Category: Health and Parenting

Ignoring The Jealous Comments

“When a fool is annoyed, he quickly lets it be known. Smart people will ignore an insult”. – Proverbs 12:16

Overlook

I can tell you right now that I am one who has to overcome being overlooked, slandered, gossiped, lied on, betrayed, and spoken ill against. Many people want me to fail and yet I succeed. Nevertheless, I can tell you that perception is not reality, because perception is not a fact. What people say about you is not true and if you let what people think consume your mind then you will burn down your peace and any chance of love, joy, and happiness.

“she called out to her servants. Soon all the men came running. “Look!” she said. “My husband has brought this Hebrew slave here to make fools of us! He came into my room to rape me, but I screamed”. – Genesis 39:14

I am reminded of Joseph and I understand him. I had a woman who was working as a property manager in 2023 lie and say I was trying to assault her by the name of Amanda Blythe because I was not attracted to her.. I lost my home. Then I turn around and found out that the F.B.I and freemason were trying to bribe me to lie and say (Robert Kelly) raped me and I said NO! So, I understand what it feels like to be lied and condemned in a court setting for something that you did not do.

But I remembered Joseph, and thought about how he felt when he was sitting in jail for 15 years for a crime that he did not commit. No he was not having sex with other men. He was locked in a cell and being called a rapist and he never touched that woman a day in his life. But he did not know that 15 years his spiritual gift to interpret dreams would cause him to be the Governor of Egypt.

I am sure when I was lied on by those 3 white women Amanda Blythe, Melanie, and Bethany Rivera really thought they were doing something by lying in court in a racist court system in craven county. I remember even when the black magistrate named Cedric Hargett helped them do it in his personal distaste and inner hatred for black women and his own lust for white women. But nope it did not destroy me at all! Forgetting that everyone is not racist and perverted like them. I do not have a problem with white women at all and matter of fact I go to church with them in peace. Needless to say, now I am doing just fine. Though at times I face small persecutions I overcome it and keep pressing forward.

So, ignore the hate. It is all meant to detour you and destroy the purpose that God has for you. Keep going and pressing forward and know that no weapon formed against you shall prosper. Know that satan will only attack what he is afraid of. When i went through that God told me, “Diamond if Satan is going that far to stop you, wouldn’t that tell you that God has a great plan for you”? I have to admit God must be right. Cause why would the illuminati and freemasons attach Amanda, Noah Moreis, Hannah Riggs, Cedric Hargett, Melanie, and Bethany to (me and Robert Kelly) and we don’t even know them ? But hey that really happened behind the scenes.

P.S – No I am not attracted to white women. Also, I would like to say to all of (Robert Sylvester Kelly) fan’s around the world that no he did not rape me. For those of you who do not know I am a singer. I made a mistake and signed with ASCAP as a writer and I guess the freemasons and the music industry was trying to break me to try and force me to engage in a demonic ritual in lying and saying that the (King of R & B) raped me and I said no because he did not. I have written him a letter while he is North Carolina to tell him that I would never lie on him to that degree. I realize that what happened in 2023 was because they were trying to make it seem like I had no other option which is why a judge who was a young white judge filed a ejection on my report. But I know who the Lord is and I was approved for a apartment. Even though I was lied on. I still have a place to live. I truly am sorry to all his fans worldwide and I pray fervently that he can come home soon. When I was lied on and set up by SONY and the music industry in 2023 that is when I knew that (Robert Kelly) was innocent. I to have had to deal with three women Amanda , Melanie, and Bethany that all conspired against me and a court trying to demean me as black woman – mind you these 3 women have not accomplished half of what I have done. Needless to say, I do not believe the allegations against (Robert Kelly – The KING of r&b) because I know for a fact I was lied on in 2023. I know for a fact I was bribed with a stellar award to lie on him like Reshonda Landfair and I said no. This industry is demonic and you have to stay prayed up. Now, I am recovering after the freemasons spread a malicious rumor online and said I was married to the King himself (Robert kelly) – and the freemasons aided in having my divorce struck down at the Richard Daley Center because of that malicious and sadistic rumor. I want you to know being a black influence is nothing to play with. The Jim Crow era was not that long ago , and though everyone is not racist there are terrible lies that are spewed against black people especially in claims to be attracted to white women.. Which again, I do not find white women attractive because I am attracted to men. Though I would view it as a honor to be the wife to the King of R&B (Robert Kelly) I am not his wife (but he if he proposed I would say yes lol). I know that the government set him up and had him registered as a sex offender because he is black and they caused Aaliyah and Andrea to lie on him for a price. But I want to remind Andrea, just like the government tricked Aaliyah and blew her plane up remember that will be your same fate because you reap what you sow. I am not trying to be obsessive over (Robert Kelly) but I have to make it be known that I will not join the freemasons and I refuse to lie on (Robert Sylvester Kelly). Also, I think that my ex-husband Ra’keem Ja’caar Jackson is a disgusting and hideous individual and I would never want to remain married to a perverted bastard like him. Selah.

