Engaged On The First Date

Ecclesiastes 11:4Living Bible

If you wait for perfect conditions, you will never get anything done.[a]

Micro-Dating

What is Micro-Dating ? Well in a world of economic turmoil that is happening world-wide , but particularly in the USA – people rarely have time to sit down and go on a date because of money , time , and finances. Many people find themselves having to juggle and balance hold 2-4 jobs at a time – which leaves a small amount of time to recall fully “date”. But you can “micro-date”. But how ? Well a quick date , immediately after work such as ;

  • Grabbing a cup of coffee from Starbucks immediately in the morning after your work shift – This gives you 1 hours to actually get to know your interest and ask a few questions about who they are and what do they like to do.. This can range from $2 – $30 micro date , which is quick , easy , and affordable !
  • Getting a quick bite to eat at Krispy Kreme Doughnuts – This makes you like urban and shows your love interest that you’re not super religious and that you are someone that they can talk to and ultimately get to know in the long run . This micro – date can range from $5 – $50, and you can sit there and enjoy a cup of coffee and get to know each other ..
  • Going on a walk and using it as a time to exercise together ! A walk is absolutely free of charge , and it can be a good idea for a picnic to sit down and talk and open up to each other . Why don’t you grab a blanket , some fruit , or some food that your significant other likes and take time to enjoy each other presence !

Taking time to enjoy micro dating , can lead to bigger dating and actually going a wonderful more expensive dates that can become actually engagement proposal . Dates like :

  • Dinner on a yacht ( boat )!
  • A boat tour of the city
  • A fun date like the arcade

There are so many great ideas that you could think of. Also, bring boyfriend/ girlfriend to church and introduce them to the faith of Christ !

The moral of the story is , the word of God says that faith without works is dead. If you want a spouse , then you need to do your part and actually date someone and get to know them so that you can become husband and wife !

  • John 3:16

Minister Precious – Diamond S. Chessier

What A Night It Has Been

Isaiah 54:17New King James Version

17 No weapon formed against you shall prosper,
And every tongue which rises against you in judgment
You shall condemn.
This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord,
And their righteousness is from Me,”
Says the Lord.

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Being a parent comes with unexpected hospital visits. On this episode of the ghetto parenting life chronicles, my ( daughter Ruth) had to be admitted. I believe God for supernatural healing. ( Ruth ) was very sick and throwing up . I say this because as a parent don’t automatically assume that throwing up is normal because it could be a sign that the child needs to go to the doctor.

Because we will be in the hospital for one week. Moral of the story don’t automatically assume that your child is being “extra”, “dramatic”, or “doing something for attention”. Something could really be wrong so get it checked out !

Minister Precious – Diamond S. Chessier

One Word: Persevere

You Are Going To Be Okay

“Don’t be misled—you cannot mock the justice of God. You will always harvest what you plant”. – Galatians 6:7 NLT

Do Not Be Blindsided

          When you are on the right path, sometimes the enemy sends jealous family members to try and blindside you just to hurt you. You have to ignore them and refuse to let what they do bother you. You have to remain focused and know that God hand is covering you in the situation, and that his angel wings are indeed helping you. In life, you will go through tough times but you have to keep going.

          You cannot let what people do and there plots and plans detour you. Keep going and fight through it. I wish someone had taught me to persevere when I was younger. I wish someone had taught me the art and the power of “keep going”. In order to move forward you have to make a forward motion. You have to know that God hand is on the situation and that he will come through.

When You See It In The Spirit Realm

          When you see a attack in the spirit realm, you have to keep going. You can’t allow the devil to make you feel like you will never come out of what you are going through because that is not true. You will come out of this and God will prepare a table for you according to Psalms 23. Remember that this is only a test. Keep going, and know that the favor of the Lord is on your life.

          When David was preparing to become King, he went through things that did not necessarily feel good. But he made it. You have to know that you are going to make it, and you have to keep going. No weapon formed shall prosper. God has this under control.

