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Category: Cultural Background
I Want To Discuss The Topic Of Abuse
Isaiah 54:17New King James Version
17 No weapon formed against you shall prosper,
And every tongue which rises against you in judgment
You shall condemn.
This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord,
And their righteousness is from Me,”
Says the Lord.
As you all know I am divorcing a man who was very abusive to me financially , emotionally, and sometimes physically. Yet , I realized while doing therapy that I made that bad decision because of my childhood and not healing properly from it . Which is sadly common that people who were abused tend to go to an abuser in a relationship until they heal from what happened. Yet , while I looked online I saw something so disturbing and I won’t say there name but I will say it was disturbing . I saw a picture that a man made his wife cover her face in a leather mask , a bathing suit , and made her make him a sandwich and then posted a picture of it . One could only imagine what goes on behind the camera. Yet , in the midst of seeing that God said to me , “you couldn’t imagine what I am sparing you from and this is nothing compared to what is to come “. Sadly , because of social media abusive relationships are looking trendy because of a picture when in actuality it’s sick and sadistic . Abuse is never okay . People should not have to live with constant violence and chaos . I have had to learn that it’s better to be alone then be with a abuser . In my own situation I had to make the decision to ignore the church folk that told me to stay and instead follow Jesus instead . People of God and even people who are just coming across my blog , a man making a woman wear a leather mask in the house and nothing but a bathing suit , in heels to make him a sandwich is abuse and it is not normal and that is not art … it’s abuse .
Let Us Get Healthy & Whole ,
Queen Diamond
Why A Handsome Black Man Should Never Beg Another Man For Financial Help
Proverbs 28:19-23 NLT
A hard worker has plenty of food, but a person who chases fantasies ends up in poverty. The trustworthy person will get a rich reward, but a person who wants quick riches will get into trouble. Showing partiality is never good, yet some will do wrong for a mere piece of bread. Greedy people try to get rich quick but don’t realize they’re headed for poverty. In the end, people appreciate honest criticism far more than flattery.
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I want to tell a true story that really happened . So before I made the decision to file for divorce from my disgusting ex-husband , who allegedly got hit by a truck . But like after he got hit he mysteriously was able to go cheat with a woman he worked with a Waffle House because he believed he was getting 1.2 million dollars for a car accident that was really his fault and yes he did NOT get 1.2 million . So , my ex-husband named Ra’keem , decides that instead of working he would rather go beg his white lawyer for food to bring home to his black family (mind you this lawyer was one of the biggest lawyers in Greenville , North Carolina ) so that he could have more time to cheat with some bum female … because apparently me telling him to work two jobs to pay rent was to much for him as a man ( mind you I was working five jobs just to make ends meet because of the recession and being disabled … the disabled money was NOT enough to feed my daughter especially when you add rent , car note, car insurance , health insurance , food , clothes , electricity money , and basic needs). Now … when I found out that Ra’keem was constantly facing eviction and unable to pay rent on time and would rather stand outside the Tobacco shop in Greenville , North Carolina and beg other men for cigarettes and money instead of working I remembered those beautiful words that God said “do not marry Ra’keem” three years and the night before I said I do to Ra’keem . So …. I realized that I had a stronger work ethic than Ra’keem . But also Ra’keem REFUSED to watch my daughter Ruth , because it was getting in the way of his time to go sleep and cheat with the Waffle House worker AND he lied about getting promoted to manager , come to find out Ra’keem had not been to work in almost two weeks so he LIED and was begging and sleeping with another woman while I was at home trying to take care of my daughter and wondering where he was (because you know cheaters don’t answer the phone they just disappear for all hours of the day )….. So…. I was reading a article about how a rapper (who I personally do NOT like ) openly begged two white men for help to pay off his billion dollar debt . Then it clicked ! Like … that’s a serious issue . Do black men realize how bad that looks when his wife has to watch him beg another man for money to provide for his family ? Now because I made the BAD decision to marry this man , I have to start all over and fix my finances because of what he did. I have to continue paying for everything for myself while he can walk around freely stealing clothes from stores , getting high , and cheating with some idiot he met at Waffle House . But what does mommy have to do ? Mommy has to raise her daughter and love her despite what happened . So black men …. Do NOT do what my ex-husband did. Be a real man and work to provide for your family . Do not beg another man for a handout and don’t accept money from another man unless it’s business oriented. You do not understand how much your influence means to your family . Black man do better than my ex-husband .
