Don’t Waste Your Time and Energy On Stupid Things

Don’t Waste Your Time and Energy On Stupid Things

1 Corinthians 15:33 New International Version – 33 “Do not be misled: “Bad company corrupts good character.”

So, I am very protective of who I let in my house. I don’t give anyone room to stir up drama or chaos or confusion. Matter of fact I am so guarded of myself that I don’t even let certain people touch my food. I guess because I have been through situations – where like even if I walk into the bathroom a jealous woman will storm out because of how I look.

          So, I have learned the hard way to protect myself from jealousy and to guard my time and energy. I made the decision to be wise and strategic on who I spend my days and times with and not entertain the presence of fools.

You never know when envy and jealousy are going to strike. You could be at Walmart, you could be at the mall shopping, or you could be at Target. Either way you must be careful because of the last days. Now that is not a sign to live paranoid – but it is a sign to guard your energy and be careful with who you are around. I believe that through Christ you can have everything you want. But you must guard what you ask for in prayer. Take my advice to live a better life. So that you can avoid the unnecessary trials, tribulations, and dark times that stem from being naïve to the envy of people. You must trust God from within.

Love Minister Precious-Diamond S. Chessier (Kelly)

Do You Believe God For A Love Story?

Do You Believe God For A Love Story?

“Do two people start traveling together without arranging to meet?” – Amos 3:3 GNT

          So, not going to lie my love life has not gone the way that I wanted too lately. I have had a rough journey in dating and I feel like lately God wants me to wait on his timing for a spouse. But as a single black woman, I have had a problem with dating cotton picking fools. Men who are extremely lazy, don’t work, don’t shower, momma’s boys, and so many other problems with them. So, because of my bad dating habits, I have been left broken and dealing with a lot of crap. So I made a announcement that the next man I date have to:

  • Be rich, handsome, and fight like (Floyd Mayweather Jr.)
  • Be rich and  handsome like Chris Brown
  • Be rich like Prince William

I absolutely refuse to date anymore broke men and I am not working with them to uplift them anymore. Growing up I never saw good relationships and I always watched women do stupid things because of men. So I was in high school dating grown men behind closed doors.

          But because of that I got into a bunch of terrible and bad relationships. I didn’t have “love” as a child and so I was just going from boyfriend to boyfriend. Well one day life got really serious because I became pregnant, and though I had money I was now dealing with a man (my ex-husband Ra’keem) who was jealous of me, and he was willing to do anything and everything to destroy me.

          So, in 2023 I lost my home, was evicted with (a child), lived in 4 different states, and then moved back to Chicago for a season. I learned the consequences of dating men who are irresponsible and cannot provide a house and home as a man. I don’t believe there is anything wrong with being single, but being in a relationship with the wrong person can lead to danger and disaster.

          I made the decision that for a season that I was going to take a long break from dating and get my life together. I made the decision that fixing my credit score, buying a car, buying a house, and working to fix and restore my career is way more important than dating a man right now. I think in church there is so many teachings on courting, but they are not telling you how bad the dating scene is right now in the Christian world right now.

          Don’t marry someone just because someone in the church say’s to. Get married to someone who is equally yoked to you in responsibility. Also, women do not marry any man that you have more money then. If you have more money than a man he will never be happy for you. Some men hide things under the rug and they wait until you get married to show you how evil, jealous, and envious of you. When a man is jealous of you because he can’t lead you financially – he will do everything that he can to destroy you.

          Even in the process of trying to lose weight, I was dealing with the men I was dating who was not happy for me and would try to argue with me about going to the gym to better myself. As a woman never try to make a man see your point of view if he is jealous of you because you already lost the battle. That is a mental issue that he has if he does not want you to go to the gym to better yourself as a woman. You need to believe God that he will send someone who will have high standards like you, and that he will surely bring someone that will encourage you to push someone to Christ. I know that they say “don’t be unequally yoked to an unbeliever” – but you have to understand a lot of men in the church are secretly gay. So if you have to marry a man who is not saved and you have to lead him to salvation remember 1 Peter 3:4 , “Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight”.

Honoring Harriet Tubman

Harnessing and Remembering The Strength Of Harriet Tubman

Deuteronomy 19:14

You must not move your neighbor’s boundary marker, which was set up by your ancestors to mark the inheritance you shall receive in the land that the LORD your God is giving you to possess.

Admiration

          When looking at the story of Harriet Tubman there is so much to admire especially when it comes to her strength. She is my number one female inspiration. When ever I go through tough times, I remember Harriet Tubman and all that she went through to be a free woman.

           I think her strength is beautiful. She went through so much because she was black. Harriet Tubman is the original OG! In history they had put a bounty on her in Maryland and the police officers chased her and tried to have her arrested and whipped. Though they try to lie and say that the bounty never happened, it did happen. The person who did it was Eliza Brodess, and her brothers Ben and Harry. So that part of history, they try to erase but God knows the truth. There was a racially motivated hunt for Harriet Tubman.

Overcoming Betrayal

          What is interesting about her story, is how much you have to have strength to obey God. Because though she was running away from slavery, it was some of the blacks that were also slaves that turned on her and reported her to the monstrous slave owners , and one was Harriet Tubman own husband (John Tubman). John Tubman, though they say he was “free”, in his mind he was enslaved because he would have rather stayed bound than following freedom.

          Some historical articles even claim that her own blood brothers (Ben and Harry allegedly), went back to slavery; told on Harriet and then forcibly Harriet had to temporarily return. However, she then left and escaped to freedom thus crafting The Underground Railroad.

