Category: encouraged and comforted

Public Marriage Is Government

Public Marriage Is Government

What Does The Bible Say?

               As you all know I have been very public about the things that I have gone through being a public figure and facing divorce from my ex-husband Ra’keem. I learned a hard lesson that “public marriage is government”. I studied the Royal Marriages Act and it helped me to see better and understand better. The word of God says not to be unequally yoked. Many times people take that and use it only for the spiritual realm. No – do not be unequally yoked in business dealings, work ethic, physical strength, and even your mentality. Being with someone who is not “used” to having a better life caused me to deal with someone who almost tore down everything I worked for all because of a “iPad”.

               I believe in Joshua 24:15. I believe that the image of a black family is husband and wife. Everyone black does not agree with me and I’m fine with that. Trust I am not losing any sleep over people who do not agree with me. But as I look at the listings of women online I realize that many of them will never become good wives. The art of being a wife and mother is gone to due the over sexualization of women.

               As a woman I had to relocate back to Chicago in order to get my business dealings back in order. However, I know that this is for a season. Though I am involved in Real Estate dealings in Chicago – I would have to travel here often. Yet, again Chicago is for a season. But while being in Chicago I see the poor productivity being produced in the black home and it’s sad and sickening. The black parents are not producing “effective citizens” in there homes , but instead are producing people that steal , kill , and destroy.

A Better Reward

               All I can do is be obedient. All I can do is release what God told me to do. All I can do is teach blacks how to make the right decisions. Sadly, the old saying goes “you can lead the horse to the water, but you can’t make it drink”. Being in Chicago has opened my eyes to the sad reality in the black community – that though God can give them something better … They don’t want better.

               As someone who is black – I would say be very careful when marrying. It is kind of difficult to teach and preach against racism when there is so much ignorance within the black community itself. But what is disappointing is the aspect of marriage. You have to be careful because marriage will get the devil foothold to destroy everything you have worked for if you are married to the wrong person – and I sadly learned that the hard way.

               If you desire to get married know that that is a major step. Check their credit score, go to therapy, and really investigate to see who that person is. You want to marry someone who is honest and keeps their word.

Conclusion

               Marriage is a serious decision, and you must be wise. Be careful when getting married. I pray that you are truly put into a position to enjoy your life. But I pray that you make a wise decision on who to marry. Do not covet and wish you had someone else’s marriage because you don’t know what is going on in their home.

Minister Precious-Diamond S. Chessier (Kelly)

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Do You Believe God For A Love Story?

Do You Believe God For A Love Story?

“Do two people start traveling together without arranging to meet?” – Amos 3:3 GNT

          So, not going to lie my love life has not gone the way that I wanted too lately. I have had a rough journey in dating and I feel like lately God wants me to wait on his timing for a spouse. But as a single black woman, I have had a problem with dating cotton picking fools. Men who are extremely lazy, don’t work, don’t shower, momma’s boys, and so many other problems with them. So, because of my bad dating habits, I have been left broken and dealing with a lot of crap. So I made a announcement that the next man I date have to:

  • Be rich, handsome, and fight like (Floyd Mayweather Jr.)
  • Be rich and  handsome like Chris Brown
  • Be rich like Prince William

I absolutely refuse to date anymore broke men and I am not working with them to uplift them anymore. Growing up I never saw good relationships and I always watched women do stupid things because of men. So I was in high school dating grown men behind closed doors.

          But because of that I got into a bunch of terrible and bad relationships. I didn’t have “love” as a child and so I was just going from boyfriend to boyfriend. Well one day life got really serious because I became pregnant, and though I had money I was now dealing with a man (my ex-husband Ra’keem) who was jealous of me, and he was willing to do anything and everything to destroy me.

          So, in 2023 I lost my home, was evicted with (a child), lived in 4 different states, and then moved back to Chicago for a season. I learned the consequences of dating men who are irresponsible and cannot provide a house and home as a man. I don’t believe there is anything wrong with being single, but being in a relationship with the wrong person can lead to danger and disaster.

