Category: Faith, Family, and Fashion

A Real Man Is Not Jealous Of His Woman

Then the LORD God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man. – Genesis 2:22

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I realized that there is a serious epidemic of real men . A real man is not determined by his money but his morals . It seemed like the older generation of men understood the basics of being a man such as getting married , buying a house , having kids , and being a provider . Now , it is actually disturbing of the lack of real men . There was a time that men worked so hard that a woman could stay home and raise her children and produce good citizens , now because the men do not work and it forces a woman to provide there is a plague of lawless children because of the instability of a man .

  • A man should not be at home while the woman works . The Holy Bible says that if a man does not work then he does not eat . Normally , a woman was supposed to be at home raising the kids but now the men are not doing this . Yet , I believe that there are still real men out there that will stand for what is right in regard to being a man .
  • A real man never lets another man disrespect his woman . Men should not let other men confront or disrespect a woman . If a man acts like that , the he is not a real man he is a coward . Because I guarantee you he will not act like that towards a real man he will only do that towards women . Real men need to get back to protecting women and their womb’s because they birth there legacy .
  • A real man should not raise his children to disrespect their mother . Now , there are some trifling mothers but not all mothers are trifling . There are some half decent mothers that have gotten involved with men that tell their daughters to disrespect their mothers and that isn’t right . A real man will tell his daughter , that her mother is the adult and not her , and the mother is in charge and not the kids . That’s what a real man does.
  • A real man is honest . Real men don’t lie and they don’t let other women fight the woman that they love . A real man does not let another woman attack the woman that he loves and if he does have to use physical force to protect her then that’s what he will do , because that’s a real man .
  • A real man does not give his woman a sexually transmitted disease and then lie about it . Yes , a real man is clean about his sexuality. A real man does not hide his status and then infect another woman and then lie about it , that’s not a real man .
  • A real man doesn’t beg another man for a handout . A real man works to provide for his family and would never let his family starve due to his laziness and instability. A real man provides .

Those tips are the basics that the older generation understood and acted on . I pray that real men return and protect and provide the way that God originally had planned .

Love ,

Queen Diamond

Date : February 02,2024

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Discerning A Monitoring Demonic Spirit

“Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces.” – Matthew 7:6

Because I am getting older I have less patience for stupidity . I don’t waste my time arguing with people when I know that I’m right because I made the decision not to waste my precious energy on stupidity. With that being said , I realized that people talk way to much around the wrong people . People don’t realize how crazy and ignorant some people are . Are people realizing that if you tell the wrong person where you work they will call your job behind your back and lie on you to get you fired for absolutely no reason at all . It’s a sign that we are in the last days . I realized that sometimes people get so arrogant about a tiny “come up” that they start talking way to much and ultimately they say something in front of the wrong person and loose everything . I have had to learn to be quiet . I have had to learn the hard way about fake people and fake friends . But as I am evolving God is revealing more about discerning a witch and not to be deceived by their appearance.

You have to learn to BE QUITE ! Do not tell even your closest relative your next move because there is demonic spirit loosed as of January 31,2024 and it is a spirit of betrayal. You have to stay 10 steps ahead of the enemy . Sometimes you have to work with people and wait on God , knowing that Jesus already said to stay away from people or they will betray you . When those moments happen , heed the voice of God so you can avoid unnecessary drama , but if you ignore that voice that is constantly warning you about someone then you will find your self in terrible trouble .

So understand that no you don’t have to be paranoid , but you have to watch your back because people are crazy and you don’t know what people are capable of especially when jealousy is involved .

Queen Diamond

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Good Memories

So lately I have been a little sad wondering what my other baby would have looked like . Sometimes I have dreams of him in heaven , and I love seeing his curly dark black hair . But I get sad because I know he probably would been the most beautiful baby in the entire planet . I have been left to grieve alone .

