Category: Black Culture

Let’s Be Real : You Need To Stop Smoking Weed ( Marijuana)

Now first of all im not a hypocrite , so I can say the Lord told me to stop taking Ashawangda. Ashawangda is a stem of marijuana , though you can buy it in stores like Walmart its still not a good supplement to take.

But in regard to weed ( marijuana) dont let a blunt cause you to miss a good opportunity. For example , in order to get into the Army you have to pass a drug test. You cant take edibles and you cant smoke any weed ( marijuana). You having a better life by enlisting into the military is more important that rolling up a blunt.

You have to let people go and there bad company go in order to focus on something better in the future and the long run. Sometimes you may even have to let go of you parents ( mother and father) in order to have a better life ( Psalms 27). Even if your mother smokes marijuana you need to stay away from her so that you’re not tempted to smoke weed either.

If you are a man reading this , you need to be a man and stand on your word. Do what needs to be done in order for you to progress in the future. Enlisting into the military ( Army ) is a good choice to get your life together. So go see the recruiter and do what needs to be done to better yourself. Like studying for a asvab, cleaning out your system, and getting married to your fiance before bootcamp so you can enjoy your enlistment together. Moral of the story, your good future and destiny isn’t worth a blunt. So focus on God instead!

Minister Precious – Diamond S. Chessier

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A Black Woman’s Son Is Not Her Husband

A Black Woman’s Son Is Not Her Husband

Leviticus 18:7-17

Easy-to-Read Version

7 “You must never have sexual relations with your father or mother. She is your mother, so you must not have sexual relations with her. 8 You must not have sexual relations with your father’s wife, even if she is not your mother, because that is like having sexual relations with your father.9 “You must not have sexual relations with your sister. It doesn’t matter if she is the daughter of your father or your mother. And it doesn’t matter if your sister was born in your house or at some other place.10 “You must not have sexual relations with your granddaughter. It doesn’t matter whether she is the daughter of your son or the daughter of your daughter—they are all a part of you!11 “If your father and his wife have a daughter, she is your sister. You must not have sexual relations with her.12 “You must not have sexual relations with your father’s sister. She is your father’s close relative. 13 You must not have sexual relations with your mother’s sister. She is your mother’s close relative. 14 You must not have sexual relations with the wife of your father’s brother. You must not go near your uncle’s wife for sexual relations. She is your aunt.15 “You must not have sexual relations with your daughter-in-law. She is your son’s wife, so you must not have sexual relations with her.16 “You must not have sexual relations with your brother’s wife. That would be like having sexual relations with your brother.17 “You must not have sexual relations with a mother and her daughter or her granddaughter. It doesn’t matter if this granddaughter is the daughter of this woman’s son or daughter. Her granddaughters are her close relatives. It is wrong to do this.

Pictures Say A lot

          When I look on social media I have seen some disturbing images of black mothers and their sons. I have seen black boys hugging their mothers and touching their butts and there posing as if they are in relationship with one another and its wrong. I want you to know that the word of God strictly prohibits this, but its severely common amongst black women.

          It is no secret that black families suffer the most, but it is also no secret that many black influencers are trying to present a better image for black families. But I do have to say something to these black women who are being extremely inappropriate with your son who is your own flesh and blood.

  • Your son is not attracted to you
  • Your son does not want to see your panties
  • Your son is not looking at you
  • Your son does not want to kiss you
  • Your son does not want to marry you

Young Black Men Need To Get Married and Have a Wife

          When a young black man finds a wife, his responsibility now is to his wife and their children, NOT the mother! As a mother you cant make his wife feel bad because he wants to spend time with her. This is not a competition, she is the wife and you as the mother is not the wife. Black women need not argue with there son’s girlfriend because he is becoming a man and preparing to become a husband. The word of God says a man shall leave his mother and cling with his WIFE (Genesis 2:24).

         The truth of the matter is a lot of black women are about to lose their relationships with there sons because of there inappropriate behavior. Another thing, as a black woman your son is not the replacement to his father because the father didn’t want you. Some black women will name the son after the father, kick the father out the picture, and then try to form a unusually affectionate relationship with the son (to make up for what went wrong with the father) and that is wrong. You are NOT his wife and you are NOT his girlfriend.

As A Black Mother

          As a black mother, if you know better you do better. You have to have boundaries with your children. As an older black woman you cant attack his wife, because you feel like you are being replaced.

One – Yes you are being replaced, because you are walking into a spot you are not supposed to be in. You are not supposed to be held in the honor of a wifely position with your son, and yes God is sending a wife quickly to get your son away from you because you are wrong. That is according to the Book of Leviticus.

Two – Your sons are not going to sympathize with you and they are not going to fall for your fake tears. Your son is going to choose his girlfriend or wife side, because YOU are inappropriate.

I grieve for the sake of black women, but I know that we will see a brighter day. But I have to address that. There is so many negative assumptions about black women and sadly many of it is true, but as a black woman (though I am mixed ethnicity) I feel like it is my job and due diligence to change the negative image of black motherhood into a positive image of black motherhood. Moral of the story, your son is not your husband. Stop bothering him and let him live with his wife and peace.

