What A Night It Has Been

Isaiah 54:17New King James Version

17 No weapon formed against you shall prosper,
And every tongue which rises against you in judgment
You shall condemn.
This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord,
And their righteousness is from Me,”
Says the Lord.

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Being a parent comes with unexpected hospital visits. On this episode of the ghetto parenting life chronicles, my ( daughter Ruth) had to be admitted. I believe God for supernatural healing. ( Ruth ) was very sick and throwing up . I say this because as a parent don’t automatically assume that throwing up is normal because it could be a sign that the child needs to go to the doctor.

Because we will be in the hospital for one week. Moral of the story don’t automatically assume that your child is being “extra”, “dramatic”, or “doing something for attention”. Something could really be wrong so get it checked out !

Minister Precious – Diamond S. Chessier

Trusting God While Raising A Child Born Premature

Isaiah 53:5New International Version

But he was pierced for our transgressions,
    he was crushed for our iniquities;
the punishment that brought us peace was on him,
    and by his wounds we are healed.

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In 2021 I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl named Ruth, who was born premature. In the Black culture I don’t think premature birthing is discussed and how time consuming and how much it costs financially. Don’t think that once they get older the sickness is over because it’s not. Actually , as they get older more is discovered and because the medical field is evolving. When ( Ruth) was a baby , it was recommended that (she) have surgery.. However I didn’t feel the peace of God on that and that was when we were living in a house in Oxon Hill , Maryland. Years later as a single mother I am still dealing with the consequences financially of having a (baby that was born sick ) by myself.

In this season I am learning contentment and I am learning to thank God in all circumstances, in all situations, and all events. So I bless the name of the Lord in the midst of this. I thank God that he has provided insurance. I thank God he has provided money. I thank God he has provided more than enough for me to take care of my daughter.

i say this so that you know don’t think you have a premature baby it’s over when they turn one because it’s not.

You’re just getting started. There are unplanned emergency rooms visits, surgeries , doctor’s notes , excused absence from school due to medical reasons , pediatricians, and so much more involved with having baby born premature. My original due date was October 19, 2021 – she was born September 23, 2021.

No , the father ( Ra’keem ) has not been helpful. I have had to deal and handle this all financially myself but God has helped me. Moral of the story when you have a premature baby brace yourself for the reality of :

  • Stomach surgery
  • Autism diagnosis
  • Asthma
  • Speech Therapy

And so much more. But know that even if you are doing it as a single parent the Lord will send people to help you and he will indeed provide.

Sincerely,

Minister Precious – Diamond S. Chessier

Going Back To Work As A Mother

Psalm 105:15King James Version

15 Saying, Touch not mine anointed, and do my prophets no harm.

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Ecc. 11:4

The word of God says not to wait for perfect conditions and to press forward. So I went to a job interview for a manager position and met all the qualifications and was almost offered a job… to be told that because I did not have daycare on the weekends that I could not work that position because as a manager you have to be available 24/7. Yeah, 12 years of work experience and certificates to be told that because I am a mother I cannot get the job at that particular store in this season. So, I was told that I qualify to be a crew member but to be paid on the higher end of salary because of my education and work experience. Yeah, I was not to happy about that but after praying God told me to go work the job as a crew member and to trust him. Ironic that store that is hiring cannot find any employees and claims that nobody wants to work, despite there strict criteria. In the midst of filling out job applications I came across a question that said , “religion is to persecute Christians”. Not even lying. On a job application, they are telling there workers in order to work there you have to persecute Christians. But not only that, women who have children are not being accepted in the manager positions and now nobody has enough employees and no one has managers because of that stupid rule. Yet, I will keep my job and keep going and no I will not be fired.

