes , but instead are producing people that steal , kill , and destroy.

A Better Reward

               All I can do is be obedient. All I can do is release what God told me to do. All I can do is teach blacks how to make the right decisions. Sadly, the old saying goes “you can lead the horse to the water, but you can’t make it drink”. Being in Chicago has opened my eyes to the sad reality in the black community – that though God can give them something better … They don’t want better.

               As someone who is black – I would say be very careful when marrying. It is kind of difficult to teach and preach against racism when there is so much ignorance within the black community itself. But what is disappointing is the aspect of marriage. You have to be careful because marriage will get the devil foothold to destroy everything you have worked for if you are married to the wrong person – and I sadly learned that the hard way.

               If you desire to get married know that that is a major step. Check their credit score, go to therapy, and really investigate to see who that person is. You want to marry someone who is honest and keeps their word.

Conclusion

               Marriage is a serious decision, and you must be wise. Be careful when getting married. I pray that you are truly put into a position to enjoy your life. But I pray that you make a wise decision on who to marry. Do not covet and wish you had someone else’s marriage because you don’t know what is going on in their home.

Minister Precious-Diamond S. Chessier (Kelly)

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A Successful Rushed Wedding ( Marriage Ceremony)

Psalm 23:5New International Version5 You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies.You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.

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The Wedding Season Is Upon Us

Marriage is a beautiful thing. But what happens when a rushed wedding is taking place ?! To be honest God doesn’t need a church for you to get married. You can go right to the court house and have a small marriage ceremony and say your vows and love happily ever after. Sometimes ego gets in the way of people in the church and causes them not to move in the proper timing that God asked them to do. But know that God waits for no man , and if God has approved of you being married well then get married !

A rushed wedding can still be a blessed wedding, you can go down to the court house and stand before the magistrate and say your wedding vows and BOOM , now you are married ! Next thing you know you’re on your honeymoon somewhere else living happily ever after.

Social Media

I say this because people are getting married withing the month of knowing each other. But why ? It’s the sign of the times.. The Bible says it’s better to marry than to burn with passion. Key word BURN ( STD). It is better to be in a protected marriage covenant , than to be walking around horny and infected !

With that being said , you can look on social media and see people are getting married and it’s by the leading of the Holy Spirit . There are deadly diseases mutation and right now the hub of it is in Texas.

Enjoy Your Rushed Wedding

Take time and enjoy your rushed wedding. Live a happy life after .. Move on with your life and be happy in a all circumstances. In regard to your living situation, there is nothing wrong with living with your husband’s mother ( in peace ). If your husband ask his mother if you all can live with her and she says yes because grateful and accept the blessing that God has given you.

Also, the word of God says not the overwise lest you destroy. If you want to be married , well put yourself in position to be married. Like spend your lunch break with your boyfriend , and have a great conversation. Do your part and you will be blessed

Minister Precious – Diamond S. Chessier

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How To Prepare When You Are Having Dreams Of Pregnancy

How To Prepare When You Are Having Dreams Of Pregnancy

“One day during the wheat harvest, Reuben found some mandrakes growing in a field and brought them to his mother, Leah. Rachel begged Leah, “Please give me some of your son’s mandrakes.” – Genesis 30:14 NLT

A Joyous Time Of Celebration

          I believe that God designed pregnancy to be a wonderful time and a joyous time of celebration. No matter what stage in life you are in : single , married, or engaged.. Pregnancy is a great time as you prepare to welcome and birth a new life.

          Now, pregnancy is not really complex. How you get pregnant is that the sperm has to fertilize the egg and wala you are pregnant. But what about when you start dreaming of babies and dreaming of pregnancy.. what does that mean?

          Basically, it means that God has already made a decision that you are going to give birth and he has a plan for that child. It means that God does not want you to abort the baby, because he has a plan for the child. Every child that was chosen by God in the Bible, was first prophesied about. Now because we do not have to sacrifice lambs and goats, to get a answer from God – now the prophecy can come to you in a dream that you are indeed about to give birth within the next 2 years and you need to get your life together.

Prepare Now

          If God has already told you ahead of time that you are about to give birth then now is the time, for you to prepare. Now is the time for you to fix your credit score, look for a new apartment that is spacious, look for a new career that provides more money, start researching daycares, do research on local pediatricians, and buy a new car that is spacious for you and the baby. So much can happen in a 12 month time span.. But you have to do your part and be a responsible parent and prepare in the right manner for the baby that God has already told you is going to happen.

          Many times negative doctor’s come with the word that you’ll never have a baby and that is not true at all. You will conceive. There were so many people in the Bible who were told that they would never conceive, and lo and behold 9 months later they were indeed holding a baby.

          If you keep having dreams about you being pregnant ; that does not mean someone else is pregnant and that does not symbolize death. That means that God has a plan for the child that he has chosen you specifically to birth. So mama get ready ! Because baby season is coming and it is coming quickly !

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Let Me Tell You Upcoming Independent Artist The Truth About The Industry Real Quick … Watch Your Back

Ezekiel 2:5-7New International Version

5 And whether they listen or fail to listen—for they are a rebellious people—they will know that a prophet has been among them. 6 And you, son of man, do not be afraid of them or their words. Do not be afraid, though briers and thorns are all around you and you live among scorpions. Do not be afraid of what they say or be terrified by them, though they are a rebellious people. 7 You must speak my words to them, whether they listen or fail to listen, for they are rebellious.