Minister Precious-Diamond S. Chessier

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Going Back To Work As A Mother

Psalm 105:15King James Version

15 Saying, Touch not mine anointed, and do my prophets no harm.

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Ecc. 11:4

The word of God says not to wait for perfect conditions and to press forward. So I went to a job interview for a manager position and met all the qualifications and was almost offered a job… to be told that because I did not have daycare on the weekends that I could not work that position because as a manager you have to be available 24/7. Yeah, 12 years of work experience and certificates to be told that because I am a mother I cannot get the job at that particular store in this season. So, I was told that I qualify to be a crew member but to be paid on the higher end of salary because of my education and work experience. Yeah, I was not to happy about that but after praying God told me to go work the job as a crew member and to trust him. Ironic that store that is hiring cannot find any employees and claims that nobody wants to work, despite there strict criteria. In the midst of filling out job applications I came across a question that said , “religion is to persecute Christians”. Not even lying. On a job application, they are telling there workers in order to work there you have to persecute Christians. But not only that, women who have children are not being accepted in the manager positions and now nobody has enough employees and no one has managers because of that stupid rule. Yet, I will keep my job and keep going and no I will not be fired.

Even at my boyfriend J , job he is going through some things. All at once his co workers take their lunch break and leave him to do all the work by himself. So yes, everyone is going through tough times (my friend has been trained in welding). But you have to understand that though you may be going through tough times, God is not going to allow you to be fired from your job. Though some people may lie on you, there lie will be proven exactly as a lie and you will not be fired. I mean look at UberEats drivers, the customers lie ALL the time but that does not mean that the UberEats driver will be fired. Infact, the more you work UberEats the more your approval ratings go up and up. So, the moral of the story is you have to press forward and keep going. But most UberEats customer do tell the truth (%99).

In My Own Personal Life

In my own personal life, I know that I pursue education to earn more money and thank God I finally passed my college math classes. But in the midst of these times it is I know I had to keep going. For examples, Ruth father left me and abandoned me with Ruth all by myself. Ra’keem lied on me to the police and had me ejected from my apartment in New Bern, North Carolina. I had to move alone with Ruth and pay $720 for daycare that Ra’keem does not help with all. I was hired for a job and had no choice but to work. Then I met my boyfriend J, who helps me financially and provides a safe home. J also fixes my car for me because he went to trade school for welding and he has his own apartment. It was actually J , who told me that I made a bad decision in marrying Ra’keem, and Ra’keem was not the type of man that I should have married. My boyfriend J is four years younger me, but he is more successful and established and more mature than any man I dated in the past. So, there are good men out there you just have to pray.Even though J is Muslim and I am Christian, we are still in a happy and funny relationship with one another. Moral of the story that sometimes you can’t wait for the perfect situation to get out of the storms that come in life. If someone has a boat then get in that boat ASAP. My friend had a boat , I got in his boat to a better life. My job is the boat that I needed, even though I am qualified to be a manager for right now there is a persecution on mothers in manager positions so I have to keep going and moving forward despite of.

Keep Going

I realize that I have to keep going because no weapon formed against me shall prosper. When you are in the midst of trial and tribulations you have to pray for your desired outcome. Pray against the spirit of failure. Pray against losing your job. Praying that you keep your job. Pray that you and your boyfriend can fix your relationship. Pray that you and your boyfriend stay together. Pray that money will come. Pray . Pray. and keep praying !!

Love Diamond,

I Have To Say This About R.Kelly …. He Might Be Innocent

Ezekiel 2:5-7New International Version

And whether they listen or fail to listen—for they are a rebellious people—they will know that a prophet has been among them. And you, son of man, do not be afraid of them or their words. Do not be afraid, though briers and thorns are all around you and you live among scorpions. Do not be afraid of what they say or be terrified by them, though they are a rebellious people. You must speak my words to them, whether they listen or fail to listen, for they are rebellious.