          I made the decision that for a season that I was going to take a long break from dating and get my life together. I made the decision that fixing my credit score, buying a car, buying a house, and working to fix and restore my career is way more important than dating a man right now. I think in church there is so many teachings on courting, but they are not telling you how bad the dating scene is right now in the Christian world right now.

          Don’t marry someone just because someone in the church say’s to. Get married to someone who is equally yoked to you in responsibility. Also, women do not marry any man that you have more money then. If you have more money than a man he will never be happy for you. Some men hide things under the rug and they wait until you get married to show you how evil, jealous, and envious of you. When a man is jealous of you because he can’t lead you financially – he will do everything that he can to destroy you.

          Even in the process of trying to lose weight, I was dealing with the men I was dating who was not happy for me and would try to argue with me about going to the gym to better myself. As a woman never try to make a man see your point of view if he is jealous of you because you already lost the battle. That is a mental issue that he has if he does not want you to go to the gym to better yourself as a woman. You need to believe God that he will send someone who will have high standards like you, and that he will surely bring someone that will encourage you to push someone to Christ. I know that they say “don’t be unequally yoked to an unbeliever” – but you have to understand a lot of men in the church are secretly gay. So if you have to marry a man who is not saved and you have to lead him to salvation remember 1 Peter 3:4 , “Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight”.

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Let’s Be Real : You Need To Stop Smoking Weed ( Marijuana)

Now first of all im not a hypocrite , so I can say the Lord told me to stop taking Ashawangda. Ashawangda is a stem of marijuana , though you can buy it in stores like Walmart its still not a good supplement to take.

But in regard to weed ( marijuana) dont let a blunt cause you to miss a good opportunity. For example , in order to get into the Army you have to pass a drug test. You cant take edibles and you cant smoke any weed ( marijuana). You having a better life by enlisting into the military is more important that rolling up a blunt.

You have to let people go and there bad company go in order to focus on something better in the future and the long run. Sometimes you may even have to let go of you parents ( mother and father) in order to have a better life ( Psalms 27). Even if your mother smokes marijuana you need to stay away from her so that you’re not tempted to smoke weed either.

If you are a man reading this , you need to be a man and stand on your word. Do what needs to be done in order for you to progress in the future. Enlisting into the military ( Army ) is a good choice to get your life together. So go see the recruiter and do what needs to be done to better yourself. Like studying for a asvab, cleaning out your system, and getting married to your fiance before bootcamp so you can enjoy your enlistment together. Moral of the story, your good future and destiny isn’t worth a blunt. So focus on God instead!

Minister Precious – Diamond S. Chessier

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Work Massages On Break Time

Ecclesiastes 7:16-17New King James Version

16 Do not be overly righteous,
Nor be overly wise:
Why should you destroy yourself?
17 Do not be overly wicked,
Nor be foolish:
Why should you die before your time?

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You never know when love is going to happen. It might actually happen on your lunch time in between shifts.. Say ( as a woman ) , the man you have been eyeing for a long time offers to massage something on your body in the computer room at work. I mean there is nothing wrong with that, it’s not inappropriate. Nobody walked into the room , and you and that man were alone.

Truth is, it’s the beginning to something special that is leading to marriage. Do something out the box so that you can enjoy the gift of marriage. There is nothing wrong with a little massage at work..

Minister Precious – Diamond S. Chessier

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Having A Successful Interview

Matthew 25:21King James Version21 His lord said unto him, Well done, thou good and faithful servant: thou hast been faithful over a few things, I will make thee ruler over many things: enter thou into the joy of thy lord.

When You Go Into A Group Interview

When you are going in for a job interview you want to hear this words , “You’re hired”! Being called in for a interview is a major feat , and you may find yourself in the position where you have to work 2 jobs ( Amos 9:13-15) ! With that being said when being called in for a group interview , you can still be selected on the spot to be hired to work for that company in the select hours that you have chosen .

In The Holy Bible , the word of God teaches on Proverbs 6 and how important it is to maintain consistent employment.

Employment is a necessity. So do everything that you can to remain employed. I hope that you have a successful job interview and that you hear those words , “You’re Hired”! As you are preparing ahead of your interview, try to bring your resume , and impress your new employer – and remember to dress professional !

Minister Precious – Diamond Chessier

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