So You Want To Be Married ?

As the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without deeds is dead.
James 2:26 NIV
https://james.bible/james-2-26

In My Life

I have encountered so many women who say that they want to be married and that they are waiting for their Boaz . And there is NOTHING wrong with that… But This is The PROBLEM that I have.

Faith without works is DEAD !

I Get You Want To Be Married

But why is your house nasty? You have a sink full of dishes , nasty clothes hanging around the room , you dont bathe , and you dont buy groceries yet you want a husband?

I even see women who get mad at their husbands because they dont desire them anymore… then they go to church cry and whining telling everybody about how “terrible” their husband is … but your HOUSE is N.A.S.T.Y !

Clean your House ! Clean your room ! Just CLEAN !

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But what if I don’t have a house but a roommate?

Ok. Well you can still clean. The Bible tells us to be faithful with little and THEN you can bet trusted with much.

“Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much, and whoever is dishonest with very little will also be dishonest with much. So if you have not been trustworthy in handling worldly wealth, who will trust you with true riches?
Luke 16:10‭-‬11 NIV
https://bible.com/bible/111/luk.16.10-11.NIV

Nobody in this world is perfect, the only one who is without sin is Jesus Christ our risen king our savior (Psalm 24:1). During this time while you’re waiting for your husband why dont you

  1. Get a prayer schedule
  2. Start applying for jobs, school, or go to work
  3. Serve at church and give to the homeless
  4. Be DETEREMINED to sit down and read the entire Bible
  5. Ask God for your purpose
  6. FOCUS ON HIM
  7. Learn how to clean,cook, and maintain the living space God has given you.
  8. And Before you know it your husband will be there

God Wants To Protect Your Mind

A secret hidden killer against the Christian mind is fantasy.

A person is praised according to their prudence, and one with a warped mind is despised. Those who work their land will have abundant food, but those who chase fantasies have no sense.
Proverbs 12:8‭, ‬11 NIV
https://bible.com/bible/111/pro.12.8-11.NIV

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Christian women have to be SO careful! Many women before us have made IDOLS out of husbands who are really terrible. But God is raising a Davidic Marriage. He is giving beauty for Ashes. Dont listen to random voices telling you to go to places and all of this “God told me who my husband is” foolishness. You need to accept a God reality. Dont make random videos about him that GOD did not tell you to . Dont follow people who are adulterous women and bash men. Dont listen to advice of women who hate their husbands . But instead be quiet and prayerful in SECRET so that when you look up (while working) your husband will be right there ready to sweep you off of your feet.

This Is The Time To Prepare

The Bible says God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16) yet it still happens. Look at Xerxes and Vashti… David and Michal. So what if your husband is a man who has a ex-wife … Do you think he wants to deal with you and your foolishness ?

We as women forget that men have feelings to. They cry to , they hurt to, they get depressed to, and we are supposed to help them (by the grace of God) to get through every trial that they face…. not ADD to their struggles.

No man wants to come home after working all day to a nasty home , you walking around with basketball shorts and bonnet, arguing over nothing, and then lay down with you after YOU have acted a fool. And God will HONOR his decisions to NOT be with you … why ? Because it’s in God’s Holy Word.

So sis… if you feel convicted . Get your life together. Go into your room or prayer room or prayer Closet and REPENT and let God get your life all the way together. Because God wants your marriage to work. He doesnt do unnecessary drama. God is direct and he is a God of reality.

Love In Christ,

Precious- Diamond Chessier

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A Call To Holy Living

God told Abram: “Leave your country, your family, and your father’s home for a land that I will show you. I’ll make you a great nation and bless you. I’ll make you famous; you’ll be a blessing. I’ll bless those who bless you; those who curse you I’ll curse. All the families of the Earth will be blessed through you.”
Genesis 12:1‭-‬3 MSG
https://bible.com/bible/97/gen.12.1-3.MSG

My Story

I grew up in a Christian household that lived a life contrary to what God believed. There were days we went to church but our lives where in direct contradiction to what The Bible says.

With that being said, God delivered me from my family but because I was so use to abuse I allowed someone to tell me that I needed to go back to my family (which was not what God told me to do) and live with them… That was a mistake. Yet I am grateful that God gave me another chance and delivered me like Abram ! With that being said, I dont really have time to vent to you about everything I went through but I am going to tell my story and how GOD dealt with me to leave my family…. and for this reason.

When I Was Growing Up

I often read The Bible secretly as a child and God would always send His prophets to prophesy and speak over my life His promises of what He was going to do… (although I was being severely abused as a child). Some examples of abuse is that my mother would lock the bathroom doors so I couldn’t use the bathroom, I wasnt allowed to throw my trash away with the rest of the family, and my clothes would be taken away from me. I was made to sleep on the floor often throughout highschool and my mother was very aware of what she was doing.. Not only that there was something else going on that God pointed out years later which I believe was the source of abuse.

The Truth

When I was growing up I did not know it was a sin to see psyhics and have palm readings. I didn’t not know astrology was a sin and numerology. Because my entire family believed it …. and they are ministers and pastors.

So this is what I grew up with… and this revelation came after I had a dream that I was preaching in front of my family saying it was not them but God who brought me out of the wilderness and a powerful demon manifested inside of a family member… I mean that person didnt even look the same.