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For those of you who do not know I used to sing gospel music and I feel like God is leading me to come back to singing because it has been almost 6 years. I have not had the desire to sing because I have been battling some demons and depression. But I went through this super crazy incident , which is why I am starting to think R.Kelly may be innocent and did not commit the child molestation crime that The Federal Government said he did. When I was in New Bern there was a white woman who was stalking me and she saw my Marine Corps picture and she started lusting after me , following me, and trying to flirt with me to get my attention. She was a married white woman and she had a hunchback but she had a weird obsession with me. Well, basically she got angry I did not want her she called the police on me and I was arrested and told that in New Bern that is how they treat white women, and then they put me in jail with registered sex offenders who were child molesters and rapist so they were trying to imply that I tried to rape her and I did not. One I have never in my life sexually abused a child and I am against that 100 percent. I have never in my life tried to rape another woman especially not a white woman. But they were preparing to accuse me of this in New Bern because I was black and had influence, and I was shocked because I am a woman… I did not even know that it was possible for a white woman to lie and say a black woman tried to rape her but it is. But lately I have been praying and thinking, and one of the people who came to my mind was R.Kelly , who is the King of R&B. Well…. y’all they tried to set me up with similar charges like his because I was black.And R.Kelly and I were both in jail at the same time in North Carolina in 2023. So what I am saying is , in North Carolina they were preparing to lie on me to say I raped a white woman and I did not and that I was looking at white children and I did not. Now if I am a prophet, and the federal government in New Bern North Carolina would lie on me and say that I was trying to assault three white women and possibly rape one …. then y’all… R.Kelly.. Robert Sylvester Kelly is innocent. I am federally trained also. I learned a lot in 2023, that in 2023 The Federal Government is lying on black men and women with influence and saying they molested children and raped white women and they did not. I believe that the F.B.I worked with some people to set R.Kelly up and that is because R.Kelly and I were both in jail in 2023 in North Carolina at that same time and the New Bern court system tried to set me up with the same child abuse charges as R.Kelly and I have never in my life molested a child. Yall pray for him. I do not know what God has in-store for his testimony but pray for him. Do not forget that New York was also the same state that set Tupac Shakur up on a rape charge, and they lied on Tupac and said he raped that girl and he did not. Now New York is saying that R.Kelly is a convicted sex trafficker, but I am telling because we were both in jail at the same time and I saw the system for myself that I am starting to believe that R.Kelly was lied on and set up and by the Federal Government in The United States of America. He was about two hours away from me in 2023, but we were both jailed in Eastern North Carolina. As a black artist , we are in a new civil rights movement. Yall I believe the Federal Government set R.Kelly up. Because I was set up like him in 2023 myself and child I am a whole Pastor.

P.S. – You all know that I am still looking for my biological father and I have decided to change my last name to Kelly because my ancestry DNA test has the most people with the name of Kelly on my father side. So no I am not being stalkerish to R.Kelly, I have legally changed my name to Precious-Diamond Sandre’a Kelly

President Barack Obama Was The Judas Iscariot To Black People

Last night as I was driving, a police officer pulled behind my car and got out and I looked at him and asked why he was behind my car and what was the problem. He said “how long have you been here because there is a report of burglaries ” and then he called for back up. Thankfully I was on the phone with my Boss as proof that I was working, I do not know anything about a burglary. Apparently, the police officer said there was a report that some kids (I’m guessing he was racially profiling black people because why would he assume I know them) were walking around and breaking into cars (so maybe he tried to say I stole my own car? My car is nice and no I did not steal my own $50,000 car that I pay over $600 for every month plus the car insurance being over $400). Anyways, I left the scene and I was not arrested but I knew that that was not a random question because the entire world knows that Ra’keem stole in New Bern, North Carolina while I was working and now I have to deal with the ignorance of police officers who cannot arrest me because they do not have a reason. Anyways, as I started praying I realized that the Federal Government is targeting all black influence and creators who are not gay like Former President Barack Obama. Anyone black person who is not gay like Former President Barack Obama and who does not sleep around in politics with gay men like Former President Barack Obama they are arresting and framing them for petty crimes because they are not gay.

Not only that they are using police officers to ask questions and try to paper trail black influence and black people with wealth who won’t sleep with men to get a deal in Hollywood. Understand that Former President Barack Obama passed laws to have black people arrested for health care and it’s the true. He pretended to help blacks with Obama Care , then made black people who were not gay intelligible , then he raised the cost of health care so that black people could not pay it, and then he gave grants to homosexuals so that black people could not get housing and employment because they were not gay ! Stop praising Former President Barack Obama he has does nothing but try to destroy the black community him and his transgender wife. Black people wake up, because they are trying to bring back the Jim Crow Era and use Former President Barack Obama to do it. Black people this is a spiritual wilderness, they are targeting black people who are not gay and it’s the truth. Former President Barack Obama is the anti-christ, and black people need to stop honoring him. Martin Luther King Jr. was supposed to be the first black president and they killed him because he was not gay and he was preaching the word of God. Former President Barack Obama is gay and he made laws to target other black men who were not gay like him through healthcare, housing, and insurance. Wake Up and see the truth ! It is NOT racist if white people call Barack Obama the anti-christ because he is !

This man is the ANTI-CHRIST!

I said what I said because I had freedom of speech and freedom of the press !

Apostle Precious-Diamond Chessier – Jesus Is Lord Christ Chapel LLC