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Is God Raising Up More Sarah’s ?

Is God Raising Up More Sarah’s ?

            I remember when the News story’s broke out about octomom. She had given birth to 8 children at one time. I remember when I watched the Disney Movie “Quints” – I always knew that I wanted to be a mother. I always wanted the honor to carry a child and give birth. I just didn’t expect life to happen the way it did. When I was pregnant with (Ruth) my ex-husband Ra’keem tried to choke me and punch me while I was carrying on my birthday. His brother jumped me a few weeks after I had a baby. My ex-husband Ra’keem also lied on me to the New Bern Police Department while I was battling post-partum depression because he was angry that I wanted to get the marriage annulled and did not want to be his wife. That led me to be ejected – literally the court documents in New Bern , North Carolina verbally say “because of her husband”. I had gone through some tough things as a mother and yet I recovered and returned back to base camp in Chicago, Illinois.

            Yet, as more doors open for me to sing as a ordained minister and former First Lady. I can tell you that I have been involved with men who cannot conceive a child. I ask God and he said, “Diamond. It is the spirit realm. They are not physically strong enough to conceive a child with you”. I realized that when a man has not accomplished as much as a woman, he cannot conceive with her because his body has not been caused to endure the levels of stress or hardship that she has gone through – which makes them biologically incompatible to reproduce according to the spirit realm.

            Now that has left me very sad – to the point that I have been considering artificial insemination because I am 29 years old. I thought I was going to have a house with a white picket fence by now , have a apple mini-farm in my back yard, and have at least 5 children. Well, I have one child and I love her. But I want to birth more children.

            It is crazy because before I became a Christian I did not believe in the power of fasting and prayer, I did not believe in the Bible, and  definitely did not believe in the story of Sarah. I heard it before but I did not believe. But now I feel like I am walking the past of Sarah. I desperately want a family and more children – but I feel God telling me to wait. I did more research and saw that the oldest woman in modern day history was 74 years old when she conceived. I cry sometimes – me being a woman as I watch everyone else birthing.. But God keeps telling me , “I did not call or choose them. There bloodline does not matter. Because I did not choose them”. At first I loathed that idea, but now I have no choice but to stand firm on the promises of God that I will conceive. I was not necessarily asking for a husband but I did want more children because that is my natural desire to do so as a woman.

            Yet, I have been miserable and depressed. Comparing myself to everyone else online. I felt like people were mocking me in church , “Hey you know so and so have more kids now. You only have one”. Granted they had teeth missing and smelled really bad. But still.

            So though I am a minister, my biological clock  is ticking.. I want to become pregnant and have more children. I don’t necessarily want a husband. But I did want more kids. I have been thinking a lot about Sarah and the pain and humiliation she must have felt watching everyone else become pregnant. I wonder how embarrassing it was for Sarah to watch Hagar walk around with her husband’s baby. I can kind of feel that pain.

