God I Prayed To Be Married… So Why Did I Lose All My Female Friends?

Proverbs 31:3 New International Version (NIV)

Do not spend your strength[a] on women,
    your vigor on those who ruin kings.

When a woman doesn’t know who she is, she will begin to form void fillers. A void filler can be food, sex, and sometimes female friends. We run to women to spill all our guts, to vent, to cry, and to say life is just not even fair! When all is going good, meaning you have your money and your clothes… your “female friends” are there… but when you lose everything they may pretend to be there… but they end up kicking you while you’re down.

The Truth

I was so against marriage, but I know that God has spoken to me about something in particular in my life. And I have encountered something unusual… God has begun to deal with me about “women”.

Proverbs 30:20 New International Version (NIV)

20 “This is the way of an adulterous woman:
    She eats and wipes her mouth
    and says, ‘I’ve done nothing wrong.’

Do you see what that says? Not auntie, not best friend, and not sister… it says WOMAN. When you have old toxic friends from your past that are pretenders… meaning they talk about God, but their fruit does not match their words.

For Example:

You may go to church together, but when you’re alone in the car that “friend” just wants to talk about sex.

You just want to listen to worship music and be at peace, but she is texting you screenshots of another man’s wife , making fun of her, gossiping, and singing beyonce and other stupid songs that have nothing to do with God…. Hmmm sounds fake right?

You are trying to get your life together and focus on God, but she wont stop talking about random boys and sex… and sometimes even infront of her son…. Or her children…


But This Is What God Will Do

Sometimes we as Christians can be so stupid.. and gullible.. and we take GRACE way to far. So when God sees you drawing close to HIM … because faith without works is dead (James 2:26) GOD IS GOING TO REMOVE THAT FRIEND OUT OF YOUR LIFE… and guess what? It’s going to hurt. Because you couldn’t do it… God had to.. He had to step in because you ignored the signs…

Say It With Me

Rejection IS Protection !


But this is what they will do.

They will

  1. Blame it on you
  2. Make you seem like the liar even though, you’ve prayed for them, fasted for them , and interceded for them
  3. They will gossip about you and hurt you.. and sometimes its when you are at rock bottom
  4. They may pretend like they are going to help you, but they end up hurting you when you were low in life… they are jealous because although you don’t see it.. God is going to bring YOU out of it.. and The Bible says “we wrestle not against flesh and blood (Ephesians 6:12) but against principalities. That principality was jealousy because God has a plan for your life.

But think about this… When Jesus was about to be crucified and Pilate asked the people… which of the two do you want me to release to you?.. the people said JESUS Barabbas because they were jealous of God… like lucifer, they wanted a criminal instead of JESUS Christ the Messiah ..

The Revelation

This lets me know, that two people can be coming in the same name of Jesus but one is a criminal… and one is of God.. Let that friend go. To have a true Christian godly marriage, it comes with a price.. it comes with a cost.. You will endure some persecution , some depression , some isolation, and some loneliness.. and this is just preparation…

But God is sparing you from venting to the woman who pretends to be your friend in the future but secretly wants to sleep with your future husband..  You learn how to pray in the wilderness.. So keep going.. and DO NOT GIVE UP! If you are believing God to be married… you just keep trusting God and He is going to give you your hearts desire…..

Prophetic Word: 2020 is the year of marriage.

Matthew 27:11-27 New International Version (NIV)

Jesus Before Pilate

11 Meanwhile Jesus stood before the governor, and the governor asked him, “Are you the king of the Jews?”

“You have said so,” Jesus replied.

12 When he was accused by the chief priests and the elders, he gave no answer. 13 Then Pilate asked him, “Don’t you hear the testimony they are bringing against you?” 14 But Jesus made no reply, not even to a single charge—to the great amazement of the governor.

15 Now it was the governor’s custom at the festival to release a prisoner chosen by the crowd. 16 At that time they had a well-known prisoner whose name was Jesus[a] Barabbas. 17 So when the crowd had gathered, Pilate asked them, “Which one do you want me to release to you: Jesus Barabbas, or Jesus who is called the Messiah?” 18 For he knew it was out of self-interest that they had handed Jesus over to him.

19 While Pilate was sitting on the judge’s seat, his wife sent him this message: “Don’t have anything to do with that innocent man, for I have suffered a great deal today in a dream because of him.”

20 But the chief priests and the elders persuaded the crowd to ask for Barabbas and to have Jesus executed.

21 “Which of the two do you want me to release to you?” asked the governor.

“Barabbas,” they answered.

22 “What shall I do, then, with Jesus who is called the Messiah?” Pilate asked.

They all answered, “Crucify him!”

23 “Why? What crime has he committed?” asked Pilate.

But they shouted all the louder, “Crucify him!”

24 When Pilate saw that he was getting nowhere, but that instead an uproar was starting, he took water and washed his hands in front of the crowd. “I am innocent of this man’s blood,” he said. “It is your responsibility!”

25 All the people answered, “His blood is on us and on our children!”

26 Then he released Barabbas to them. But he had Jesus flogged, and handed him over to be crucified.

The Soldiers Mock Jesus

27 Then the governor’s soldiers took Jesus into the Praetorium and gathered the whole company of soldiers around him.

During This Hard Time

Keep praying and trusting God, endure this season of isolation… in two years … IF you keep pressing forward with God.. you WILL SAY “IT WAS NOBODY BUT GOD”

Love Mixed With Faith ❤ ,


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Apostle Glory S. Manasseh is a ordained prophetess and certified motivational speaker. She is the author of The Holy Bible : The Jesus Is LORD Translation which debuted as the #1 New release on Amazon. She is also a author of best selling books on Amazon. Apostle Glory S. Manasseh is a United States Marine Corps Veteran who honorably served her country, but left to pursue the will of God. She loves Jesus and is moving forward in her life "to do the work of a evangelist." Proverbs 9:10 The Voice (VOICE) 10 Reverence for the Eternal, the one True God, is the beginning of wisdom; true knowledge of the Holy One is the start of understanding. For Booking and Contact: authorapostlesandrea@gmail.com

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