Don’t Waste Your Time and Energy On Stupid Things

Don’t Waste Your Time and Energy On Stupid Things

1 Corinthians 15:33 New International Version – 33 “Do not be misled: “Bad company corrupts good character.”

So, I am very protective of who I let in my house. I don’t give anyone room to stir up drama or chaos or confusion. Matter of fact I am so guarded of myself that I don’t even let certain people touch my food. I guess because I have been through situations – where like even if I walk into the bathroom a jealous woman will storm out because of how I look.

          So, I have learned the hard way to protect myself from jealousy and to guard my time and energy. I made the decision to be wise and strategic on who I spend my days and times with and not entertain the presence of fools.

You never know when envy and jealousy are going to strike. You could be at Walmart, you could be at the mall shopping, or you could be at Target. Either way you must be careful because of the last days. Now that is not a sign to live paranoid – but it is a sign to guard your energy and be careful with who you are around. I believe that through Christ you can have everything you want. But you must guard what you ask for in prayer. Take my advice to live a better life. So that you can avoid the unnecessary trials, tribulations, and dark times that stem from being naïve to the envy of people. You must trust God from within.

Love Minister Precious-Diamond S. Chessier (Kelly)

Seeing Growth In All Area’s Of Your Life

Seeing Growth In All Area’s Of Your Life

2 Peter 3:18

New International Version

18 But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and forever! Amen.

The Power of Prayer

          When you pray you don’t want to experience something that is deemed as “dead prayer” – but instead you want to see a highly effective result in your prayer life. You want the blessings of God to stay on rotation and never to stop. When you pray you want God to change your life – and you don’t want to be stagnant in the spirit realm.

          You have to be willing to go to new deaths with God in order to have a better life. Take the limits off of God and believe that he can and will do everything that you asked for in prayer. Know that in order to see a breakthrough in your life, spending time with God is key! Put all of your focus on God and he will prepare a table for you in the presence of your enemies.

Don’t Give Up

          Even if you are seeing slow results – it doesn’t matter. That is still a result ! Don’t fall apart mentally because of something that has arisen doesn’t “feel” good. Instead keep your eyes focused on Christ! Think about it this way – in factories you have machines that produce products. When you pray – your prayers are like a machine that is causing what you need to manifest here on Earth. Every prayer that you release counts. You want to pray to activate angels to move on your behalf. You have to put your focus on what you need from God – and don’t stop praying until you see the hand of God move in your life.

          When praying you have to target and tackle everything that you need in prayer. Keep your faith in God lifted and don’t be down casted in the spirit realm. You have to keep spiritual momentum in prayer. Place your trust in God. Place your belief in God and know that the Lord will indeed make away. Always remember that prayer is your strongest spiritual warfare tool.

Work and Pray To Have A Better Life

          Life is not easy. Many people have strength to get something but are not strong enough to maintain it. Just like you pray for something – you have to be strong enough to maintain something. When you have a issue you have to focus on the God who controls the earth – and his son named Jesus. Psalms 1 says that you have to stay planted in Christ. Understand that pain leads to purpose. Even despite what you are going through you have to know how to love God through the good and the bad !

Love  Minister Precious – Diamond S. Chessier(Kelly)

Do You Believe God For A Love Story?

Do You Believe God For A Love Story?

“Do two people start traveling together without arranging to meet?” – Amos 3:3 GNT

          So, not going to lie my love life has not gone the way that I wanted too lately. I have had a rough journey in dating and I feel like lately God wants me to wait on his timing for a spouse. But as a single black woman, I have had a problem with dating cotton picking fools. Men who are extremely lazy, don’t work, don’t shower, momma’s boys, and so many other problems with them. So, because of my bad dating habits, I have been left broken and dealing with a lot of crap. So I made a announcement that the next man I date have to:

  • Be rich, handsome, and fight like (Floyd Mayweather Jr.)
  • Be rich and  handsome like Chris Brown
  • Be rich like Prince William

I absolutely refuse to date anymore broke men and I am not working with them to uplift them anymore. Growing up I never saw good relationships and I always watched women do stupid things because of men. So I was in high school dating grown men behind closed doors.

          But because of that I got into a bunch of terrible and bad relationships. I didn’t have “love” as a child and so I was just going from boyfriend to boyfriend. Well one day life got really serious because I became pregnant, and though I had money I was now dealing with a man (my ex-husband Ra’keem) who was jealous of me, and he was willing to do anything and everything to destroy me.

          So, in 2023 I lost my home, was evicted with (a child), lived in 4 different states, and then moved back to Chicago for a season. I learned the consequences of dating men who are irresponsible and cannot provide a house and home as a man. I don’t believe there is anything wrong with being single, but being in a relationship with the wrong person can lead to danger and disaster.

          I made the decision that for a season that I was going to take a long break from dating and get my life together. I made the decision that fixing my credit score, buying a car, buying a house, and working to fix and restore my career is way more important than dating a man right now. I think in church there is so many teachings on courting, but they are not telling you how bad the dating scene is right now in the Christian world right now.

          Don’t marry someone just because someone in the church say’s to. Get married to someone who is equally yoked to you in responsibility. Also, women do not marry any man that you have more money then. If you have more money than a man he will never be happy for you. Some men hide things under the rug and they wait until you get married to show you how evil, jealous, and envious of you. When a man is jealous of you because he can’t lead you financially – he will do everything that he can to destroy you.

          Even in the process of trying to lose weight, I was dealing with the men I was dating who was not happy for me and would try to argue with me about going to the gym to better myself. As a woman never try to make a man see your point of view if he is jealous of you because you already lost the battle. That is a mental issue that he has if he does not want you to go to the gym to better yourself as a woman. You need to believe God that he will send someone who will have high standards like you, and that he will surely bring someone that will encourage you to push someone to Christ. I know that they say “don’t be unequally yoked to an unbeliever” – but you have to understand a lot of men in the church are secretly gay. So if you have to marry a man who is not saved and you have to lead him to salvation remember 1 Peter 3:4 , “Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight”.

Are You Ready For The Overflow ?

“For I know the plans and thoughts that I have for you,’ says the LORD, ‘plans for peace and well-being and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope”. – Jeremiah 29:11 Amplified Bible

Are You Ready For The Overflow ?

          This year is coming to a close and it may not be ending like how you want it. But that does not mean that God does not want to do a overflow in your life in the future. Whether it’s your business, job, workplace, love life, money (finances), peace in your home, freedom from your past, a refill of joy, more opportunities – whatever it is know that God has more instore for you.

          Do not pay attention to the negative things that people say but instead focus more on the powerful things that God can do and perform in your life. The last few years I have overcome a lot of pain and humiliation. I was very shocked and surprised at how far people will go to hurt me. Many nights I cried myself to sleep disappointed in life, felt no need to pray, and had no hope. But one day I decided to remain steadfast in the armor of God and know that he will make a way out of no way. Don’t shrink or limit God but instead believe that God will show up in every circumstance in your life. Believe God that he can take you to a brand new level. Believe that God is going to move mountains and cause you to be walking, living, and breathing in expectation .In life everything is not perfect but even in that God is always faithful. Determine to have a heart of flesh and live in gratitude knowing that God is exactly who he says that he is.

Minister Precious-Diamond Sandre’a Chessier (Kelly)