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Happy Thanksgiving !

Psalm 1:3 King James Version (KJV)

3 And he shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, that bringeth forth his fruit in his season; his leaf also shall not wither; and whatsoever he doeth shall prosper.

Last Year I was alone for Thanksgiving and honestly… it wasn’t bad at all. The previous year I was with some people that were from church, and it was fine.

During both times I was ok because of God. I come from a very abusive family and I do not have relationships with my father or mother. Sometimes its very hard and I do feel alone but I would rather be safe with God then continue in a cycle of abuse because of “family” (Genesis 12:1).

God Warned Me

Before 2019, God warned me and told me not to return to my family but I listened to family and went back and it was the worst mistake of my life. However, In September after very bad circumstances I made the choice to trust God and completely leave my family and this is why…

  • There was someone in the family who tried me sexually and he was related to me.
  • In my family there is a long history of sexual abuse and pretending like it didn’t happen in the name of “we’re family.”
  • I got tired and started calling on Jesus
  • And finally after watching Joseph King of Dreams God told me “I’m sending you to a far away land.”

and HE DID ! The very next day my bank account was almost empty and was on a train to Georgia….

was it scary…. yes? but God sent people to provide for me (that I did not know) on the train financially, food, and comfort. Can you imagine ? Througha time span of days God freed me from years of emotional, physical, and sexual abuse.

  • Sometimes when you are dealing with abusive family members they will wait till they have gathered your trust to hurt you… but know that God always has someone that will shelter you through seasons.
  • This season if you feel that God is tugging at your heart to trust Him and believe Him… He did it for me and He will do it for you.

Abba,

I pray for those who are victims of sexual abuse. I pray that in this season you begin to expose it and rescue your children like a Father according to Romans 8:15. I believe in You king and I believe that you parted the Red Sea and I believe that You are a miracle working God. I love You King please I ask according to Matthew 7:7 to free your daughters.

Amen.

Love,

Diamond ❤

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The Wife Of Noble Character

Proverbs 31:30 New International Version (NIV)

30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;
    but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.

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You know what I have learned? Beauty does not substitute the power of prayer and a relationship with God. In this life you have some women who who rely on surgery and botox for beauty … but that will get you no where.

I believe that women are supposed to and are allowed to be beautiful. I don’t believe in all this stupid gender confusion. I believe that God made Adam… and then from his rib he made Eve.

As a single woman myself (and I do desire a husband), I have had a very strong past of bad relationships. A string of them actually… and I have learned the painful lesson (like Gomer) that there is nothing better than staying in the will of God.

The Gift of God

We as Christians do not understand how beautiful it is to have a family… and how this is an amazing gift. To have a woman/wife who is NOT going to abuse you.. hurt you but listen to all of your fears and pray for you.. It is a gift.. it is so rare that The Bible says who can find it?

Proverbs 31:10 New International Version (NIV)

Epilogue: The Wife of Noble Character

10 [a]A wife of noble character who can find?
    She is worth far more than rubies.

Cherish What God Has Given You

Anything that God gives you, you have to work to maintain and keep it. Little by little God will bless you, but you have to remain faithful. Maybe your husband isn’t here right now but do you believe that God is going to do it? If you are a man reading this ( I do not stand for homosexuality) if you believe that your wife is coming … are you getting ready?

Cherish everyday that you spend with God in these days that you have being single (like me). Learn how to maintain yourself, learn how to cook, learn how to pray with authority, and learn how to trust GOD NO MATTER THE CIRCUMSTANCE. Learn Prayer Like This,

Matthew 6:5-15 New International Version (NIV)

Prayer

5 “And when you pray, do not be like the hypocrites, for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the street corners to be seen by others. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward in full. 6 But when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you. 7 And when you pray, do not keep on babbling like pagans, for they think they will be heard because of their many words. 8 Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask him.