Rebellion Opens Counterfeit Doors

“Do not permit any of your children to be offered as a sacrifice to Molech, for you must not bring shame on the name of your God. I am the Lord . “Do not practice homosexuality, having sex with another man as with a woman. It is a detestable sin. “A man must not defile himself by having sex with an animal. And a woman must not offer herself to a male animal to have intercourse with it. This is a perverse act. “Do not defile yourselves in any of these ways, for the people I am driving out before you have defiled themselves in all these ways. Because the entire land has become defiled, I am punishing the people who live there. I will cause the land to vomit them out. You must obey all my decrees and regulations. You must not commit any of these detestable sins. This applies both to native-born Israelites and to the foreigners living among you. “All these detestable activities are practiced by the people of the land where I am taking you, and this is how the land has become defiled. So do not defile the land and give it a reason to vomit you out, as it will vomit out the people who live there now. Whoever commits any of these detestable sins will be cut off from the community of Israel.
Leviticus 18:21‭-‬29 NLT
https://bible.com/bible/116/lev.18.21-29.NLT

Consequences

Because of what my family did they welcomed a spirit of Molech (which involves heavy child abuse). They opened so many doors to rebellion and witchcraft and toxic spirits… But I am so HAPPY God called me out of it !

After God Has Delivered Me

I don’t believe in that stupid stuff about astrology … I dont believe in satanic signs and witchcraft . For my family it goes so deep that someone confessed that they messed with a satanic board at one point… They literally asked a demon a question and it answered. They told the story and said after that they never did it again, but I don’t believe that because years later they spoke of palm readings.

It took years for me to process all of the abuse I endured and God began to show me the root of it and it’s satanic. Because they refuse to repent , God is going to deal with them (Psalm 7:12).

But as for me and my house we will serve the Lord ! Just because my family involved themselves in witchcraft that does not mean I am going to. I love Jesus, I trust Jesus and I will never trust in those things again. When I was in my teens I had no idea this was not the will of God until I got away from my family.

Evidence

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“Do not eat meat that has not been drained of its blood. “Do not practice fortune-telling or witchcraft.
Leviticus 19:26 NLT
https://bible.com/bible/116/lev.19.26.NLT

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“When you enter the land the Lord your God is giving you, be very careful not to imitate the detestable customs of the nations living there. For example, never sacrifice your son or daughter as a burnt offering. And do not let your people practice fortune-telling, or use sorcery, or interpret omens, or engage in witchcraft, or cast spells, or function as mediums or psychics, or call forth the spirits of the dead. Anyone who does these things is detestable to the Lord . It is because the other nations have done these detestable things that the Lord your God will drive them out ahead of you. But you must be blameless before the Lord your God. The nations you are about to displace consult sorcerers and fortune-tellers, but the Lord your God forbids you to do such things.”
Deuteronomy 18:9‭-‬14 NLT
https://bible.com/bible/116/deu.18.9-14.NLT

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“But cowards, unbelievers, the corrupt, murderers, the immoral, those who practice witchcraft, idol worshipers, and all liars—their fate is in the fiery lake of burning sulfur. This is the second death.” Then one of the seven angels who held the seven bowls containing the seven last plagues came and said to me, “Come with me! I will show you the bride, the wife of the Lamb.” So he took me in the Spirit to a great, high mountain, and he showed me the holy city, Jerusalem, descending out of heaven from God. It shone with the glory of God and sparkled like a precious stone—like jasper as clear as crystal. The city wall was broad and high, with twelve gates guarded by twelve angels. And the names of the twelve tribes of Israel were written on the gates. There were three gates on each side—east, north, south, and west. The wall of the city had twelve foundation stones, and on them were written the names of the twelve apostles of the Lamb.
Revelation 21:8‭-‬14 NLT
https://bible.com/bible/116/rev.21.8-14.NLT

In Conclusion

It is by GOD’S GRACE that I have been saved and I love Him. If you come from this , I charge you to repent. I believe that the church is in a era of Saul, but this is what The Bible Says

So Saul disguised himself by wearing ordinary clothing instead of his royal robes. Then he went to the woman’s home at night, accompanied by two of his men. “I have to talk to a man who has died,” he said. “Will you call up his spirit for me?” “Are you trying to get me killed?” the woman demanded. “You know that Saul has outlawed all the mediums and all who consult the spirits of the dead. Why are you setting a trap for me?” But Saul took an oath in the name of the Lord and promised, “As surely as the Lord lives, nothing bad will happen to you for doing this.” But Samuel replied, “Why ask me, since the Lord has left you and has become your enemy? The Lord has done just as he said he would. He has torn the kingdom from you and given it to your rival, David. The Lord has done this to you today because you refused to carry out his fierce anger against the Amalekites.
1 Samuel 28:8‭-‬10‭, ‬16‭-‬18 NLT
https://bible.com/bible/116/1sa.28.8-18.NLT

And This Is How It Ended

Saul groaned to his armor bearer, “Take your sword and kill me before these pagan Philistines come to run me through and taunt and torture me.” But his armor bearer was afraid and would not do it. So Saul took his own sword and fell on it. When his armor bearer realized that Saul was dead, he fell on his own sword and died beside the king. So Saul, his three sons, his armor bearer, and his troops all died together that same day. When the Israelites on the other side of the Jezreel Valley and beyond the Jordan saw that the Israelite army had fled and that Saul and his sons were dead, they abandoned their towns and fled. So the Philistines moved in and occupied their towns. The next day, when the Philistines went out to strip the dead, they found the bodies of Saul and his three sons on Mount Gilboa. So they cut off Saul’s head and stripped off his armor. Then they proclaimed the good news of Saul’s death in their pagan temple and to the people throughout the land of Philistia. They placed his armor in the temple of the Ashtoreths, and they fastened his body to the wall of the city of Beth-shan.
1 Samuel 31:4‭-‬10 NLT
https://bible.com/bible/116/1sa.31.4-10.NLT

Repent For The Kingdom Of Heaven Is At Hand

Acts 13:22 I have found David… son of Jesse ❤ Love You God ❤