Public Marriage Is Government

Public Marriage Is Government

What Does The Bible Say?

               As you all know I have been very public about the things that I have gone through being a public figure and facing divorce from my ex-husband Ra’keem. I learned a hard lesson that “public marriage is government”. I studied the Royal Marriages Act and it helped me to see better and understand better. The word of God says not to be unequally yoked. Many times people take that and use it only for the spiritual realm. No – do not be unequally yoked in business dealings, work ethic, physical strength, and even your mentality. Being with someone who is not “used” to having a better life caused me to deal with someone who almost tore down everything I worked for all because of a “iPad”.

               I believe in Joshua 24:15. I believe that the image of a black family is husband and wife. Everyone black does not agree with me and I’m fine with that. Trust I am not losing any sleep over people who do not agree with me. But as I look at the listings of women online I realize that many of them will never become good wives. The art of being a wife and mother is gone to due the over sexualization of women.

               As a woman I had to relocate back to Chicago in order to get my business dealings back in order. However, I know that this is for a season. Though I am involved in Real Estate dealings in Chicago – I would have to travel here often. Yet, again Chicago is for a season. But while being in Chicago I see the poor productivity being produced in the black home and it’s sad and sickening. The black parents are not producing “effective citizens” in there homes , but instead are producing people that steal , kill , and destroy.

A Better Reward

               All I can do is be obedient. All I can do is release what God told me to do. All I can do is teach blacks how to make the right decisions. Sadly, the old saying goes “you can lead the horse to the water, but you can’t make it drink”. Being in Chicago has opened my eyes to the sad reality in the black community – that though God can give them something better … They don’t want better.

               As someone who is black – I would say be very careful when marrying. It is kind of difficult to teach and preach against racism when there is so much ignorance within the black community itself. But what is disappointing is the aspect of marriage. You have to be careful because marriage will get the devil foothold to destroy everything you have worked for if you are married to the wrong person – and I sadly learned that the hard way.

               If you desire to get married know that that is a major step. Check their credit score, go to therapy, and really investigate to see who that person is. You want to marry someone who is honest and keeps their word.

Conclusion

               Marriage is a serious decision, and you must be wise. Be careful when getting married. I pray that you are truly put into a position to enjoy your life. But I pray that you make a wise decision on who to marry. Do not covet and wish you had someone else’s marriage because you don’t know what is going on in their home.

Minister Precious-Diamond S. Chessier (Kelly)

Engaged On The First Date

Ecclesiastes 11:4Living Bible

If you wait for perfect conditions, you will never get anything done.[a]

Micro-Dating

What is Micro-Dating ? Well in a world of economic turmoil that is happening world-wide , but particularly in the USA – people rarely have time to sit down and go on a date because of money , time , and finances. Many people find themselves having to juggle and balance hold 2-4 jobs at a time – which leaves a small amount of time to recall fully “date”. But you can “micro-date”. But how ? Well a quick date , immediately after work such as ;

  • Grabbing a cup of coffee from Starbucks immediately in the morning after your work shift – This gives you 1 hours to actually get to know your interest and ask a few questions about who they are and what do they like to do.. This can range from $2 – $30 micro date , which is quick , easy , and affordable !
  • Getting a quick bite to eat at Krispy Kreme Doughnuts – This makes you like urban and shows your love interest that you’re not super religious and that you are someone that they can talk to and ultimately get to know in the long run . This micro – date can range from $5 – $50, and you can sit there and enjoy a cup of coffee and get to know each other ..
  • Going on a walk and using it as a time to exercise together ! A walk is absolutely free of charge , and it can be a good idea for a picnic to sit down and talk and open up to each other . Why don’t you grab a blanket , some fruit , or some food that your significant other likes and take time to enjoy each other presence !

Taking time to enjoy micro dating , can lead to bigger dating and actually going a wonderful more expensive dates that can become actually engagement proposal . Dates like :

  • Dinner on a yacht ( boat )!
  • A boat tour of the city
  • A fun date like the arcade

There are so many great ideas that you could think of. Also, bring boyfriend/ girlfriend to church and introduce them to the faith of Christ !

The moral of the story is , the word of God says that faith without works is dead. If you want a spouse , then you need to do your part and actually date someone and get to know them so that you can become husband and wife !