Nothing Back Facts

Alot of gospel artist you see are not christian’s and no God is not blessing them. Gospel artist are sexually abusing children in rituals, molesting children, and selling their souls to sing. It’s the truth. When I started speaking against child molestation in the music industry in New Bern, then the New Bern police department arrested me and put me in jail with rapist and pedophiles (but the chief of police is a child molester) which is ironic. You have to understand that as a independent artist if you are secular or not there is a lot of conspiracies and plots and plans that works against black independent artist. The industry is racist and it hates when black people achieve things on their own, especially without molesting a child. Molesting a child in the industry is a ritual from the teachings of Alister Crowly. So when black artist refuse to sleep with pedophiles and refuse to molest a child, the police and the government put them in jail and make all types of allegations against them which are not true in The United States of America.

So do not believe every arrest because it is not true. The United States of America hates rich black people and it is truth. So they drain their bank accounts, they tell Apple Music not to let people listen to their music (even though the song is there ), they tell Amazon to restrict people from buying their books, and the work with YouTube to target black artist. It is the truth. Then they go get a white artist to copy the black artist and make songs like them to market it.

So, if you want to be in the industry , understand that you are dealing with a serious racist system that is ran by pedophiles and only the strongest survive. The government evens messes with people’s album sales to make it seem like a black artist album failed and it did not (to make a white person look like it outsold the black artist). Don’t fall for the smoke screen. The government is ran and filled by pedophiles that hate black people, call it pedophile Nazi’s. It’s the truth. I have to keep it so real with you. Watch Your Back.

I said what the heck I said,

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Sometimes It Takes Another Mom To Give Advice

My child, don’t reject the LORD’s discipline, and don’t be upset when he corrects you. – Proverbs 3:11

True Story

So when I was targeted by the police in New Bern for a crime I did not commit, my daughter saw the entire thing. My daughter saw me get arrested and she saw all the bad things her father did to me while I was married. So for a while (because she was a baby), my daughter was silent but she clung to me. Now, my daughter at two years old literally will NOT let me go. I mean she will not let me go, if I go to the bathroom she cries because I am leaving. If I talk to someone else she gets upset because she wants all my attention. All she wants to do is hug me and touch me. That is all she wants.

So…

So at 12:00 a.m. my daughter was upset because I was not holding her and began to cry. Now, you all know I was in the Marines so maybe my reaction was not the most gentle but I am trying to change to be more gentle to her. But then I really felt God convict me and tell me that she is traumatized from watching the police arrest me when I was in New Bern (but thankfully I was never arrested again). So, another mom came with confirmation and told me she was in bad relationships before and her daughter was like that also. I really needed to hear that because man does it get hard. But I am saying that because sometimes another mom who has a little more experience in motherhood has to help another mom through those nights that they can’t sleep because the baby is up, just by giving some practical advice. As for Ruth, I am going to get her therapy because although I did my best with her she saw the abuse I went through with her father and she saw her father frame me and set me up and it has really affected her. I love my daughter and I will do what needs to be done for her to heal in the healthiest way possible.

Love Mommy Diamond,

These are the most recent pictures of Ruth at Church on Sunday. I can’t believe my baby girl has gotten so big she is going to be three this year and her hair has gotten longer ! This was the first time I put fancy things in her hair and she loved it, she couldn’t stop smiling when she looked in the mirror and she got so many compliments on her hair ! God is good ! I did her hair by the way !

Date: 2/09/2024

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My Wedding Ring Was Beautiful

Today I cried all day thinking about my husband and how much I loved him . My heart was broken in a way you could never imagine . I cried and someone had to comfort me . I was hurting so much . I looked at my wedding ring and just wanted to end it all . I meant what I said when I said my vows and to loose my husband to drugs has been the most …. Painful thing I have ever gone through . To watch someone fade away that I was in love with and become unrecognizable has been terrible . The marriage was abusive because of drugs . I remember before he was hooked on drugs he would leave rose petals at my bed when I woke up and it would be gifts and purses waiting for me . Either way I give it to God . Sometimes it hurts so bad I can’t move . Because he was my HUSBAND . He wasn’t not a boyfriend he was my husband !

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I had to make the right decision to choose the safety of my child over Ra’keem. God knows that I loved Ra’keem he was my everything and I loved him and his beautiful dark skin. I have no idea when he decided to start doing drugs but I know that I am heartbroken. All I can do is pray and ask God to help me. Below are the pictures of what he used to look like (he was so handsome like prince charming) , our memories, and his favorite pictures of me.

Y’all Ra’keem was so fine and beautiful. Everywhere we went women would swoon over him , but he just used to hold my hand and kiss me and tell me I was beautiful. His spanish rose. Below are our memories we shared together.

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Below were Ra’keem favorite pictures of me before drugs..

We kissed and he smudged my lipstick a little in this picture.

This was his favorite dress that I wore and he used to love when I wore my natural hair.

So.. tonight I am grieving. I feel like a widow.. because my husband is unrecognizable. I asked God if we could make it work, God said no. So, I do hope that he would try to become sober because whatever drug he is doing has caused him to loose his mind and commit crimes. When I said I do , I meant that and I was ready to dedicate my life to birthing his children and building him a dynasty through the children we were planning to have. I would get so excited at the thought of birthing his beautiful dark chocolate babies, I wanted his son so bad. But I have to pick up the broken pieces of my heart and move on.

….. Diamond

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