            All I ever wanted was a family (Joshua 24:15). I never wanted to be famous, never wanted influence, and never wanted to be a preacher. I just wanted a cozy house, warm Christmas music playing in the background , I wanted to bake pies and cookies for my kids, and I wanted to build a snowman infront of our brick house. I would sit back and daydream of watching my kids play snowball fights with there dad and having the time of there lives. I wanted to bake cookies for my kids to leave out for Santa. I was robbed of that in 2023. Swarmed by police officers who were concerned about influence.. But all I wanted was a beautiful family and a house to raise my kids in. I was preparing to purchase a house and had the money for the deposit. I made a mistake and invested into ministry instead and I regret it. I should have kicked Ra’keem out my house sooner and bought my house while I had a chance.

            Now it seems that debt is building up because of marriage. Depression has seeped in. I do not really believe in faith – but maybe God is trying to show me something.. Maybe faith will lead me to that beautiful brick house , wonderful front yard, and that snowy cookie baking day with my children. I want to experience building gingerbread houses with my children. I was looking forward to rocking my newest baby to the bunch by the warm candlelight fire. As a woman I am depressed and had to lean on God. My dreams of being that type of mother have been shattered because of the F.B.I , the USMC , and the New Bern Police. They USMC just had to hurt me one last time to remind me I was black.

            Now as I am moving forward and singing in ministry in emotional pain. I have to remember Sarah. I have to remember that Sarah was in emotional pain for 90 years. She was praying for more than 70 years for a son named Isaac. When she thought all hope was lost it finally came. I realized that maybe I am not doing enough in the spirit realm. Maybe I should read my Bible more, watch more content about family, or even study more about fertility. I have to do more to have more. There is a lot of witchcraft flowing. But I believe in God. I believe that just like Sarah God will open my womb to conceive again and I will finally have the family that I was promised many years ago.

“Then Abraham bowed down to the ground, but he laughed to himself in disbelief. “How could I become a father at the age of 100?” he thought. “And how can Sarah have a baby when she is ninety years old?” – Genesis 17:17 NLT

Minister Precious-Diamond S. Chessier

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A Black Woman’s Son Is Not Her Husband

A Black Woman’s Son Is Not Her Husband

Leviticus 18:7-17

Easy-to-Read Version

7 “You must never have sexual relations with your father or mother. She is your mother, so you must not have sexual relations with her. 8 You must not have sexual relations with your father’s wife, even if she is not your mother, because that is like having sexual relations with your father.9 “You must not have sexual relations with your sister. It doesn’t matter if she is the daughter of your father or your mother. And it doesn’t matter if your sister was born in your house or at some other place.10 “You must not have sexual relations with your granddaughter. It doesn’t matter whether she is the daughter of your son or the daughter of your daughter—they are all a part of you!11 “If your father and his wife have a daughter, she is your sister. You must not have sexual relations with her.12 “You must not have sexual relations with your father’s sister. She is your father’s close relative. 13 You must not have sexual relations with your mother’s sister. She is your mother’s close relative. 14 You must not have sexual relations with the wife of your father’s brother. You must not go near your uncle’s wife for sexual relations. She is your aunt.15 “You must not have sexual relations with your daughter-in-law. She is your son’s wife, so you must not have sexual relations with her.16 “You must not have sexual relations with your brother’s wife. That would be like having sexual relations with your brother.17 “You must not have sexual relations with a mother and her daughter or her granddaughter. It doesn’t matter if this granddaughter is the daughter of this woman’s son or daughter. Her granddaughters are her close relatives. It is wrong to do this.

Pictures Say A lot

          When I look on social media I have seen some disturbing images of black mothers and their sons. I have seen black boys hugging their mothers and touching their butts and there posing as if they are in relationship with one another and its wrong. I want you to know that the word of God strictly prohibits this, but its severely common amongst black women.

