Hebrews 4:10 ESV

For whoever has entered God’s rest has also rested from his works as God did from his.



Am I Allowed To Be Beautiful?

1 Samuel 25:3 This man’s name was Nabal, and his wife, Abigail, was a sensible and beautiful woman. But Nabal, a descendant of Caleb, was crude and mean in all his dealings.

My Story:

When I was twenty years old, I moved to California after being stationed with the intentions of marrying someone. He was handsome and made me believe that he “had love for me”. However, God told me not to marry him… I didn’t marry him but I continued dating him. God told me that he was talking to someone else but of course I didn’t listen and…. He married someone else behind my back.

It hurt…

It hurt not only because one of our mutual friends knew and I had to find out by walking in on their conversation. But it hurt because she looked nothing like me. She was light skinned, petite, curly hair, and they partied together. I didn’t party, I went to church but I made time for him. I felt lied to and humiliated. It was even worst because even after they were married he just for some reason wanted to always friend me on social media or get in contact with me….

Then one day… God showed me who I was in Christ.. Abigail.

I listened to God after I got my closure for him, I blocked him… for good this time… and I let him go.

Not only that, I have decided that I am not going to attack the woman he is married to or hate her because she is light skin… God made her like he made me. There is nothing I can do about that. But I trust God… one day I’ll have my David and I’ll be like Abigail with a dash of Bathsheba (you don’t know when to shout).

Why am I saying this?

After bad relationships, you can’t hate a certain ethnicity because a man broke your heart. That’s not the will of God. Eve was the mother of all living. God said his House will be called a house of prayer for all nations…. So that means if you really love Jesus… you have to forgive.


It hurt… I cried so many times… If only you knew . But there is a little piece in my heart that still trust God. It may be hard right now…. But its going to get better.

Psalms 30:5 For his anger lasts only a moment, but his favor lasts a lifetime! Weeping may last through the night, but joy comes with the morning.

Love Mixed With Faith,

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He Who Does Not Work Does Not Eat

I think we as Christians sometimes live in a smoke screen… and the truth is a lot of times believers can chase fantasies and be over wise (Ecclesiastes 7:16). One issue that I think we don’t address as women is…  Well… what do you do when you have a crush on a man?


I have been struggling so heavily with this and afterwards God came to me in a dream and opened my crushes mouth and said

“He who does not work does not eat”

Now the Bible says in 2 Thessalonians 3:10 Even while we were with you, we gave you this command: “Those unwilling to work will not get to eat.”

Basically.. God used my crush in a dream to rebuke me and tell me to get to work… Why ?

  • Rachel was a shepherd before she was married (Genesis 29:9)
  • Ruth gleaned in the field before she married BOAZ (Ruth 2:3)
  • Rahab had a house before a husband (Joshua 2:1)
  • And the Queen of Sheba had wealth before she went to King Solomon. The Bible says in 1 Kings 10:2 She arrived in Jerusalem with a long train of camels carrying spices, gold, and jewels: and she told him all her problems. (TLB)
A woman prays on her knees at sunset.


1 Corinthians 13 and Song of Songs tells us that love is so beautiful and it is designed by God to be joy for us. However, with that being said you still have to work.

  • Another dream I had is girls begin to quit their jobs for the winter (8 weeks) to spend time with their boyfriends.

Sis… That’s not going to work out for you. Fantasy leads to poverty. You have to guard your heart and mind. You have to work. And if you do it God’s way (which is the right way) your work and work ethic will put you in position to be married.

  • Proverbs 12:9 Just be who you are and work hard for a living, for that’s better than pretending to be important and starving to death. 10 A good man takes care of the needs of his pets, while even the kindest acts of a wicked men are still cruel. 11 Work hard at your job and you’ll have what you need. Following a get-rich-quick scheme is nothing but a fantasy. (TPT)
  • Ezekiel 2:5

What am I saying ?

There is nothing wrong with desiring a husband. You need to be married… So you can stay out of other people’s business (1Thessalonians 4:10-12). Also, there is nothing wrong with having a crush but there is everything wrong with a fantasy…. FEAR GOD INSTEAD.

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Devotion: A Beautiful Promise

I was scrolling and looking online the other day and I found this beautiful photo of Sarah, Abraham’s first wife.

I looked at this photo and instantly fell in love, because of the promise of God. This photo shows how faithful God is. That even when we disqualify ourselves God is still faithful.

2 Timothy 2:13 English Standard Version (ESV)

13 if we are faithless, he remains faithful—

for he cannot deny himself.

There are somethings that I am believing God for at this moment. Some things that others have betrayed me over, hurt me over, laughed at me over, and yet I still I have faith in God.

Today, what are you believing God for? Is it love, a new job, a house, a husband, or a spouse (understand that I do not stand for homosexuality so do not pervert what I am saying). What God has for you is for you. Take today to get in the presence of God and stop worrying. Stop worrying about your clothes, food, and whatever else is bothering you. Trust God.

Testimony: When I was in the wilderness, there was a time that I was homeless. I was staying at a shelter. During this time God began to open doors for me to preach and lead services. God told me not to wait for perfect conditions to do what He has called me to do. I was homeless and preached. Frustrated and preached. Depressed and preached.

During this time I was and am still a young woman and I had my struggles. Wanting someone to share my pain and heart with (basically looking for love in the wrong places) and I got hurt. Also, it seemed liked if I even talked to a man or male counterpart people would be angry and say I was in bondage (even though I am allowed to desire husband.. but ok). I felt so angry and frustrated. But during this time God began to deal with me, while others were gossiping, God began to show me His beautiful promises. That I wasn’t going to be in a shelter for long. That I was going to begin in ministry. That He was (AND HE DID) move me out of California so I could start over with my life. God did what He said He was going to do. There were times when I did laugh when God told me His promise, and to be honest there are some things now that just might get a laugh (I am not going to lie to you but be truthful). But the point is when God says it, no matter if you try to bring a Hagar in the situation, it is and will be so! God-s Decree!

So if you are believing God for job, a child, a son, healing, a husband, or a spouse, or education….. God is going to do it! Trust Him !!!

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Love Mixed With Faith <3,


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