Seeing Growth In All Area’s Of Your Life

Seeing Growth In All Area’s Of Your Life

2 Peter 3:18

New International Version

18 But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and forever! Amen.

The Power of Prayer

          When you pray you don’t want to experience something that is deemed as “dead prayer” – but instead you want to see a highly effective result in your prayer life. You want the blessings of God to stay on rotation and never to stop. When you pray you want God to change your life – and you don’t want to be stagnant in the spirit realm.

          You have to be willing to go to new deaths with God in order to have a better life. Take the limits off of God and believe that he can and will do everything that you asked for in prayer. Know that in order to see a breakthrough in your life, spending time with God is key! Put all of your focus on God and he will prepare a table for you in the presence of your enemies.

Don’t Give Up

          Even if you are seeing slow results – it doesn’t matter. That is still a result ! Don’t fall apart mentally because of something that has arisen doesn’t “feel” good. Instead keep your eyes focused on Christ! Think about it this way – in factories you have machines that produce products. When you pray – your prayers are like a machine that is causing what you need to manifest here on Earth. Every prayer that you release counts. You want to pray to activate angels to move on your behalf. You have to put your focus on what you need from God – and don’t stop praying until you see the hand of God move in your life.

          When praying you have to target and tackle everything that you need in prayer. Keep your faith in God lifted and don’t be down casted in the spirit realm. You have to keep spiritual momentum in prayer. Place your trust in God. Place your belief in God and know that the Lord will indeed make away. Always remember that prayer is your strongest spiritual warfare tool.

Work and Pray To Have A Better Life

          Life is not easy. Many people have strength to get something but are not strong enough to maintain it. Just like you pray for something – you have to be strong enough to maintain something. When you have a issue you have to focus on the God who controls the earth – and his son named Jesus. Psalms 1 says that you have to stay planted in Christ. Understand that pain leads to purpose. Even despite what you are going through you have to know how to love God through the good and the bad !

Love  Minister Precious – Diamond S. Chessier(Kelly)

A Black Woman’s Son Is Not Her Husband

A Black Woman’s Son Is Not Her Husband

Leviticus 18:7-17

Easy-to-Read Version

7 “You must never have sexual relations with your father or mother. She is your mother, so you must not have sexual relations with her. 8 You must not have sexual relations with your father’s wife, even if she is not your mother, because that is like having sexual relations with your father.9 “You must not have sexual relations with your sister. It doesn’t matter if she is the daughter of your father or your mother. And it doesn’t matter if your sister was born in your house or at some other place.10 “You must not have sexual relations with your granddaughter. It doesn’t matter whether she is the daughter of your son or the daughter of your daughter—they are all a part of you!11 “If your father and his wife have a daughter, she is your sister. You must not have sexual relations with her.12 “You must not have sexual relations with your father’s sister. She is your father’s close relative. 13 You must not have sexual relations with your mother’s sister. She is your mother’s close relative. 14 You must not have sexual relations with the wife of your father’s brother. You must not go near your uncle’s wife for sexual relations. She is your aunt.15 “You must not have sexual relations with your daughter-in-law. She is your son’s wife, so you must not have sexual relations with her.16 “You must not have sexual relations with your brother’s wife. That would be like having sexual relations with your brother.17 “You must not have sexual relations with a mother and her daughter or her granddaughter. It doesn’t matter if this granddaughter is the daughter of this woman’s son or daughter. Her granddaughters are her close relatives. It is wrong to do this.

Pictures Say A lot

          When I look on social media I have seen some disturbing images of black mothers and their sons. I have seen black boys hugging their mothers and touching their butts and there posing as if they are in relationship with one another and its wrong. I want you to know that the word of God strictly prohibits this, but its severely common amongst black women.

          It is no secret that black families suffer the most, but it is also no secret that many black influencers are trying to present a better image for black families. But I do have to say something to these black women who are being extremely inappropriate with your son who is your own flesh and blood.

  • Your son is not attracted to you
  • Your son does not want to see your panties
  • Your son is not looking at you
  • Your son does not want to kiss you
  • Your son does not want to marry you

Young Black Men Need To Get Married and Have a Wife

          When a young black man finds a wife, his responsibility now is to his wife and their children, NOT the mother! As a mother you cant make his wife feel bad because he wants to spend time with her. This is not a competition, she is the wife and you as the mother is not the wife. Black women need not argue with there son’s girlfriend because he is becoming a man and preparing to become a husband. The word of God says a man shall leave his mother and cling with his WIFE (Genesis 2:24).

