Seeing Growth In All Area’s Of Your Life

Seeing Growth In All Area’s Of Your Life

2 Peter 3:18

New International Version

18 But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and forever! Amen.

The Power of Prayer

          When you pray you don’t want to experience something that is deemed as “dead prayer” – but instead you want to see a highly effective result in your prayer life. You want the blessings of God to stay on rotation and never to stop. When you pray you want God to change your life – and you don’t want to be stagnant in the spirit realm.

          You have to be willing to go to new deaths with God in order to have a better life. Take the limits off of God and believe that he can and will do everything that you asked for in prayer. Know that in order to see a breakthrough in your life, spending time with God is key! Put all of your focus on God and he will prepare a table for you in the presence of your enemies.

Don’t Give Up

          Even if you are seeing slow results – it doesn’t matter. That is still a result ! Don’t fall apart mentally because of something that has arisen doesn’t “feel” good. Instead keep your eyes focused on Christ! Think about it this way – in factories you have machines that produce products. When you pray – your prayers are like a machine that is causing what you need to manifest here on Earth. Every prayer that you release counts. You want to pray to activate angels to move on your behalf. You have to put your focus on what you need from God – and don’t stop praying until you see the hand of God move in your life.

          When praying you have to target and tackle everything that you need in prayer. Keep your faith in God lifted and don’t be down casted in the spirit realm. You have to keep spiritual momentum in prayer. Place your trust in God. Place your belief in God and know that the Lord will indeed make away. Always remember that prayer is your strongest spiritual warfare tool.

Work and Pray To Have A Better Life

          Life is not easy. Many people have strength to get something but are not strong enough to maintain it. Just like you pray for something – you have to be strong enough to maintain something. When you have a issue you have to focus on the God who controls the earth – and his son named Jesus. Psalms 1 says that you have to stay planted in Christ. Understand that pain leads to purpose. Even despite what you are going through you have to know how to love God through the good and the bad !

Love  Minister Precious – Diamond S. Chessier(Kelly)

A Black Woman’s Son Is Not Her Husband

A Black Woman’s Son Is Not Her Husband

Leviticus 18:7-17

Easy-to-Read Version

7 “You must never have sexual relations with your father or mother. She is your mother, so you must not have sexual relations with her. 8 You must not have sexual relations with your father’s wife, even if she is not your mother, because that is like having sexual relations with your father.9 “You must not have sexual relations with your sister. It doesn’t matter if she is the daughter of your father or your mother. And it doesn’t matter if your sister was born in your house or at some other place.10 “You must not have sexual relations with your granddaughter. It doesn’t matter whether she is the daughter of your son or the daughter of your daughter—they are all a part of you!11 “If your father and his wife have a daughter, she is your sister. You must not have sexual relations with her.12 “You must not have sexual relations with your father’s sister. She is your father’s close relative. 13 You must not have sexual relations with your mother’s sister. She is your mother’s close relative. 14 You must not have sexual relations with the wife of your father’s brother. You must not go near your uncle’s wife for sexual relations. She is your aunt.15 “You must not have sexual relations with your daughter-in-law. She is your son’s wife, so you must not have sexual relations with her.16 “You must not have sexual relations with your brother’s wife. That would be like having sexual relations with your brother.17 “You must not have sexual relations with a mother and her daughter or her granddaughter. It doesn’t matter if this granddaughter is the daughter of this woman’s son or daughter. Her granddaughters are her close relatives. It is wrong to do this.

Pictures Say A lot

          When I look on social media I have seen some disturbing images of black mothers and their sons. I have seen black boys hugging their mothers and touching their butts and there posing as if they are in relationship with one another and its wrong. I want you to know that the word of God strictly prohibits this, but its severely common amongst black women.

          It is no secret that black families suffer the most, but it is also no secret that many black influencers are trying to present a better image for black families. But I do have to say something to these black women who are being extremely inappropriate with your son who is your own flesh and blood.