But I have had some resentment in my heart because I really wanted to be a mother . I want more children but I can’t really find a good donor to have one with . I wondered why I wasn’t getting pregnant with my ex-husband but now I know the drugs made him infertile . So here I am and I want more kids , but I realize that after what happened in my marriage I don’t think I will marry until I’m well above 59 years old. I don’t think it’s fair that so many women can have children out of wedlock and I can’t . I never really wanted to be a minister so why can’t I have more kids ? That’s just my thoughts on January 30,2024 . I’m kind of sad because I want more kids and I don’t want to wait until I’m married . Because children bring good memories .

Queen Diamond


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Why Are Black Celebrities Targeted When They Defend Themselves?

You know I’m getting really tired of ignorance and I am tired of people talking crazy but if I say something then they get scared and start shaking in their boots . It’s annoying and irritating because people have begun to recognize me and I’m honestly annoyed by it . I’m annoyed by the racist police officers who don’t like me because I’m a black woman with influence ( but I don’t like you either ). I’m annoyed by the Marines and our racist history that we have and what they did to me ( I don’t like you either ). I’m annoyed by the ignorant people that I meet that stare at my body and make ignorant comments about how I look saying that I don’t “look” like a prophet and because I wax and shave apparently that’s a “sin” because women aren’t supposed to be concerned about their appearance if they are “really” a prophet . Oh but baby I’m even more annoyed at people who have nicknamed me “Beyoncé “ in the church because of my appearance and how I sing . Now , out of all people they choose a no good witch (Beyoncé )to call me . I’m even more annoyed by the ignorant racism that I go through with companies such as Amazon saying that I have stolen my own books and a white woman has the NERVE to pretend to be me and Twitter lets her have a account in my name . I’m annoyed by the bank I’m with draining my account , but I know that God said that draining is about to stop . I’m annoyed that Wells Fargo locked me out my account which was my daughters college fund for $100. Im annoyed that YouTube said that I’m bullying Satan meanwhile Lil Nas X nasty behind stripping infront of kids on YouTube . I’m annoyed that I reached over 2 million views on YouTube and YouTube refuses to openly show it . I’m annoyed by The United States Of America . I’m even more annoyed that racist people say ignorant stuff online but if you respond then they want to claim that you’re bullying someone and that you’re “weaponizing “ . Hmm . So . I can’t stand Beyoncé because of how she mocks God , but baby I’m going to be more silent than Beyoncé. Because I see what the government is doing and I see that the government HATES that so many different black people have gained influence and financial wealth . So , no longer will I communicate with people online and no I do not care about your comments and no I’m not doing a meet and greet and no I’m not signing a book. Nope , keep your distance away from me and if you get to rowdy that’s self-defense and I defend myself very well I might add . As of today January 29,2024 you shall not hear a word or response for me unless the Lord releases me because I realized that some white judges want a white woman to sue me to try to demean me in court to make it seem like a white woman who has NOT accomplished even five percent of what I have is better than me and she is NOT ! I realized it bothers a lot of hidden Nazi’s in the court systems that I’m educated , a military veteran , and intelligent. It bothers them and I honestly do not care . But I realize that racist police officers want to try to get me to submit to racism and I WILL NO DO IT . So , let the games begin .
Queen Diamond

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I Want To Discuss The Topic Of Abuse

Isaiah 54:17New King James Version

17 No weapon formed against you shall prosper,
And every tongue which rises against you in judgment
You shall condemn.
This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord,
And their righteousness is from Me,”
Says the Lord.

As you all know I am divorcing a man who was very abusive to me financially , emotionally, and sometimes physically. Yet , I realized while doing therapy that I made that bad decision because of my childhood and not healing properly from it . Which is sadly common that people who were abused tend to go to an abuser in a relationship until they heal from what happened. Yet , while I looked online I saw something so disturbing and I won’t say there name but I will say it was disturbing . I saw a picture that a man made his wife cover her face in a leather mask , a bathing suit , and made her make him a sandwich and then posted a picture of it . One could only imagine what goes on behind the camera. Yet , in the midst of seeing that God said to me , “you couldn’t imagine what I am sparing you from and this is nothing compared to what is to come “. Sadly , because of social media abusive relationships are looking trendy because of a picture when in actuality it’s sick and sadistic . Abuse is never okay . People should not have to live with constant violence and chaos . I have had to learn that it’s better to be alone then be with a abuser . In my own situation I had to make the decision to ignore the church folk that told me to stay and instead follow Jesus instead . People of God and even people who are just coming across my blog , a man making a woman wear a leather mask in the house and nothing but a bathing suit , in heels to make him a sandwich is abuse and it is not normal and that is not art … it’s abuse .