Even at my boyfriend J , job he is going through some things. All at once his co workers take their lunch break and leave him to do all the work by himself. So yes, everyone is going through tough times (my friend has been trained in welding). But you have to understand that though you may be going through tough times, God is not going to allow you to be fired from your job. Though some people may lie on you, there lie will be proven exactly as a lie and you will not be fired. I mean look at UberEats drivers, the customers lie ALL the time but that does not mean that the UberEats driver will be fired. Infact, the more you work UberEats the more your approval ratings go up and up. So, the moral of the story is you have to press forward and keep going. But most UberEats customer do tell the truth (%99).

In My Own Personal Life

In my own personal life, I know that I pursue education to earn more money and thank God I finally passed my college math classes. But in the midst of these times it is I know I had to keep going. For examples, Ruth father left me and abandoned me with Ruth all by myself. Ra’keem lied on me to the police and had me ejected from my apartment in New Bern, North Carolina. I had to move alone with Ruth and pay $720 for daycare that Ra’keem does not help with all. I was hired for a job and had no choice but to work. Then I met my boyfriend J, who helps me financially and provides a safe home. J also fixes my car for me because he went to trade school for welding and he has his own apartment. It was actually J , who told me that I made a bad decision in marrying Ra’keem, and Ra’keem was not the type of man that I should have married. My boyfriend J is four years younger me, but he is more successful and established and more mature than any man I dated in the past. So, there are good men out there you just have to pray.Even though J is Muslim and I am Christian, we are still in a happy and funny relationship with one another. Moral of the story that sometimes you can’t wait for the perfect situation to get out of the storms that come in life. If someone has a boat then get in that boat ASAP. My friend had a boat , I got in his boat to a better life. My job is the boat that I needed, even though I am qualified to be a manager for right now there is a persecution on mothers in manager positions so I have to keep going and moving forward despite of.

Keep Going

I realize that I have to keep going because no weapon formed against me shall prosper. When you are in the midst of trial and tribulations you have to pray for your desired outcome. Pray against the spirit of failure. Pray against losing your job. Praying that you keep your job. Pray that you and your boyfriend can fix your relationship. Pray that you and your boyfriend stay together. Pray that money will come. Pray . Pray. and keep praying !!

Love Diamond,

Got Another Traffic Ticket & A Fine I Have To Pay

So , word of advice if you go to driving school in a different state and then move , make sure you study the laws of driving where you are . I was at a green light a police officer got behind my car ( trying to run my plate number ) I had the right a way ( because that is what I was taught in driving school 10 years ago ) but the driver did not want to give the right away and drove and I had to swerve to get out the way . Now , according to the police officer I failed to yield a left turn ( which is not true ). So there is another fine I have to pay . But I praise God that due to the other drivers irresponsible behavior I was not hit .


I Do Not Have A Choice But To Go Vegan

Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations.” – Jeremiah 1:5

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So I have been running from this ministry a long time . Back in my young days I felt God telling me at 19 to go vegan … But chick fil a had me bound . So . Guess who had to go to the emergency room because apparently there is imitation crab in sushi and it made her break out on her body ? Yup me . I realized that I can no longer eat meat . I don’t have a choice but to go 100 percent vegan .

Queen Diamond

By the way guys to keep you updated on my weight loss journey … I have officially lost 98 pounds in 1 year !!!!!! I started taking it serious last year I’m 98 pounds down ! Post partum depression mixed with PTSD and emotional eating made me gain it ! In almost at my military weight ! God is faithful !

GREAT NEWS

Ezekiel 2:5-7New International Version

And whether they listen or fail to listen—for they are a rebellious people—they will know that a prophet has been among them. And you, son of man, do not be afraid of them or their words. Do not be afraid, though briers and thorns are all around you and you live among scorpions. Do not be afraid of what they say or be terrified by them, though they are a rebellious people. You must speak my words to them, whether they listen or fail to listen, for they are rebellious.

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There are so many things that I love about God but I PRAISE God that he doesn’t need someone else to believe to move on someone’s behalf . Despite people opinion , God is going to do what he wants to do regardless and that is great news . So stop worrying , keep tithing , and keep believing God because there is great news waiting for you around the corner !

Queen Diamond

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Date : 2/06/2024