  • Your son is not attracted to you
  • Your son does not want to see your panties
  • Your son is not looking at you
  • Your son does not want to kiss you
  • Your son does not want to marry you

Young Black Men Need To Get Married and Have a Wife

          When a young black man finds a wife, his responsibility now is to his wife and their children, NOT the mother! As a mother you cant make his wife feel bad because he wants to spend time with her. This is not a competition, she is the wife and you as the mother is not the wife. Black women need not argue with there son’s girlfriend because he is becoming a man and preparing to become a husband. The word of God says a man shall leave his mother and cling with his WIFE (Genesis 2:24).

         The truth of the matter is a lot of black women are about to lose their relationships with there sons because of there inappropriate behavior. Another thing, as a black woman your son is not the replacement to his father because the father didn’t want you. Some black women will name the son after the father, kick the father out the picture, and then try to form a unusually affectionate relationship with the son (to make up for what went wrong with the father) and that is wrong. You are NOT his wife and you are NOT his girlfriend.

As A Black Mother

          As a black mother, if you know better you do better. You have to have boundaries with your children. As an older black woman you cant attack his wife, because you feel like you are being replaced.

One – Yes you are being replaced, because you are walking into a spot you are not supposed to be in. You are not supposed to be held in the honor of a wifely position with your son, and yes God is sending a wife quickly to get your son away from you because you are wrong. That is according to the Book of Leviticus.

Two – Your sons are not going to sympathize with you and they are not going to fall for your fake tears. Your son is going to choose his girlfriend or wife side, because YOU are inappropriate.

I grieve for the sake of black women, but I know that we will see a brighter day. But I have to address that. There is so many negative assumptions about black women and sadly many of it is true, but as a black woman (though I am mixed ethnicity) I feel like it is my job and due diligence to change the negative image of black motherhood into a positive image of black motherhood. Moral of the story, your son is not your husband. Stop bothering him and let him live with his wife and peace.

Minister Precious-Diamond Sandre’a Chessier

What A Night It Has Been

Isaiah 54:17New King James Version

17 No weapon formed against you shall prosper,
And every tongue which rises against you in judgment
You shall condemn.
This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord,
And their righteousness is from Me,”
Says the Lord.

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Being a parent comes with unexpected hospital visits. On this episode of the ghetto parenting life chronicles, my ( daughter Ruth) had to be admitted. I believe God for supernatural healing. ( Ruth ) was very sick and throwing up . I say this because as a parent don’t automatically assume that throwing up is normal because it could be a sign that the child needs to go to the doctor.

Because we will be in the hospital for one week. Moral of the story don’t automatically assume that your child is being “extra”, “dramatic”, or “doing something for attention”. Something could really be wrong so get it checked out !

Minister Precious – Diamond S. Chessier

Trusting God While Raising A Child Born Premature

Isaiah 53:5New International Version

But he was pierced for our transgressions,
    he was crushed for our iniquities;
the punishment that brought us peace was on him,
    and by his wounds we are healed.

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In 2021 I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl named Ruth, who was born premature. In the Black culture I don’t think premature birthing is discussed and how time consuming and how much it costs financially. Don’t think that once they get older the sickness is over because it’s not. Actually , as they get older more is discovered and because the medical field is evolving. When ( Ruth) was a baby , it was recommended that (she) have surgery.. However I didn’t feel the peace of God on that and that was when we were living in a house in Oxon Hill , Maryland. Years later as a single mother I am still dealing with the consequences financially of having a (baby that was born sick ) by myself.

In this season I am learning contentment and I am learning to thank God in all circumstances, in all situations, and all events. So I bless the name of the Lord in the midst of this. I thank God that he has provided insurance. I thank God he has provided money. I thank God he has provided more than enough for me to take care of my daughter.

i say this so that you know don’t think you have a premature baby it’s over when they turn one because it’s not.

You’re just getting started. There are unplanned emergency rooms visits, surgeries , doctor’s notes , excused absence from school due to medical reasons , pediatricians, and so much more involved with having baby born premature. My original due date was October 19, 2021 – she was born September 23, 2021.

