Category: The Way Life Coaching

Why A Handsome Black Man Should Never Beg Another Man For Financial Help

Proverbs 28:19-23 NLT

A hard worker has plenty of food, but a person who chases fantasies ends up in poverty. The trustworthy person will get a rich reward, but a person who wants quick riches will get into trouble. Showing partiality is never good, yet some will do wrong for a mere piece of bread. Greedy people try to get rich quick but don’t realize they’re headed for poverty. In the end, people appreciate honest criticism far more than flattery.

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I want to tell a true story that really happened . So before I made the decision to file for divorce from my disgusting ex-husband , who allegedly got hit by a truck . But like after he got hit he mysteriously was able to go cheat with a woman he worked with a Waffle House because he believed he was getting 1.2 million dollars for a car accident that was really his fault and yes he did NOT get 1.2 million . So , my ex-husband named Ra’keem , decides that instead of working he would rather go beg his white lawyer for food to bring home to his black family (mind you this lawyer was one of the biggest lawyers in Greenville , North Carolina ) so that he could have more time to cheat with some bum female … because apparently me telling him to work two jobs to pay rent was to much for him as a man ( mind you I was working five jobs just to make ends meet because of the recession and being disabled … the disabled money was NOT enough to feed my daughter especially when you add rent , car note, car insurance , health insurance , food , clothes , electricity money , and basic needs). Now … when I found out that Ra’keem was constantly facing eviction and unable to pay rent on time and would rather stand outside the Tobacco shop in Greenville , North Carolina and beg other men for cigarettes and money instead of working I remembered those beautiful words that God said “do not marry Ra’keem” three years and the night before I said I do to Ra’keem . So …. I realized that I had a stronger work ethic than Ra’keem . But also Ra’keem REFUSED to watch my daughter Ruth , because it was getting in the way of his time to go sleep and cheat with the Waffle House worker AND he lied about getting promoted to manager , come to find out Ra’keem had not been to work in almost two weeks so he LIED and was begging and sleeping with another woman while I was at home trying to take care of my daughter and wondering where he was (because you know cheaters don’t answer the phone they just disappear for all hours of the day )….. So…. I was reading a article about how a rapper (who I personally do NOT like ) openly begged two white men for help to pay off his billion dollar debt . Then it clicked ! Like … that’s a serious issue . Do black men realize how bad that looks when his wife has to watch him beg another man for money to provide for his family ? Now because I made the BAD decision to marry this man , I have to start all over and fix my finances because of what he did. I have to continue paying for everything for myself while he can walk around freely stealing clothes from stores , getting high , and cheating with some idiot he met at Waffle House . But what does mommy have to do ? Mommy has to raise her daughter and love her despite what happened . So black men …. Do NOT do what my ex-husband did. Be a real man and work to provide for your family . Do not beg another man for a handout and don’t accept money from another man unless it’s business oriented. You do not understand how much your influence means to your family . Black man do better than my ex-husband .
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Now personally , I know that I will get married again . I love dark men , I LOVE dark men and brown men . I love when a man works hard and when he is a real man and he is serious about his business . I love when a man moves in silence and works in silence . I like when a man is a business man . I like a man who is a BOSS , not an employee but a BOSS (I mean you were an employee at one point and then you graduated into having your own business ) . I love when a black man is educated (even if it is a honorary degree that’s still smart ! ) , I love when a man doesn’t listen to his friends drama and does not let his friends disrespect his woman , and I LOVE THUGS ! So , I believe that there is a good man out there , right now I’m just focused on parenting .

Love ,

Queen Diamond

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My Testimony To Help Other Young Women: The Truth About Abortion Grief

The Truth About Abortion Grief

Revelation 21:4

English Standard Version

4 He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away.”

A Few Years Ago.. 

A few years ago, I wrote a book of Poems dedicated to my angel baby. I was grieving so badly and battling depression, because I just had another baby but I began to wonder what it would feel like having him. I reached out to his father, which was a bad decision I might add… because I was grieving and it did not end well like it always does not end well. So I made the decision that I would never reach out again , but I also realized that God had entrusted me to help other young women who were grieving from having a abortion and suffering the rejection from the father. 