          It is no secret that black families suffer the most, but it is also no secret that many black influencers are trying to present a better image for black families. But I do have to say something to these black women who are being extremely inappropriate with your son who is your own flesh and blood.

  • Your son is not attracted to you
  • Your son does not want to see your panties
  • Your son is not looking at you
  • Your son does not want to kiss you
  • Your son does not want to marry you

Young Black Men Need To Get Married and Have a Wife

          When a young black man finds a wife, his responsibility now is to his wife and their children, NOT the mother! As a mother you cant make his wife feel bad because he wants to spend time with her. This is not a competition, she is the wife and you as the mother is not the wife. Black women need not argue with there son’s girlfriend because he is becoming a man and preparing to become a husband. The word of God says a man shall leave his mother and cling with his WIFE (Genesis 2:24).

         The truth of the matter is a lot of black women are about to lose their relationships with there sons because of there inappropriate behavior. Another thing, as a black woman your son is not the replacement to his father because the father didn’t want you. Some black women will name the son after the father, kick the father out the picture, and then try to form a unusually affectionate relationship with the son (to make up for what went wrong with the father) and that is wrong. You are NOT his wife and you are NOT his girlfriend.

As A Black Mother

          As a black mother, if you know better you do better. You have to have boundaries with your children. As an older black woman you cant attack his wife, because you feel like you are being replaced.

One – Yes you are being replaced, because you are walking into a spot you are not supposed to be in. You are not supposed to be held in the honor of a wifely position with your son, and yes God is sending a wife quickly to get your son away from you because you are wrong. That is according to the Book of Leviticus.

Two – Your sons are not going to sympathize with you and they are not going to fall for your fake tears. Your son is going to choose his girlfriend or wife side, because YOU are inappropriate.

I grieve for the sake of black women, but I know that we will see a brighter day. But I have to address that. There is so many negative assumptions about black women and sadly many of it is true, but as a black woman (though I am mixed ethnicity) I feel like it is my job and due diligence to change the negative image of black motherhood into a positive image of black motherhood. Moral of the story, your son is not your husband. Stop bothering him and let him live with his wife and peace.

Minister Precious-Diamond Sandre’a Chessier

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Stay Right There

Psalm 105:15King James Version

15 Saying, Touch not mine anointed, and do my prophets no harm.

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Being a single parent is not easy especially when already have a set schedule in place.. Sometimes you can feel a resistance in the spirit realm about your schedule , but now that God is the glue and binder to keep your schedule in place. For example ( my daughter Ruth) is enrolled in a private daycare and school. The recent hospital visit about her colon was totally unexpected but God is indeed a healer. So Ruth was approved to go back to school on Monday June 16, 2025 and she will be in daycare and continue daycare. As her mother yes , I loved her.. But resilience is the key. I have to work and provide. I don’t have time to lay in bed and cuddle all day because that’s a irresponsible parent. But because I am a responsible parent I know that the show must go on , and my baby girl ( Ruth ) has to go back to daycare on Monday.. So parents don’t feel bad about carrying on , you have to keep going and you have continue being a responsible parent.

Minister Precious – Diamond S. Chessier

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What A Night It Has Been

Isaiah 54:17New King James Version

17 No weapon formed against you shall prosper,
And every tongue which rises against you in judgment
You shall condemn.
This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord,
And their righteousness is from Me,”
Says the Lord.

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Being a parent comes with unexpected hospital visits. On this episode of the ghetto parenting life chronicles, my ( daughter Ruth) had to be admitted. I believe God for supernatural healing. ( Ruth ) was very sick and throwing up . I say this because as a parent don’t automatically assume that throwing up is normal because it could be a sign that the child needs to go to the doctor.

Because we will be in the hospital for one week. Moral of the story don’t automatically assume that your child is being “extra”, “dramatic”, or “doing something for attention”. Something could really be wrong so get it checked out !

Minister Precious – Diamond S. Chessier

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