No , the father ( Ra’keem ) has not been helpful. I have had to deal and handle this all financially myself but God has helped me. Moral of the story when you have a premature baby brace yourself for the reality of :

  • Stomach surgery
  • Autism diagnosis
  • Asthma
  • Speech Therapy

And so much more. But know that even if you are doing it as a single parent the Lord will send people to help you and he will indeed provide.

Sincerely,

Minister Precious – Diamond S. Chessier

How To Prepare When You Are Having Dreams Of Pregnancy

How To Prepare When You Are Having Dreams Of Pregnancy

“One day during the wheat harvest, Reuben found some mandrakes growing in a field and brought them to his mother, Leah. Rachel begged Leah, “Please give me some of your son’s mandrakes.” – Genesis 30:14 NLT

A Joyous Time Of Celebration

          I believe that God designed pregnancy to be a wonderful time and a joyous time of celebration. No matter what stage in life you are in : single , married, or engaged.. Pregnancy is a great time as you prepare to welcome and birth a new life.

          Now, pregnancy is not really complex. How you get pregnant is that the sperm has to fertilize the egg and wala you are pregnant. But what about when you start dreaming of babies and dreaming of pregnancy.. what does that mean?

          Basically, it means that God has already made a decision that you are going to give birth and he has a plan for that child. It means that God does not want you to abort the baby, because he has a plan for the child. Every child that was chosen by God in the Bible, was first prophesied about. Now because we do not have to sacrifice lambs and goats, to get a answer from God – now the prophecy can come to you in a dream that you are indeed about to give birth within the next 2 years and you need to get your life together.

Prepare Now

          If God has already told you ahead of time that you are about to give birth then now is the time, for you to prepare. Now is the time for you to fix your credit score, look for a new apartment that is spacious, look for a new career that provides more money, start researching daycares, do research on local pediatricians, and buy a new car that is spacious for you and the baby. So much can happen in a 12 month time span.. But you have to do your part and be a responsible parent and prepare in the right manner for the baby that God has already told you is going to happen.

          Many times negative doctor’s come with the word that you’ll never have a baby and that is not true at all. You will conceive. There were so many people in the Bible who were told that they would never conceive, and lo and behold 9 months later they were indeed holding a baby.

          If you keep having dreams about you being pregnant ; that does not mean someone else is pregnant and that does not symbolize death. That means that God has a plan for the child that he has chosen you specifically to birth. So mama get ready ! Because baby season is coming and it is coming quickly !

Happy April 2025 Real Life Real Jesus !

Happy April 2025 Real Life Real Jesus !

Colossians 1:5

New International Version

5 the faith and love that spring from the hope stored up for you in heaven and about which you have already heard in the true message of the gospel.

God Is Replenishing You

          Sometimes when you go through betrayals you can feel like it is the end, but it is not. Remember that before they crucified Jesus they cried out “Hosanna”. They honored him and laid palms in his path, but their heart was not with them. So do not believe that you are stuck in a “spiritual rut”, “spiritual drought”, or that you are experiencing “spiritual dryness” because that is not true. Think of it this way. You know that you are thirsty because you are a little parched and need some water to quench your thirst. So you are maybe a little parched and need God to quench the thirst in your life.

          Walking through hard seasons is not fun, and it can lead to a lot of silent tears and crying seasons at nights. One of the biggest misconceptions is that “sin is the reason that happened in your life” and this is not necessarily true. Jesus Christ did not commit sin when he was crucified. Some things that you go through is simply because someone was jealous of you or envied you. The word of God says in Matthew 27:18 Berean Literal Bible, “For he knew that they had delivered Him up through envy”. So there are some things that you go through that is not because you did anything wrong, but because someone was jealous of you.

The Power of Reading The Holy Bible

          In this season of my life, I have been intentional of waking up at 5:00 a.m. – 6:00 a.m. and reading the Holy Bible. I have been intentional of studying the Holy Bible for my own spiritual growth and building my own relationship with Jesus Christ. I know in my own personal life, I need God to do something miraculous and to lift me up from the season that I am going through. So I know, I am not the only one experiencing this tough time but I know that God is preparing me for something major in the future.