The Story Behind Your Decision Is Probably Really Painful 

One thing I am not going to do is , point a condemning finger at you because God did not point a condemning finger at me when I had a abortion. Yes, I felt like God was disappointed in me but at that time I did not know the Lord. I grew up in church but I saw so much craziness that I became an atheist, it was after that abortion and the pain and tears from it that I became a Christian. 

The circumstances surrounding my decision were extremely hurtful and painful, and it is something that even now God has to heal me from because I regret aborting that child because I know the child would have been beautiful and intelligent and that God had a plan for the baby, I made a mistake. But one thought that was eating away at me is that even if he did not love me (the father) and he did not want me, it’s the fact that God knew how much he did not want me and blessed me with a baby that did love me and I had a abortion… That’s the painful side of my decision. 

To this day, he still is the same and I don’t really care (the father). That’s how he is. But I realized that my constant reaching out to him is because I was so depressed by what I had done that I wanted some connection to the baby (I learned this in psychology). So I did not miss him, I missed the baby and the baby came from him. That was a very tough and hard realization that I had to come to and it came by praying and talking to God about my mistake. 

I recommend you to pray and ask God for forgiveness and repent, especially if you did not know the Lord. The truth about abortion’s is that it is extremely painful to deal with. Sad to say commercial’s lie and make it seem like taking the pill is a easy fixer for an abortion, but they are not telling you about the suicide attempts, depression, and self-harm that comes after having a abortion. 

Don’t Cover For Him 

I had to accept that he will never care about me (the father of the baby). I had to accept that he does not care about the abortion and he never will. I am the mom, and I battle all of the grief by myself. I am sorry if you are faced with that same truth. If he does not care about you and he does not care about the abortion, I want you to know that God cares a whole lot about you. I had to accept my truth and give it God. I do not want you to commit suicide . I remember when I wanted to die because I wanted to be in heaven with my baby because it’s really mentally tormenting and  traumatizing. I thought I would be happier in heaven with my baby. I do not want you to commit suicide. God told me I had to live on. You have to live on and you have to trust God , that he will bless you with another opportunity to have a baby. My opportunity was with Ruth and she has brought a lot of healing from the pain of not having my other baby. 

The hardest part is that before I ever admitted what happened prophet’s would come up ; to me and say , “God said forgive yourself it is not your fault”. Collapsing in the spirit, everytime I would scream and cry because it was so painful. Then I had a dream about him, that he was in heaven running and playing hide and go seek with Jesus. He was so beautiful he had my skin complexion, his father’s eyes, but they were dark blue, and dark beautiful curly black hair. He was gorgeous. God said in the dream, “Name him Nehemiah because I sent him to comfort you because you were not loved”. 

I went through alot, but now despite issues I accept what God has to offer me. My current husband said he wanted us to have another baby, and I know that God is going to bless me with another boy one day to comfort me from all of the painful things that occurred in that situation. 

The Conclusion Is Forgive Yourself 

God wants you to forgive yourself, turn from your sin, repent , and never do it again. God wants to heal you from the pain of the rejection that led to that abortion. God does not want you to commit suicide because the father did not love you , which led to you aborting that child. Sadly, men do not feel the grief that a woman feels after having a abortion. I am the mother so while he parties, I cry because I had the duty to carry that child and I failed in that. Even if you failed, I want you to know that God is giving you grace to start over and have another family. Take my advice, and do not ever reach out to him again. Do not ever check on him and see how he is doing again. Do not ever care about his well being again. I am sorry, but he doesn’t love you and you have to accept it and move on. I had to accept that he never wanted me and never cared about me, and it was painful but I accepted it and I moved on. Move on beautiful, it is going to be okay. 

Love Mixed With Faith, 

Apostle Diamond S. Chessier 

Isaiah 40:31

King James Version

31 But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.

Copyright Precious-Diamond Sandre’a Chessier

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Prophetic Word : The New Kings Marrying Church Girls 

Prophetic Word : The New Kings Marrying Church Girls 

Prophetic Word : The New Kings Marrying Church Girls 

And all the days of Enoch were three hundred sixty and five years: And Enoch walked with God: and he was not; for God took him. – Genesis 5:23-24 

What The Lord Showed Me To Come

There is an anointing about to hit the Earth to restore kingship as in the Biblical days but the word of the Lord is “to whom much is given much is required”. What people fail to realize is that it was the importance of a wife that made a man a King. In a vision I saw in the spirit that God had hand picked influential black women that were lawyers, entrepreneurs, and some stay at home mothers. Understand that it was not all but it was only who God handpicked. I saw in the spirit a crushing in the spirit. These women had black husbands and had given birth to many children, and have finally achieved their goals and then suddenly they were crushed like a olive to produce oil. 