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A Successful Rushed Wedding ( Marriage Ceremony)

Psalm 23:5New International Version5 You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies.You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.

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The Wedding Season Is Upon Us

Marriage is a beautiful thing. But what happens when a rushed wedding is taking place ?! To be honest God doesn’t need a church for you to get married. You can go right to the court house and have a small marriage ceremony and say your vows and love happily ever after. Sometimes ego gets in the way of people in the church and causes them not to move in the proper timing that God asked them to do. But know that God waits for no man , and if God has approved of you being married well then get married !

A rushed wedding can still be a blessed wedding, you can go down to the court house and stand before the magistrate and say your wedding vows and BOOM , now you are married ! Next thing you know you’re on your honeymoon somewhere else living happily ever after.

Social Media

I say this because people are getting married withing the month of knowing each other. But why ? It’s the sign of the times.. The Bible says it’s better to marry than to burn with passion. Key word BURN ( STD). It is better to be in a protected marriage covenant , than to be walking around horny and infected !

With that being said , you can look on social media and see people are getting married and it’s by the leading of the Holy Spirit . There are deadly diseases mutation and right now the hub of it is in Texas.

Enjoy Your Rushed Wedding

Take time and enjoy your rushed wedding. Live a happy life after .. Move on with your life and be happy in a all circumstances. In regard to your living situation, there is nothing wrong with living with your husband’s mother ( in peace ). If your husband ask his mother if you all can live with her and she says yes because grateful and accept the blessing that God has given you.

Also, the word of God says not the overwise lest you destroy. If you want to be married , well put yourself in position to be married. Like spend your lunch break with your boyfriend , and have a great conversation. Do your part and you will be blessed

Minister Precious – Diamond S. Chessier

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Company On A Wednesday Morning

The sons born to Keturah, Abraham’s concubine: Zimran, Jokshan, Medan, Midian, Ishbak and Shuah. The sons of Jokshan: Sheba and Dedan. – 1 Chronicles 1:32

Bonding With One Another

Forming a new relationship and becoming boyfriend and girlfriend is a blessing. Even if you are tired and want to sleep consider that your significant other just wants to be in your presence and enjoy your company. When God is blessing you with companionship take that opportunity and enjoy it. Give that person your address , answer that phone call, and enjoy the company ( even if you’re asleep) so that you can develop a relationship that can grown and blossom into marriage.

Minister Precious – Diamond Chessier

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Engaged On The First Date

Ecclesiastes 11:4Living Bible

4 If you wait for perfect conditions, you will never get anything done.[a]

Micro-Dating

What is Micro-Dating ? Well in a world of economic turmoil that is happening world-wide , but particularly in the USA – people rarely have time to sit down and go on a date because of money , time , and finances. Many people find themselves having to juggle and balance hold 2-4 jobs at a time – which leaves a small amount of time to recall fully “date”. But you can “micro-date”. But how ? Well a quick date , immediately after work such as ;

  • Grabbing a cup of coffee from Starbucks immediately in the morning after your work shift – This gives you 1 hours to actually get to know your interest and ask a few questions about who they are and what do they like to do.. This can range from $2 – $30 micro date , which is quick , easy , and affordable !
  • Getting a quick bite to eat at Krispy Kreme Doughnuts – This makes you like urban and shows your love interest that you’re not super religious and that you are someone that they can talk to and ultimately get to know in the long run . This micro – date can range from $5 – $50, and you can sit there and enjoy a cup of coffee and get to know each other ..
  • Going on a walk and using it as a time to exercise together ! A walk is absolutely free of charge , and it can be a good idea for a picnic to sit down and talk and open up to each other . Why don’t you grab a blanket , some fruit , or some food that your significant other likes and take time to enjoy each other presence !

Taking time to enjoy micro dating , can lead to bigger dating and actually going a wonderful more expensive dates that can become actually engagement proposal . Dates like :

  • Dinner on a yacht ( boat )!
  • A boat tour of the city
  • A fun date like the arcade

There are so many great ideas that you could think of. Also, bring boyfriend/ girlfriend to church and introduce them to the faith of Christ !

The moral of the story is , the word of God says that faith without works is dead. If you want a spouse , then you need to do your part and actually date someone and get to know them so that you can become husband and wife !

  • John 3:16

Minister Precious – Diamond S. Chessier

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What A Night It Has Been

Isaiah 54:17New King James Version

17 No weapon formed against you shall prosper,
And every tongue which rises against you in judgment
You shall condemn.
This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord,
And their righteousness is from Me,”
Says the Lord.

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Being a parent comes with unexpected hospital visits. On this episode of the ghetto parenting life chronicles, my ( daughter Ruth) had to be admitted. I believe God for supernatural healing. ( Ruth ) was very sick and throwing up . I say this because as a parent don’t automatically assume that throwing up is normal because it could be a sign that the child needs to go to the doctor.

Because we will be in the hospital for one week. Moral of the story don’t automatically assume that your child is being “extra”, “dramatic”, or “doing something for attention”. Something could really be wrong so get it checked out !

Minister Precious – Diamond S. Chessier

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