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Now personally , I know that I will get married again . I love dark men , I LOVE dark men and brown men . I love when a man works hard and when he is a real man and he is serious about his business . I love when a man moves in silence and works in silence . I like when a man is a business man . I like a man who is a BOSS , not an employee but a BOSS (I mean you were an employee at one point and then you graduated into having your own business ) . I love when a black man is educated (even if it is a honorary degree that’s still smart ! ) , I love when a man doesn’t listen to his friends drama and does not let his friends disrespect his woman , and I LOVE THUGS ! So , I believe that there is a good man out there , right now I’m just focused on parenting .
Love ,
Queen Diamond
I Realize That Some Older Black Women Can’t Stand Young Black Women & I Got Time For It
So , although I discuss the ignorance that comes with living in AmeriKKKah , I have to address that some older black women are absolutely ignorant and they target younger black women to appease a different race . Now , this is NOT all older black women but you have to call it for what it is . To watch an older black woman be rude and nasty to a young black woman but turn around and kiss the butt of a white person, I begin to wonder have the older generation of blacks truly been delivered from the Jim Crow Era and the answer is some of these gray hair mustaches having women have not . I just saw a black woman the other day and she got a full beard 🧔♀️ and I can guarantee you she can’t stand another black woman . I don’t know who told you former Jim Crow women to be rude to the younger black women but that mess is stupid . Stop hating and start uplifting . It’s look absolutely terrible to see an another black woman attack another black woman but cater to a white person . That shows that you’re bound and you’re wrong and not the younger black woman . Get saved and delivered older black woman , wax your mustache, and let Jesus save your soul. Amen .
Queen Diamond
I am officially done with ministry
I am officially done with ministry.
A few years ago I felt like God had chosen me to be in ministry even though I hated it with all my heart. Lately, I have been doing the bare minimum just so God will leave me alone and stop afflicting me. But after making a terrible decision to marry my husband and dealing with the stupidity that comes with the church I made the decision that I am done with ministry. It’s not worth it. I’m not doing it and I do not care if someone else is a void filler because I refuse to preach. So, do not worry everyone, no I am not off the deep end, I just do not care anymore and I am done.
Seriously,
Diamond
Yes , This Generation Is Indeed Crazy
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Matthew 24:11-13Disciples’ Literal New Testament
11 And many false-prophets will arise and deceive many. 12 And the love ofthe majority will grow cold because of lawlessness being multiplied. 13 But the one having endured to the end[a]— this one will be saved.
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Disturbed Truth :
– Looking on the news this week I can honestly say I was indeed disturbed and my spirit was vexed by what I saw in the news . There was a report of police officers punching black women in the face for no reason for holding a baby . I saw a story of police officer blatantly lying on a police report to get someone in trouble when they pulled them over . I saw a story of a black man being jumped by racist people . I saw a story of a black mother whose baby head was decapitated while she was giving birth . There are attorney generals suing black women business owners for helping black people . Pennsylvania just removed the anti-racist law and the list goes on and on . Yet through it all the Lord said to me “in the last days the love of many will grow cold “. There is so much evil happening on the earth . I saw a news story in New Jersey about a landlord who gave hundreds of people , 24 hours to leave and find somewhere to go while destroying their credit and smirked on National television and thought it was funny (obviously he had a demon in him ) . People are lying out of pure jealousy , there are black Nazi’s that hate Jewish people which is a evil that has not been seen , and there are laws that are targeting children that come straight from the inspiration of Satan … yet God is still saying to trust HIM . I have to admit , even I have to hold on to the hem of Jesus garment right now as I to am being persecuted. As a black business woman and Christian , I have been lied on recently by a landlord ; the people that I was renting next to was literally waiting for me to have church so they could call the police on me (thankfully that didn’t happen ) because they didn’t like that it was a Christian church , my husband’s boss got offended that he said a Bible verse at work and came up with some elaborate scheme to call the police because he said a Bible verse , and there is the truth that stalkers watch me everyday trying to figure out where I’m having church so they can cause trouble . But God already told his people that these days would come . People of God you have to be strong . The word of God says the end is not yet . Think about the Christians in China that hide in dungeons having church . The world has rejected God due to the blasphemy of the word of God but we know as believers that we have to come out of the fire and one day the persecution will indeed end .Yet , when you have leaders like Vladimir Putin or someone in his likeness they attack them for doing the right thing . This generation is perverted , it’s sick , and it’s disgusting . All the people of God can do is pray and trust God to thrive in the midst of persecution . I believe that God will supply all of your financial needs despite this persecution that is on the earth .
Prayer : Father help those in financial emergency need . In Jesus Name , I pray thank God Amen .
Love Mixed With Faith ,
Apostle Diamond Chessier
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