I saw in the spirit , these women were faced with the truth of divorce. Their husbands had made a decision that a different race woman would be a better fit for him so he abandoned his black wife for image and influence. The crushing produces the oil. In a vision the Lord showed me 100 women around the world crying and weeping on the floor 10 – 24 years from now asking God why. I heard God say in the spirit , “You’re going to be alive for a long time, get re-married to a wild man and birth more children”. You read that correctly. God had commanded a 40 year old prophetess to divorce, re-marry, and birth more children. God had commanded a 50 year old prophetess to divorce, re-marry, and birth more children.  God had commanded a 60 year old prophetess to divorce, re-marry, and birth more children.  God had commanded a 70 year old prophetess to divorce, re-marry, and birth more children. Why? God said he needs a King and a Queen. Biblically speaking it is  not God will for people to die at 80 years old. The punishment for the wicked is 120 years old, but now because of food like McDonalds , Chick Fil a and Taco Bell and Arby’s life spans are being cut short, but God is a redeemer. 

In a vision , I saw in the spirit that God had commanded the prophetess to mentor beautiful wild men who were in their 40’s, 50’s, 60’s, and 70’s… why? They were the sons of Kings and God needed them to know the Lord. In the midst of divorce prophetess were commanded to mentor, because God needed a King because Kingship triumphs government. In the spirit God showed me that prophetesses will be complemented and people will say that they are aging younger.. Why ? It must be fulfilled. As confirmation for the prophecy in the years to come a magnitude 10 Earthquake will hit China and slow the rotation of the Earth and hours will be added to the night and days shall be added to the years. I saw oil being poured , that monks will be discovered who had been alive for 400 years because God is not playing, Kingship must be restored. The prophetess shall look 20 when she is 40. The prophetess that is 30 shall look 18. The prophetess at 50 shall look 29. The prophetess at 60 shall look 35. The prophetess at 70 shall look 38. Because God has had enough and decreed that until the rapture all Kings shall be in position. Let it begin. 

Prophecy Released By Precious-Diamond Sandre’a Chessier

Date Written : 8/22/2010

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Book Review : Jesus Always Sarah Young

Review :

So true story . When I was wayward I was in a store and walked pass Sarah Young book titled Jesus Calling . When I was younger I had a lot of anger , a lot hatred , and a lot of hurt from what I had been through . Yet , this little pretty purple book was there and maroon book was staring at me and I figured why not give it a shot . So I read it and I felt like every day my anger subsided. Everyday my anger and issues became easier to deal with and to heal from a lot of different things that I went through in my life . I began to really talk to God and ask God how do I go through this and how do I survive the pain and turmoils of life and God gave me my own path and it has been working . One of her books actually inspired me to write a devotional and I’m still writing . I thought it was cool how low key her life is and yet she is a author . I recommended her book . Though she does get persecuted as a author , understand that all people that are doing what God says will suffer a persecution . Hope you enjoyed this short review . Have a blessed day !

Sincerely ,

Mrs. Diamond Chessier

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Supporting My Husband Boxing Career

Hey Ya’ll ,

So my husband is preparing to go into boxing and I’m 100 percent in support of him ! I wanted to go into boxing to because I love it , but my husband said I’m to pretty to be boxing professionally. So I’ll do what he say’s . So throughout the next few years you’re going to see some of his boxing things on my blog . I think it’s cool that I’m a boxer’s wife . One thing I have learned about being a boxer’s wife is a whoolleeeee lot of Jesus is needed when you’re a woman married to a boxer . They’re stubborn and have to learn the hard way . But I know God is faithful . I’m excited for his journey and I support him !

From His Wifey For Lifey ❤️ ,

Love You Daddy Hopefully You Treat Me Right This Time Bae ❤️

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