          I want to repeat that last sentence, “I know that God is preparing me for something in the future”. Okay, now I want that sentence to apply to you, “I know that God is preparing you for something in the future”. I believe that the people who follow me, God wants them to lead wherever they are located. That means something to God. What you are going through right now is preparing you for something bigger and better in the future. Even when Joseph was in prison, God was still preparing him for something in the future. The word of God says not harden your heart. I know anger, resentment, and maybe even bitterness may be affecting your heart condition but know that God is working things for your good. Know that the living water is conquering and washing away everything in your life that is not of his will (John 15, Ephesians 4:1, John 4:14).

God Meeting You Where You Are At

          I could imagine how the woman at the well felt. She was a prophetess but she had relationship issues with the men she was dating. None of them matched the call on her life, and so she was constantly faced with divorce because the magnitude of her future destiny was bigger than the men she was married to. I know I feel that woman of the well in my life, constantly I have dated men who just did not understand and who did not get it and they dragged me down… But now I am starting to make better decisions on the type of man I should be attracted to. But The gist of what I am trying to say is that God went to meet her where she was at.

          So many times people think that you have to be polished and perfect for God to step in and help you and that is not true at all. God went right to that water source known as the well and met that woman, because he wanted to meet her where she was at. God’s promises and prophecies are meeting you where you are at.

Be Renewed In Your Faith

When I was a little girl they made sure to tell me that I was never going to be successful and never amount to anything, for 18 years that was the repeated narrative that I heard over and over again and no it was not true. But they said that because of how I looked, and so when I got married to my soon to be ex-husband Ra’keem he told me that one of the reasons that he caused me to be ejected from my home was because of my “beauty”. So at 27 years old, I was faced with the fact that all these people had tried to ruin my life because I was pretty.. Yeah.

          I am not saying that to brag, because being ejected from my apartment in 2023 is nothing to be proud of. But I am saying that times that we are living in that is what people do, they betray you because of beauty, shoes, money, cars, and clothes. For men , one of your friends might betray you because you just got a new haircut. It sounds odd that something so small could lead to something so detrimental but it’s true.

          So because of that my opinion of faith is being fine tuned as God is teaching me something new. I believe in “realistic faith”. That means that I have to pray for what I technically do not qualify for, but I believe that God can do it for me and make me supernaturally qualified for it (Hebrews 12, John 3:16, Colossians 3:2, Philippians 2)). I can tell you that people have allowed a spirit of envy to consume them because of social media. People do CRAZY things that are rooted in envy because of social media. So you have to be very careful on how you move in these last days.

Keep Interceding

          I live in Chicago, Illinois so daily I ask God to protect me. You have to ask God to protect you from the envious plots and plans that come from those who are jealous of you. Do not be naïve to the enemy and his devices (1 Thessalonians 5:8, 1 Peter 5:7). When the Pharisees were jealous of Jesus Christ they had him whipped, spat on, mocked, pierced, and crucified.  Thank the Lord, that Jesus Christ was risen and then ascended into heaven. But his crucifixion is a warning to the body of Christ that envy does lead to a calvary and crucifying experience.

Create A Steady Routine To Hear God

I was dealing with something and I said God, “I need to hear your voice”. Sometimes the enemy sends so many people opinions because satan is trying to drown out the voice of God in your life, do not let that happen. The word of God says that no weapon formed against you shall prosper in Isaiah 54:17. When jealous people say that you can’t accomplish something, God says that you can indeed accomplish it (2 Timothy 3:16-17, Hebrews 4:12). You have to create a steady routine that brings you closer to God and builds a consistent pattern to draw you closer and closer to the things of God.

Conclusion

         There are so many resources that can help you draw closer to God, and I pray that God leads you to one that is indeed Biblically sound and of good doctrine. Because every prayer line is not of God and every podcast is not of God. But I hope that God does lead you to a podcast or someone who knows how to pray things that are in tune with the frequencies of heaven. I pray that God instills a good structure and stability in your life , and that your atmosphere would be molded and shaped into something positive and great.

Minister (Reverend) Precious-Diamond S. Chessier

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