9 “This, then, is how you should pray:

“‘Our Father in heaven,
hallowed be your name,
10 your kingdom come,
your will be done,
    on earth as it is in heaven.
11 Give us today our daily bread.
12 And forgive us our debts,
    as we also have forgiven our debtors.
13 And lead us not into temptation,[a]
    but deliver us from the evil one.[b]’

14 For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. 15 But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.

Enjoy Your Time… that you have with God before you are married and be content in every season as a single woman or man.

God bless,

Precious-Diamond Chessier

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So You Want To Be Married ?

As the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without deeds is dead.
James 2:26 NIV
https://james.bible/james-2-26

In My Life

I have encountered so many women who say that they want to be married and that they are waiting for their Boaz . And there is NOTHING wrong with that… But This is The PROBLEM that I have.

Faith without works is DEAD !

I Get You Want To Be Married

But why is your house nasty? You have a sink full of dishes , nasty clothes hanging around the room , you dont bathe , and you dont buy groceries yet you want a husband?

I even see women who get mad at their husbands because they dont desire them anymore… then they go to church cry and whining telling everybody about how “terrible” their husband is … but your HOUSE is N.A.S.T.Y !

Clean your House ! Clean your room ! Just CLEAN !

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But what if I don’t have a house but a roommate?

Ok. Well you can still clean. The Bible tells us to be faithful with little and THEN you can bet trusted with much.

“Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much, and whoever is dishonest with very little will also be dishonest with much. So if you have not been trustworthy in handling worldly wealth, who will trust you with true riches?
Luke 16:10‭-‬11 NIV
https://bible.com/bible/111/luk.16.10-11.NIV

Nobody in this world is perfect, the only one who is without sin is Jesus Christ our risen king our savior (Psalm 24:1). During this time while you’re waiting for your husband why dont you

  1. Get a prayer schedule
  2. Start applying for jobs, school, or go to work
  3. Serve at church and give to the homeless
  4. Be DETEREMINED to sit down and read the entire Bible
  5. Ask God for your purpose
  6. FOCUS ON HIM
  7. Learn how to clean,cook, and maintain the living space God has given you.
  8. And Before you know it your husband will be there

God Wants To Protect Your Mind

A secret hidden killer against the Christian mind is fantasy.

A person is praised according to their prudence, and one with a warped mind is despised. Those who work their land will have abundant food, but those who chase fantasies have no sense.
Proverbs 12:8‭, ‬11 NIV
https://bible.com/bible/111/pro.12.8-11.NIV

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Christian women have to be SO careful! Many women before us have made IDOLS out of husbands who are really terrible. But God is raising a Davidic Marriage. He is giving beauty for Ashes. Dont listen to random voices telling you to go to places and all of this “God told me who my husband is” foolishness. You need to accept a God reality. Dont make random videos about him that GOD did not tell you to . Dont follow people who are adulterous women and bash men. Dont listen to advice of women who hate their husbands . But instead be quiet and prayerful in SECRET so that when you look up (while working) your husband will be right there ready to sweep you off of your feet.

This Is The Time To Prepare

The Bible says God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16) yet it still happens. Look at Xerxes and Vashti… David and Michal. So what if your husband is a man who has a ex-wife … Do you think he wants to deal with you and your foolishness ?

We as women forget that men have feelings to. They cry to , they hurt to, they get depressed to, and we are supposed to help them (by the grace of God) to get through every trial that they face…. not ADD to their struggles.

No man wants to come home after working all day to a nasty home , you walking around with basketball shorts and bonnet, arguing over nothing, and then lay down with you after YOU have acted a fool. And God will HONOR his decisions to NOT be with you … why ? Because it’s in God’s Holy Word.

So sis… if you feel convicted . Get your life together. Go into your room or prayer room or prayer Closet and REPENT and let God get your life all the way together. Because God wants your marriage to work. He doesnt do unnecessary drama. God is direct and he is a God of reality.

Love In Christ,

Precious- Diamond Chessier

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