         The truth of the matter is a lot of black women are about to lose their relationships with there sons because of there inappropriate behavior. Another thing, as a black woman your son is not the replacement to his father because the father didn’t want you. Some black women will name the son after the father, kick the father out the picture, and then try to form a unusually affectionate relationship with the son (to make up for what went wrong with the father) and that is wrong. You are NOT his wife and you are NOT his girlfriend.

As A Black Mother

          As a black mother, if you know better you do better. You have to have boundaries with your children. As an older black woman you cant attack his wife, because you feel like you are being replaced.

One – Yes you are being replaced, because you are walking into a spot you are not supposed to be in. You are not supposed to be held in the honor of a wifely position with your son, and yes God is sending a wife quickly to get your son away from you because you are wrong. That is according to the Book of Leviticus.

Two – Your sons are not going to sympathize with you and they are not going to fall for your fake tears. Your son is going to choose his girlfriend or wife side, because YOU are inappropriate.

I grieve for the sake of black women, but I know that we will see a brighter day. But I have to address that. There is so many negative assumptions about black women and sadly many of it is true, but as a black woman (though I am mixed ethnicity) I feel like it is my job and due diligence to change the negative image of black motherhood into a positive image of black motherhood. Moral of the story, your son is not your husband. Stop bothering him and let him live with his wife and peace.

Minister Precious-Diamond Sandre’a Chessier

Make Decisions That Are Beneficial To You

Galatians 6:9King James Version9 And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.

You Are Responsible For That Choice

Recently I was dealing with something and I had to set somethings in order. No one is allowed to make a decision for me because I’m a grown woman and I am responsible for my own life. In life even if you are in the trenches you have to keep fighting. Just because you are in a low point right now does not mean that the devil wants to give you rest and you have to keep fighting against the wicked and schemes of the devil.

When it comes to decision making don’t let someone make phone calls behind your back and make decisions on your behalf.

The truth of the matter is you need to know what’s going on in your own life. You can’t let people overstep their boundary and make a choice for you , you have to make your own choices. At the end of the day you are the one responsible for the financial aspect of every decision that you make. Not someone else. So be mindful and protect yourself from the phone calls and whispers of people trying to make a decision on your behalf , don’t allow them to do that.

Minister Precious- Diamond S. Chessier

Trusting God While Raising A Child Born Premature

Isaiah 53:5New International Version

But he was pierced for our transgressions,
    he was crushed for our iniquities;
the punishment that brought us peace was on him,
    and by his wounds we are healed.

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In 2021 I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl named Ruth, who was born premature. In the Black culture I don’t think premature birthing is discussed and how time consuming and how much it costs financially. Don’t think that once they get older the sickness is over because it’s not. Actually , as they get older more is discovered and because the medical field is evolving. When ( Ruth) was a baby , it was recommended that (she) have surgery.. However I didn’t feel the peace of God on that and that was when we were living in a house in Oxon Hill , Maryland. Years later as a single mother I am still dealing with the consequences financially of having a (baby that was born sick ) by myself.

In this season I am learning contentment and I am learning to thank God in all circumstances, in all situations, and all events. So I bless the name of the Lord in the midst of this. I thank God that he has provided insurance. I thank God he has provided money. I thank God he has provided more than enough for me to take care of my daughter.

i say this so that you know don’t think you have a premature baby it’s over when they turn one because it’s not.

You’re just getting started. There are unplanned emergency rooms visits, surgeries , doctor’s notes , excused absence from school due to medical reasons , pediatricians, and so much more involved with having baby born premature. My original due date was October 19, 2021 – she was born September 23, 2021.

No , the father ( Ra’keem ) has not been helpful. I have had to deal and handle this all financially myself but God has helped me. Moral of the story when you have a premature baby brace yourself for the reality of :

  • Stomach surgery
  • Autism diagnosis
  • Asthma
  • Speech Therapy

And so much more. But know that even if you are doing it as a single parent the Lord will send people to help you and he will indeed provide.

Sincerely,

Minister Precious – Diamond S. Chessier