Let Us Get Healthy & Whole ,

Queen Diamond

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Why A Handsome Black Man Should Never Beg Another Man For Financial Help

Proverbs 28:19-23 NLT

A hard worker has plenty of food, but a person who chases fantasies ends up in poverty. The trustworthy person will get a rich reward, but a person who wants quick riches will get into trouble. Showing partiality is never good, yet some will do wrong for a mere piece of bread. Greedy people try to get rich quick but don’t realize they’re headed for poverty. In the end, people appreciate honest criticism far more than flattery.

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I want to tell a true story that really happened . So before I made the decision to file for divorce from my disgusting ex-husband , who allegedly got hit by a truck . But like after he got hit he mysteriously was able to go cheat with a woman he worked with a Waffle House because he believed he was getting 1.2 million dollars for a car accident that was really his fault and yes he did NOT get 1.2 million . So , my ex-husband named Ra’keem , decides that instead of working he would rather go beg his white lawyer for food to bring home to his black family (mind you this lawyer was one of the biggest lawyers in Greenville , North Carolina ) so that he could have more time to cheat with some bum female … because apparently me telling him to work two jobs to pay rent was to much for him as a man ( mind you I was working five jobs just to make ends meet because of the recession and being disabled … the disabled money was NOT enough to feed my daughter especially when you add rent , car note, car insurance , health insurance , food , clothes , electricity money , and basic needs). Now … when I found out that Ra’keem was constantly facing eviction and unable to pay rent on time and would rather stand outside the Tobacco shop in Greenville , North Carolina and beg other men for cigarettes and money instead of working I remembered those beautiful words that God said “do not marry Ra’keem” three years and the night before I said I do to Ra’keem . So …. I realized that I had a stronger work ethic than Ra’keem . But also Ra’keem REFUSED to watch my daughter Ruth , because it was getting in the way of his time to go sleep and cheat with the Waffle House worker AND he lied about getting promoted to manager , come to find out Ra’keem had not been to work in almost two weeks so he LIED and was begging and sleeping with another woman while I was at home trying to take care of my daughter and wondering where he was (because you know cheaters don’t answer the phone they just disappear for all hours of the day )….. So…. I was reading a article about how a rapper (who I personally do NOT like ) openly begged two white men for help to pay off his billion dollar debt . Then it clicked ! Like … that’s a serious issue . Do black men realize how bad that looks when his wife has to watch him beg another man for money to provide for his family ? Now because I made the BAD decision to marry this man , I have to start all over and fix my finances because of what he did. I have to continue paying for everything for myself while he can walk around freely stealing clothes from stores , getting high , and cheating with some idiot he met at Waffle House . But what does mommy have to do ? Mommy has to raise her daughter and love her despite what happened . So black men …. Do NOT do what my ex-husband did. Be a real man and work to provide for your family . Do not beg another man for a handout and don’t accept money from another man unless it’s business oriented. You do not understand how much your influence means to your family . Black man do better than my ex-husband .
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Now personally , I know that I will get married again . I love dark men , I LOVE dark men and brown men . I love when a man works hard and when he is a real man and he is serious about his business . I love when a man moves in silence and works in silence . I like when a man is a business man . I like a man who is a BOSS , not an employee but a BOSS (I mean you were an employee at one point and then you graduated into having your own business ) . I love when a black man is educated (even if it is a honorary degree that’s still smart ! ) , I love when a man doesn’t listen to his friends drama and does not let his friends disrespect his woman , and I LOVE THUGS ! So , I believe that there is a good man out there , right now I’m just focused on parenting .

Love ,

Queen Diamond

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