Trust In God

          Though Harriet Tubman was enslaved, abused, and mistreated by racist whites in Maryland. Through her travels she met religious whites known as “Quakers” who helped her to be free because of their belief system in God and The Holy Bible.

          That must have been a surreal moment for Harriet Tubman and she really had to trust and let go of what she thought was right, and rightly follow God. Because blacks on the slave plantations in Maryland did not support her (some did), but it was the white Quakers in Delaware and in Pennsylvania.

          With that being said, put no limitations on who you connect with because of the complexion of your skin. Despite systems in place, I believe that God loves all ethnicities. We cannot allow the racism of Nazi’s in enforcement sectors influence how we think as Christian’s and as the body of Christ. Instead, we are to be unified and to love one another because that is what Jesus would do.

Minister Precious-Diamond Chessier

I Am Going To Do What I Wan’t To Do Regardless

Go Back To Being Normal

Proverbs 12:9 New International Version

9 Better to be a nobody and yet have a servant than pretend to be somebody and have no food.

Personal Decisions

          As a black woman, I have been doing a lot of thinking and contemplating. I have had to make some tough decisions that I know would benefit me in the long run. The ultimate goal is to experience success, and success is what I am after. With that being said, I learned that as a black woman I have had to make some choices that benefit me and how I think, and will ultimately put me into a better position.

          The image of a black woman is not welcomed in ministry, and they don’t want to see a black woman with a family and with a husband. It is interesting to watch the narrative of a woman who is not black being pushed as a picture perfect mother, while the black women in ministry claim to be masculine or desiring women or prideful or not wanting to be a mother.

          So I made the decision that I was going to give birth. I don’t really care about ministry, and I don’t care about what people in ministry think. I made the choice not to put my life on hold because people in the church don’t want to see a black woman with a husband and family as a main attraction or event.

As A Image

          I view myself as a content creator that is Christian. Not a influencer and not someone who is actively speaking or preaching because I don’t want to. I don’t want to travel and speak because I don’t want to deal with the stupidity that arise in church due to racial systems and racial organizations. How I feel, if the church only wants white women to speak then let them have that. That has nothing to do with me and I wont argue about it. I wont waste my time trying to MLK anything. I wont waste my time marching and fighting for you to see what I am saying, I am just going to move on.

          So I wrote this for the other black women in ministry. Stop trying to force your idea’s on a sector that does not want you there. Why waste your time? There are so many brown opportunities that will benefit you.. So move on and stop crying.

          Now, as for me I am a image. Not a influencer, not a preacher, and not a speaker. I am a image. I do what I want to do and I am not waiting for anyone to see what I am saying. I pave my own routes and pave my own roads. I don’t care who does not like it I am still going to do what I want to do regardless. So as I recover, just know that I am very aware of the racial biased that occurs in ministry and I understand very well. I told God I am not a cotton-picking prophet, and if people want to see a cotton picking prophet then they have to go get somebody else. Am I conventional? No. Am I going to have more children before marriage? Absolutely I am. Because I don’t care what the church thinks and I am going to do what I want to do. I am not waiting 10 years to marry somebody because I am black and a prophet, but instead I am going to do what I want to do.

          So in the future, when you reference this blog post know that I don’t give a f****. I don’t care what you think. I don’t care what you believe in. I don’t care what you say God is saying, because you’re probably lying on God name anyways like you all always do. I don’t care if you think I am anointed and need to wait for a husband, because I already told God what I am going to do. I don’t think it’s fair that a white woman in ministry can have a husband and go public as a influencer, but as a black woman they want you to have nappy hair claiming to be prideful and saying you can’t have a kid. So I made the decision to rebel against the racial systems in place in ministry, and do what I want to do and I don’t care who does not like it. Yes, I have to stay in church because God has forced me. But other than that, do not be surprised when you see me pregnant as a minister.

Love,

The Black Ghetto Du-Rag Wearing Queen Diamond

The Harvest Season

The Harvest Season

Galatians 6:9

English Standard Version

9 And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up.

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Change Of Plans

          In 2023, I went through a terrible betrayal but no weapon formed against me shall be able to prosper (Isaiah 54:17). My soon to be ex-husband Ra’keem went and stole from a government building and then lied and said that I did it when I did not . Then he had me targeted by the F.B.I , lied on, and I went through so many trials and tribulations but I was never arrested again. For one year I had a wilderness experience, and in the midst of that I believe that God was hiding me like he did King David. There are some seasons that God has to hide you because he is sparing you from Saul the rejected King.

          So I made the decision to permanently leave YouTube, because YouTube had gotten to political and was not worth the headache. I realized that preachers and teachers back in the 1970’s did not have YouTube, but they had power, they were able to sell books, and they were able to become international. So no I do not need YouTube but I do need God.

          I made the decision that I would be wise, and step away from music from the time being and focus on God. Because there is something going on that is very racist in the music industry, and right now is the time to hide and to let God hide you and protect you until this pass over.

          I wish I could come and tell you that everything is going to be perfect in 2025, but it would be a lie. You see two mass shootings have already happened in Louisiana and New York, but also another shooting happened in Las Vegas. I believe that 2025 is a wake up call for the people of God to get back right with God. In 10 years, there will be a harvest season but not now. But sow your seeds now.

Harvest

          I believe that harvest is coming and very soon. I believe that good things are going to happen to those who were faithful during this time. But over the next 7 years everyone who did not hide and who did not consecrate themselves will experience great and detrimental pain in the years to come. So, I apologize to everyone who follows me, because I am human, and I was going through a wilderness season. I already told God from this point I would be more responsible with my global platform as a Christian blogger.

Let’s Move Forward Together,

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