  • John 3:16

Minister Precious – Diamond S. Chessier

What A Night It Has Been

Isaiah 54:17New King James Version

17 No weapon formed against you shall prosper,
And every tongue which rises against you in judgment
You shall condemn.
This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord,
And their righteousness is from Me,”
Says the Lord.

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Being a parent comes with unexpected hospital visits. On this episode of the ghetto parenting life chronicles, my ( daughter Ruth) had to be admitted. I believe God for supernatural healing. ( Ruth ) was very sick and throwing up . I say this because as a parent don’t automatically assume that throwing up is normal because it could be a sign that the child needs to go to the doctor.

Because we will be in the hospital for one week. Moral of the story don’t automatically assume that your child is being “extra”, “dramatic”, or “doing something for attention”. Something could really be wrong so get it checked out !

Minister Precious – Diamond S. Chessier

Break Free From Man-Made Religion

Break Free From Man-Made Religion

“Therefore, brothers, we are not children of the slave woman, but of the free woman”. – Galatians 4:31

I Had To Leave A Church

So I was going to a church that I used to go to when I was a child, and I had to leave that church. I was quickly reminded why I left the church the first time and said that I would never come back.. This time I joined a different church instead. Chile… I saw so much in 4 months that I said I am done, and I am never coming back. First of all The Bishop sleeps around and I am mean he sleep AROUND, he was sleeping with his wife cousin . Then he was texting me at 3:00 a.m. in the morning, and then slept with someone who raised me as a child. Baby, I am done with that black Baptist church. How disappointing because that is the first black church in the Marquette Park area and there is so much foolishness at that church, that I would not be surprised if everyone stopped attending that church.

But ironically, they come in suits and church clothes and they act a monkey fool. I am sorry to say this, but I think I am done going to a primarily Black Baptist church. I love black culture, and I love being black… but baby the black Baptist church is a mess. The thing that was crazy is that this Bishop is humping on everything that walk and move, but ignorant people keeps pointing the finger at the woman even though he is in the wrong. Honestly, the Bishop probably going to contract HIV/AIDS because of how nasty he is. Chilee, the Bishop a compulsive liar and a drunk and then the cotton picking fools in the church got the nerve to ignore him and attack the women. Chilleee, I am done.

What Happened

Chilee, let me tell you what happened. So, the Bishop offered me a job to work at the church. I took it because it was temporary, but when I was not biting into him texting me in the morning while his wife was asleep then he started moving slow on what he was talking about. So I ignored him.. Then I went and got hired for two jobs instead. Then chillee, my alleged God-Grandparents said that I was lying about being raped and that I made my whole story up because of the Bishop (which is not true), because his wife told a lie on me and they was trying to make it seem like I was pursuing the Bishop but I was not. First of all, the men I date look like models. Let’s get this straight. The Bishop is sickly and got a tooth missing. Chilee bye. Then the Bishop wife paid for his entire hospital ordeal on her insurance, and as soon as he get out he go and sleep with her cousin. Child, I would rather worship with the white folks. I do not have time to deal with the foolishness of the black baptist church.  But I had known the Bishop my entire life, and was very shocked to find out his true character as adult. Then chilee, one of his sidechicks came to church with the exact hairstyle as mine trying to compete with me baby I am done. So I joined a non-denominational church so I could have peace. I want my child to know the Lord.

Do Not Waste Your Time

Child, you may be reading this and God led you hear for a reason. Do not waste your time on man-made religion . Instead go to a healthy church instead. Growing up in the black church I have seen so much foolishness that I am done with them. Why in the world would you fight over a married man, when you could just go and get your own ? Do not waste your time fighting over a married man just go to a different church and be happy. Some men like when women fight over them because it boost their ego. Don’t be that woman, instead move on with your life and go to a different church where you can succeed and be happy.

Minister Precious-Diamond Chessier

Kingdom Marriages Loading…

Matthew 19:5-7Expanded Bible

And God said, ‘So a man will leave his father and mother and be ·united with [joined to] his wife, and the two will become ·one body [as though they were one person; T one flesh; Gen. 2:24].’ So they are no longer two, but one. God has joined the two together, so no one should separate them.”

While Working

I was doing research and found so many amazing pictures of marriage. I found black Marriages. I found interracial marriages. I found Jewish marriages and they were great pictures. But while I was looking at pictures God told me to believe him for something great in my love life. I must admit, right now I am in the midst of divorce… but God told me that my next husband is a GREAT husband. I decided that I would believed God for his promises that I am a woman who believes, and I am woman who loves much. I have faith that God would bless me with a good husband and a marriage that will be used for his Glory and his purpose.

Working While I Wait

Right now I serve at church as a Usher. I am rebuilding myself, and molding myself into a woman of God. But I also started running again, and taking better care of my body. I have lost 134 pounds so far. In 2022 when I got on the scale I was a whopping 354 pounds after the baby. In October 2024 I was 223. So I am very close to my goal . But I made the decision that I wanted to live and be healthy. Also, I decided to lose more weight to prepare my body for birthing again. I did not want to become pregnant at 354 pounds because that would have pushed me to 400 pounds. Below is a picture of me at 354 pounds.

Now because I was in The Marines, the 354 was really sold. It was not loose fat. So I am grateful for that. But I just don’t like having stretch marks and roles. I used to be really against getting cosmetic surgery to have extra skin removed, but what I will say is now if you lose weight and have to have the skin removed for health reasons that do what is best. I have to get my knees realigned and right now I am looking for a specialist. In case you did not know getting very big can mess your knees up very badly. So right now even though I have stretch marks and what not I am still trying to get my body back to what I looked like before pregnancy. But what I will say is that black women , do not eat so much fastfood while pregnant. I ate a lot of Chipotle, Popeye’s, and Chick Fil A and I got to 354. So just watch how much fast food you consume.

Love Yall,

Precious-Diamond Sandre’a Chessier, Usher

How To Know When A Child Has A Demon

Don’t be fooled by those who say such things, for “bad company corrupts good character.” – 1 Corinthians 15:33

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So lately I have seen something , and because I am a mother I can discern when another child has a demon . But what is surprising , is that there are some children who are truly destined to be the anti-Christ so the demon cannot be removed . There are some people that Jesus Christ will not save and he will not deliver and that is even some children .

I think the church needs to understand that devil is real and no , everyone is not going to heaven . But what even is disturbing and something I have seen for myself is that some babies even have demons . So one has to ask , what could the mother have done for her son to be born with a demon that can’t be removed ?

The word of God says not to believe every spirit in 1 John . Although some people say the name of Jesus , some are truly witches and satanists that are hiding because they know satanism is wrong . The word of God says to have no fellowship with darkness and that is true . Because there are some children that you see in passing that God doesn’t want you to speak to because it has a demon . Below are some signs that a child has a demon .

  • If a child is sitting at a table of any kind and sets plates for people who are not there , and begins to speak to air as if it is having a real conversation and begins to curse and talk bad about their parent or another adult that is nearby it has a demon .
  • If a child curses at its parents and hits the parents or threatens the parent it has a demon .
  • If the child runs to a corner and just stands still and starts talking to a wall in a whisper but it makes you uncomfortable by the sound of their voice it has a demon .
  • If a child screams and runs away ( if you are a Holy Ghost filled Christian) for no reason at all and you have done nothing to the child it has a demon . The demon doesn’t like you and it knows who you are and doesn’t like you because you’re a Christian .
  • If a child is a baby and it’s a boy , but acts like girl and plays with girl toys it has a homosexual spirit in it and it’s a demon.
  • If a child is a girl and she has a true hatred for her mother to the point that she throws food in her mothers face infront of other people , disrespect her mother , call her mother names , curse her mother , and physically assaults or fights her mother she has a demon .

Now the word of God says to mind your own business . If you see it sometimes God doesn’t want you to get involved because the word of God says in Exodus that he will bring torture on those who hate him to the 10th generation . So no , just walk away because it has nothing to do with you . Don’t be a shoulder to cry on to the anti-Christ . Don’t offer to help the anti-Christ . Don’t mentor the anti-Christ . Don’t offer to take the anti-Christ through deliverance because they have done something that is anti for that to happen and it’s nothing you can do .

The people of God have to stop being naive and see that there is a real devil and even stronger God . No , your child can’t be friends with all children because some children are just born evil. That’s nothing but facts in Jesus Name .


1 Thessalonians 4:11-12New International Version

11 and to make it your ambition to lead a quiet life: You should mind your own business and work with your hands, just as we told you,12 so that your daily life may win the respect of outsiders and so that you will not be dependent on anybody.

Queen Diamond

Date : 2/07/2024